In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' Kaili Ets, pediatric occupational therapist and mom of two, discusses the commonly misunderstood topic of tongue ties in babies. Kaili shares her personal experiences, busts popular myths, and explains the importance of proper assessment and intervention. The episode also explores how tongue ties affect more than just feeding, impacting overall nervous system regulation and development. Learn how to trust your instincts and get the right support for your baby. Tune in, get curious, and empower yourself to navigate motherhood confidently.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:11 Understanding Tongue Ties

02:40 Common Myths About Tongue Ties

07:35 The Importance of Oral Function

08:31 Holistic Baby Flow Method

09:47 Conclusion and Next Steps

Grab the Mastering Oral Ties e-book and mini course here - https://courses.kailiets.com/tongue-tie-sp

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In episode 47 of 'Mothering from Within', host Kaili Ets, a mom of two and pediatric occupational therapist, explores the importance of embracing the pause in motherhood. Kaili shares her personal journey of navigating grief, listening to her body, and understanding the wisdom in waiting. She introduces the concept of Human Design and emotional authority, emphasizing the need for mothers to trust their instincts and the natural rhythms of their babies. 

Kaili discusses the significance of allowing babies and toddlers to grow and develop at their own pace, and offers practical insights on sleep and development. This episode is a gentle reminder that pausing is not procrastination, but a crucial part of the journey towards clarity and alignment in motherhood. 

Join the waitlist for Kaili’s new program, The Holistic Baby Flow Method, designed to support your baby’s sleep, development, and regulation through compassionate, body-based wisdom.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within

01:10 Navigating the In-Between Spaces of Motherhood

02:54 Understanding Human Design and Emotional Authority

04:50 Honoring the Pause in Motherhood

08:08 Practical Applications: Sleep and Development

10:36 Personal Reflections and New Beginnings

15:06 Conclusion and Invitation to the Holistic Baby Flow Method

Stay in Touch With Kaili

• Learn More About The Holistic Baby Flow Method - https://www.kailiets.com/flow
• Kaili's Instagram - @TheHolisticBabyGuru
• Book a Right Fit Call with Kaili right from her website - https://www.kailiets.com

The Myth of More: Finding Clarity in Motherhood

In this episode of 'Mothering From Within,' host Kaili Ets, a mom of two and pediatric occupational therapist, explores the concept of 'The Myth of More.' She discusses why constantly seeking new parenting tips and tricks may be exhausting and counterproductive. Instead, she advocates for a holistic approach to motherhood that focuses on calming the nervous system and tuning into both your and your baby's needs. Listen in to discover how less noise can lead to more clarity and connection in your parenting journey.

00:00 Introduction to Mothering From Within
02:01 The Myth of More: Why More Tips Aren't the Answer
03:37 Understanding the Nervous System and Parenting
07:09 Real-Life Example: Emily's Journey
08:55 Introducing the Holistic Baby Flow Method
10:19 Conclusion and Next Steps

Stay in Touch With Kaili

• Kaili's Website - www.kailiets.com
• Kaili's Instagram - @TheHolisticBabyGuru
• Book a Right Fit Call with Kaili - www.kailiets.com

What if everything you’ve been trying to figure out in motherhood—your baby’s sleep, their feeding struggles, their reflux, their fussiness—was actually all connected?

In this deeply personal episode, host Kaili Ets, pediatric OT and mama of two, shares why she’s merging all of her courses, workshops, and resources into one holistic path: The Holistic Baby Flow Method™.

From the burnout of “doing it all,” to the invisible load of motherhood, and the grief of losing her father earlier this year, Kaili reflects on what it really means to slow down, simplify, and support mothers and babies at the root—nervous system safety and connection.

This isn’t a tips-and-tricks episode. It’s a heartfelt reflection on the emotional and energetic transformation that happens when we stop treating everything in silos—and start creating systems that truly serve.

In this episode, Kaili shares:
✔ Why she’s letting go of multiple courses and offers
✔ The hidden cost of fragmentation (for mamas and babies)
✔ How her personal grief led to a professional rebirth
✔ Why nervous system safety is the common thread behind sleep, reflux, and regulation
✔ A sneak peek at the Holistic Baby Flow Method™ coming soon

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome
01:00 – A heart-to-heart about slowing down
02:00 – The impact of grief & burnout
04:30 – Too many tabs open: why fragmentation isn’t helping
06:00 – The invisible load of motherhood
07:15 – Letting go of control & trusting your body
08:30 – Why everything is connected
09:00 – What families actually need
10:00 – Introducing the Holistic Baby Flow Method
11:00 – A collective invitation to simplify

🎁 Want to be the first to hear about the Baby Flow Method launch? Send a DM to @TheHolisticBabyGuru to be added to the waitlist!
 📘 Grab Kaili’s book Mothering From Within → [www.kailiets.com/book]
📱 Follow @theholisticbabyguru for more support

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If your baby is fussy, hard to settle, clingy, or always wants to be held…
 And you feel touched out, overstimulated, and just done by the end of the day…

This episode is for you. 💜

Join pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby expert Kaili Ets for a powerful conversation about mother–baby nervous system co-regulation—what it means, how it works, and why it’s often the missing link when sleep, feeding, or fussiness feel out of control.

You’ll learn:

• Why your baby feels your stress—even when you’re doing your best to hide it
• What co-regulation really means (hint: it’s not just skin-to-skin or babywearing)
• How a dysregulated caregiver affects baby’s nervous system development
• Simple strategies to support your own nervous system (even in 30 seconds)
• Why nervous system work isn’t about doing more—it’s about feeling safer together

This episode will help you feel seen, supported, and more empowered to meet your baby’s needs without sacrificing your own well-being.

🕒 Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome back to Mothering From Within
01:01 – Nervous system dysregulation in both moms & babies
03:17 – Why your baby mirrors your state (co-regulation 101)
06:10 – Regulation is felt, not forced
09:33 – How your own nervous system sets the tone for your baby
13:14 – Tips to support regulation in your daily rhythms
17:45 – Final thoughts & gentle encouragement

✨ Resources & Support:
📘 Grab Mothering From Within the book → https://www.kailiets.com/book
📍 Work with Kaili 1:1 or learn more about support → https://www.kailiets.com

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 Tag @theholisticbabyguru and let’s keep this conversation going!

Does your baby feel stiff in your arms?
 Arch their back when feeding or crying?
 Struggle to settle or relax—even when all their “needs” seem met?

You’re not imagining it—and it’s not just colic, gas, or a “hard baby.”

In this episode of Mothering From Within, pediatric OT Kaili Ets shares what it really means when a baby feels tight, fussy, or hard to settle—and how body tension in babies often goes unrecognized and misunderstood by both professionals and well-meaning family members.

You’ll learn:

• What “holding tension” looks like in babies (subtle and obvious signs)
• The connection between birth experiences, body patterns, and behavior
• Why some babies arch, hate lying flat, or can’t fully relax—even when fed and loved
• The emotional toll on moms when no one listens to their concerns
• How to start supporting your baby’s body gently, without waiting for a diagnosis

This episode is your reminder that if your baby feels “off,” your instincts are likely right—and there is help available.

🕒 Episode Highlights:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
00:57 – You can feel when something’s off
03:41 – Why this episode matters: the missing conversation
06:30 – Signs your baby may be holding tension
09:27 – How birth, positioning, and compression affect baby’s body
12:10 – Colic, reflux, feeding issues—could tension be underneath it all?
14:45 – Why your baby’s discomfort isn’t “just a phase”
17:03 – The toll on moms when no one validates your concerns
19:56 – What to do next: looking deeper, trusting yourself, finding support

✨ Resources & Next Steps:
📘 Grab Kaili’s book: Mothering From Within → https://kailiets.com/book/
🎁 Download the Free Baby Body Tension Guide → https://freebie.kailiets.com/baby-tension
📍 Interested in local support or research participation? Learn more → https://kailiets.com/therapy/

💜 If this episode resonated, share it with another mama who needs it—and tag @theholisticbabyguru so Kaili can cheer you on.

In this expert-packed episode of Mothering From Within, pediatric OT Kaili Ets is joined by Marisa Marino, a seasoned pediatric physical therapist who specializes in torticollis and plagiocephaly (flat head syndrome) in babies as well as pre/postnatal women's health.

Together, they break down:

• What torticollis and plagiocephaly actually are (and what causes them)
• The difference between a baby’s head turning preference and a true diagnosis
• Simple positioning strategies to try at home
• How to spot early signs before it becomes a bigger issue
• When to seek professional support—and what therapy might look like

Whether you're noticing a flat spot on your baby’s head, struggling with tummy time, or hearing new words like “plagiocephaly” or “torticollis” from your provider—this conversation will help you feel more informed, empowered, and supported.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:14 – Meet Marisa Marino, pediatric physical therapist
03:03 – What is torticollis? What is plagiocephaly?
04:50 – How head shape and positioning are connected
09:44 – Treatment strategies + tummy time tips
12:11 – What the research says & how to advocate for your baby
26:22 – Final reflections & where to find Marisa

Perfect for parents who are:
• Noticing their baby always turns their head one way
• Concerned about flat spots on their baby’s head
• Wondering if tummy time is enough
• Looking for holistic, gentle alternatives to “wait and see”

💜 Know a mama who needs this? Forward the episode or tag us on IG!
Follow Kaili → @theholisticbabyguru
Find Marisa → [email protected]

Want to participate in my Torticollis research study?  Book your FREE session here

In this episode of Mothering From Within, Kaili Ets—pediatric occupational therapist and holistic baby guru—dives deep into the often misunderstood condition of Torticollis in babies.

If your baby constantly turns their head to one side, struggles with tummy time or latching, hates one breast, or seems tight and fussy when lying flat—this episode is a must-listen.

You'll learn:

• What torticollis actually is (spoiler: it's more than just a neck issue)
• The connection between torticollis and tongue ties
• Common causes, from in-utero positioning to birth interventions
• Why your baby’s tension might be showing up as feeding, sleep, or motor issues
• Why passive stretching alone often isn’t enough—and what you can do instead

Kaili also shares how craniosacral therapy, osteopathy, and whole-body approaches can gently support babies with head turning preference—without forcing movement or waiting it out.

If you’re local to Stoney Creek, Burlington, or Ancaster, she’s also inviting families to participate in her osteopathy thesis research project focused on gentle, effective support for babies with torticollis.

🕒 Episode Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to Mothering From Within
01:11 – Personal update + what inspired this episode
01:43 – What is torticollis? Signs & red flags
04:07 – Common causes of torticollis in babies
05:51 – Why torticollis is more than a neck issue
09:39 – Torticollis & tongue tie connection
15:06 – Why stretching alone isn’t always enough
18:52 – Join Kaili’s local research study (free treatment opportunity!)
19:54 – Final thoughts + how to support your baby holistically

✨ Resources Mentioned:
📘 Mothering From Within – Kaili’s book: A holistic guide to sleep, reflux, feeding, baby development & maternal well-being. Buy your copy here.
🎁 [Free Baby Body Tension Guide] – Learn how to identify subtle signs of body tension at home
📍 [Join Kaili’s Research Study] – For local families with babies experiencing torticollis or head turning preference

In this episode, Kaili dives deep into the topic of “colic” and what it really means when your baby is crying inconsolably. She challenges the catchall label of colic, encouraging parents to trust their instincts and look beyond the surface for possible root causes.

Key Topics Covered:

[01:12]  What “colic” actually means and why it’s often just a label, not an explanation.

[03:10] The importance of trusting your parental intuition when something feels off with your baby.

[04:28] Common root causes of excessive crying in babies, including:

• Nervous system sensitivity and sensory overload
• Emotional processing from birth or in utero experiences
• Digestive issues (food intolerances, gut health, reflux, etc.)
• Body tension and compression from birth or positioning
• Oral dysfunction and feeding challenges
• Practical steps for parents:

[09:37]  What Parents Can Do

• Trust your gut and observe patterns in your baby’s behaviour
• Consider holistic support options like craniosacral therapy, osteopathy, or pediatric OT
• Focus on co-regulation—your calm helps your baby’s calm
• Seek support when needed; you don’t have to do it alone

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Baby Body Tension Guide 
• Kaili’s book, “Mothering From Within” 
• In-person and virtual support options for parents

Takeaway Message:
You know your baby best. Colic is not the end of the story—it’s a signal. With the right support and clarity, you and your baby can find your rhythm again. Trust yourself, trust your baby, and remember: you’re doing an incredible job.

Connect with Kaili:

• Kaili's Website
• Kaili's Instagram
• Book a Right Fit Call with Kaili
• For in-person support (Stony Creek/Hamilton area) or virtual resources - www.kailiets.com
• Share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!

In this heartfelt episode, Kaili sits down with Gail Gabriel, a fellow occupational therapist, NICU mama, and founder of The NICU Collective. Gail shares her raw and powerful journey from the unexpected early delivery of her son at 30 weeks to navigating the NICU, early intervention, and her own emotional healing.

Whether you’ve experienced a high-risk birth, a NICU stay, or just the intense uncertainty of new motherhood, this episode offers real talk, deep compassion, and hard-earned wisdom.

You’ll hear about:

• What it's really like to bring home a premature baby
• How to shift from fear to trust—even after trauma
• The power of community and sharing your story
• Mental health, NICU PTSD, and finding your way back to self
• Why creating space for your healing matters as much as your baby’s development

Gail’s story will resonate deeply with any mama who’s ever felt out of control, isolated, or overwhelmed—and her insights will help you feel seen, supported, and not alone.

🕒 Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome & Kaili’s intro
03:18 – Meet Gail Gabriel: OT, mom, NICU warrior
06:46 – Gail’s birth & NICU story: a 30-week surprise
11:25 – Trauma, healing, and finding her footing again
17:52 – Mental health, fear, and building resilience
22:00 – Finding support when no one else gets it
26:49 – The NICU Collective: creating safe spaces for NICU families
30:25 – Why sharing your story matters
31:40 – Redefining self-care as a NICU mom
36:35 – Gail’s takeaway: the NICU journey shapes you
41:00 – Final reflections + where to find Gail

💜 Connect with Gail:
Instagram: @nicu_collective
Facebook: NICU Collective

📘 Grab Kaili’s Book: Mothering From Within – your compassionate, holistic guide to baby sleep, development, reflux, and more - https://www.kailiets.com/book

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