“Why Was There No One?” Series: “Questions God Asks”
Children, as you know, can at times be the sweetest angels, while at other times they can be the cruelest of God’s creatures. Under the latter category, I have been indelibly marked by a story that was told to me soon after I had moved from my birthplace of Mobile to what would become my hometown in West Alabama. You will remember from your own childhood how one of the most important lessons you could ever learn had to do with social codes and interpersonal cues, and who was “in” and who was “out,” and other vital information that might keep you from forever being on the outside looking in.
The story I was told had to do with another child in the community who was definitely in the “out” category. She was by no means the most attractive girl in town, nor was she among the more intelligent kids in my sixth grade class. She was instead the type of child that when someone inadvertently brushed up against her, they would be compelled to wipe away what they thought were germs she had passed on to them.
Lo and behold, one day, she received in the mail an invitation to an anonymous birthday party at the community recreation center. She never got invited to parties. So, you can imagine her excitement. She wore her nicest dress, put a bow in her hair, made sure she had a suitable present, and then had her parents drive her over to the recreation center. No one was there yet, but it didn’t matter much to her. She just waited, and waited, and waited.
I dare say that a good number of us here this morning have some experience with what it’s like to get stood up, although for most of us when that has happened, the absence of the other party was due to some miscommunication. Somebody showed up at the wrong coffee shop, or on the wrong day, or at the wrong hour. But even then, we will never forget the sick feeling in the pit of our stomachs as the thought crossed our minds that someone just may have disrespected to such a degree that they simply didn’t bother to show.
If you’ve never had to go through such an experience, then good for you; but if you have, know that you’re not alone. God knows what it’s like to be stood up, even when He has chosen to show up to perform some mighty work of deliverance that those who were to be on the receiving end weren’t patient enough to wait for.
We see God’s story of rejection in this passage that’s before us this morning from the book of Isaiah. This section of Isaiah has to do with God’s Word to the exiles in Babylon, a conquered people who had been taken away from their homeland against their will to a strange land, where they had to learn new codes and cues and what to do in order to survive. Their assumption was that God had forgotten them and forsaken them (Isa. 49:14).
But nothing could have been further from the truth. God, in His steadfast love, had neither forgotten nor forsaken His chosen people. As the passages around this one suggest, God commissioned Isaiah to paint a vivid word picture of how in His time the tables will be turned and His people’s captors will bring them back to Zion, and all of this will be a work of salvation that only God will have been able to bring about. Unfortunately, the exiles follow up God’s promise with questions about God’s ability to come through in such a mighty way, questions which God answers with questions of His own.
“Where are the divorce papers that I filed, or the bill of sales by which I sold you into slavery?” In other words, “I’m not the one who is to blame for what you’ve gone through. If you’ve landed in a strange land, it’s because of how you would not embrace me and how you chose to take matters into your own hands.”
Of all the questions God poses to His people, the one that gets my attention is this question in verse 2: “When I came, why was there no one? When I called, why was there no one to answer?” I hear those questions as God’s way of asking why when He showed up to do for them what no one else could have done, the people were nowhere to be found. It wasn’t God who was a “no-show”; it was the people. God came to meet them at their point of deepest need, but instead of receiving what God was prepared to give, they stood up God, plain and simple. There’s no other way to describe it.
We hear a story like this and our first response is, “Well, I’d never do anything like that! I’d never stand God up! I’d never leave God in a lurch!” But can we always say that we are faithful to be where God calls us to be so that we never miss out on His help and His hope? I’m not sure that we can. It’s not so much that we fail to show up when God calls us to meet Him; it’s more the case that we do show up, but when God fails to make His presence and power known when we think He ought, we become impatient and we leave to look for other avenues of encouragement and support, so that when God does show up to respond, we are nowhere to be found, leaving God to wonder, “Where did they go?” “Why was no one here to greet me?”
Isaiah’s prophecy points to a deep flaw in the human heart, a flaw that presumes that God should always work on our timetables and according to our schedules. For example, in Isaiah’s day, the people had been in exile for decades and had assumed that God had given up on them, which led them to turn to other nations and to the gods of other nations. In our day, we are more subtle but nonetheless equally sinful. When God seems silent in the face of our challenging circumstances and situations, we turn inwardly to our work or our hobbies or our families or our friends, none of which is inherently bad, but all of which can become so when we allow them to take a place in our souls that should always be reserved for God.
Why is it that we find it so hard to wait upon the LORD? Might it be that unlike the people in Isaiah’s day, we have become unduly proud people; secure in ourselves, who think it beneath ourselves to wait on anyone to show up, even God? Proud people can never wait on God to show up. They will inevitably lose patience and be long gone before God does show up. Only desperate people, people who know they have nowhere else to turn, will hold fast in their faith that in His time God will arrive, and when He does, He will do something only God can do.
How desperate, then, are you? How willing are you to wait upon God and to trust your life to His timing? Or, has your pride become a stumbling block that keeps us from being open to God doing a work in and through you that only God can do?
Perhaps it precisely this matter of pride that makes children far more patient than adults. As we age into adulthood, progress becomes our main concern so that we find it hard to associate inactivity with personal gain. But children? They show a remarkable propensity for going off the clock and being open to the seemingly impossible and expecting something good to come about when no one else around them is in that frame of mind. It’s like the little boy who was seen by a shopping mall security guard standing at the bottom of a department store escalator. The boy had his eyes fixed on the handrail and for the life of him would not take them away. The security guard asked the boy, “Son, are you lost?” To which the little boy replied, “No, sir; I’m just waiting for my chewing gum to come back.”
Maybe that too is something of what Jesus was talking about when he told his disciples, “Unless you change and become like little children, you will never see the Kingdom of Heaven” (Mt. 18:3). While the vast majority of people in our world today are primed to expect instant gratification in every aspect of daily life, we have had our hearts and minds changed so that we know how to wait – like Adam who waited for a helpmate, like Noah who waited for the flood waters to recede, like Jacob who had to wait to marry his beloved Rachel, like Hannah who waited for her son Samuel, like the Israelites who had to wait for the Promised Land and then wait some more to be delivered back to it from their exile, like Jesus who waited in the wilderness before embarking on his earthly ministry, and like the first disciples who waited in the city until they were armed with power from on high. We wait with the confidence that in every situation God is at work and that He is at work for our best interests so that we have only to be patiently open to God’s timing and not be rash by taking matters into our own hands.
So, fix up and find your way to the place to which God has called you, and wait, and wait, and wait. You can be certain that God in His time will show up. He will not forget you. And when He does, when God shows up, rest assured that what He does in you and what He does for you and what He does through you will be more than worth your wait.
Isaiah 50:1-2