Abby Theuring is a big advocate for breastfeeding your own children. She is the owner of www.thebadassbreastfeeder.com/ and was recently on the news for sharing some of her opinions about breastfeeding and why it's good for your children. She is also a self-identified attachment parent and today talks to Rosemary a little bit about what that means and how you can maybe become one too.
2:00 – There's a lot of moms who want to breast feed their children, but are afraid of the stigma. Abby tries to help with that.
4:45 – She struggled with breast feeding at the beginning.
8:45 – What is attachment parenting? It's taking a more 'villager' old-fashion approach to just holding your baby more, sleeping with your baby more, and giving your baby more sense of touch than what modern times provides. It's not a club, just an idea of how you can be closer to your child.
11:05 – When I became a mother, I didn't know what was going on. She was very disconnected to her mothering instincts and it took her awhile to learn that.
15:30 – When Abby learned about attachment parenting, it all made sense to her and it made sense with how she wanted to raise her child.
17:30 – If you have a million moms in a room, you'll have a million different ways to do things. Empowering women is not about telling them what to do it's about helping them discover what's right for them.
23:30 – Rosemary started Motivating Other Moms to give other moms support and thinks Abby is also helping with that message.
28:00 – Attachment parenting is about building a close bond with your child, not whether you use a stroller or not use a stroller. You can do either as long as you are building a close bond with your baby.
32:00 – Abby still breastfeeds her 3 year old and was on the news to talk about it. She thought people received it pretty well. She thought mothers appreciated her for coming out and talking about such a controversial topic.
37:00 – Why is there such a stigma to breastfeeding in public? Abby thinks we have an over-sexualized culture and women/mothers are undervalued. Formula is also widely used, so why breastfeed? We have an alternative now, therefore breastfeeding doesn't need to be used.
42:25 – Despite reading tons of parenting books, Abby was still under prepared, which is why she created her blog.
45:40 – What is Abby's current favorite parenting book? Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn
Mentioned In This Episode:
www.thebadassbreastfeeder.com/
Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn