In this episode, Kate interviews Deb for part 2 of understanding adolescence. They start to explore the sexual exploration of the adolescent experience and key things to explore with your kiddos. Deb talks about the importance of family orientation vs peer orientation and emphasized how we, as the parents, want to be the source of sexual education; emotional, physical, and behavioral.
Together they talked about the journey of maturation and the contradictions between the hook-up culture and the “liberated” mindset of sexuality in today's youth with the science of what happens in the brain when two people are sexually active.
Above all, it is our job as parents to be a trusting, safe, and solid resource for our children in all topics and especially sexuality.
Resources:
Hold On To Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld: https://a.co/d/c2ccFPY
Real Talk: https://myhealthed.org/
Talk to Me First: https://a.co/d/0inCGH4
Sex Positive Families: https://sexpositivefamilies.com
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It by Amy Lang MA: https://a.co/d/5olPpyo
Wait, What? A Comic Book Guide to Relationships, Bodies, and Growing Up by Heather Corinna, Isabella Rodman: https://a.co/d/0Fh8VO6
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A quick note about the Motherhood Uncut podcast:
Deb and Kate share quite a bit of information that they bring to the table from their work with mothers, children, and also their own lives. Anytime Kate and Deb share a client's story, they are actually bringing a number of different clients and situations they've seen in their work rather than talking about one particular client. They are never going to reveal names in the interest of protecting a person's anonymity. And on a regular basis, the two sit down with their girls to make sure what they share on this podcast is okay with them. So please know that anytime you hear specific details, Kate and Deb are really thoughtful and take into consideration how these examples might impact others in their lives. Thank