Move Over Mama

Actor Martin Dingle Wall joins Emily Jade and Millie Valentine for a conversation about bullying, identity, sobriety, and finding the courage to follow your own path.

Martin left school at 16 to pursue art, went on to work for Walt Disney, and eventually found his way into acting. After being rejected by acting schools, he landed a role on Home and Away and built a career that took him to Los Angeles and onto film sets alongside Nicole Kidman, Antonio Banderas and Joseph Fiennes.

In this episode, Martin opens up about what school was really like for him, how discovering art helped him find his place in the world, and why he believes you need to love the process rather than depend on other people to validate your success.

He also speaks candidly about his time in LA, getting sober, the challenges of starting over, and how learning to trust himself changed his life. Plus, he shares the extraordinary story of starring in a Russian film despite not speaking the language.

Martin is now starring in This Bloody Country, a Western that explores survival, faith, pride and the strength of the human spirit.

His message to teenagers? Listen to that voice inside you, trust it, and give yourself permission to discover who you really are.

IN THIS EPISODE

• Being bullied at school and feeling like you don't fit in

• Leaving school at 16 to pursue art

• Working for Walt Disney

• Going from Home and Away to an international acting career

• The reality of living and working in Los Angeles

• Getting sober and finding a new direction

• Acting in a Russian film without speaking Russian

• His new film, This Bloody Country

• Advice for teenagers finding their own path

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From school counsellor to award-winning TikTok creator, Havea676 never expected a few funny family videos to change his life.

On this special live episode of Move Over Mama, Emily Jade and Millie Valentine sit down with Havea676 at The Star Gold Coast to talk about fatherhood, family, fame and the leap of faith that turned content creation into his full-time career.

Havea676 shares how a funny video with his daughter reached around half a million views overnight, what it was like to leave his job as a school counsellor, and how his wife supported him through a huge career change.

He also opens up about the reality of sharing family life online, protecting the things that should stay private, his Tongan heritage, and the unexpected opportunities that have come with being a creator, including meeting Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson.

Plus, he shares an important message for teenagers who are still figuring out their future: there's no time limit on anything.

🏆 Comedy Creator of the Year in 2024
🏆 TikTok Creator of the Year in 2025

Recorded live at The Star Gold Coast in support of Act for Kids.

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Why do we keep choosing the same type of person — even when those relationships don't work out?

In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with love coach and author Belinda Love to uncover the hidden patterns that can shape who we fall for, how we behave in relationships, and why we sometimes repeat the same mistakes without even realising it.

Belinda opens up about her own experiences with heartbreak, being rejected on national television on The Bachelor Australia, difficult relationships, and the childhood experiences that shaped her own beliefs about love.

We dive into:

• What a “love imprint” actually is
• How childhood experiences can shape our future relationships
• Why we can repeat unhealthy relationship patterns
• Belinda's experience of being abandoned by her first love
• Walking in on a partner cheating with her best friend
• How heartbreak can affect the way we see ourselves
• Why we sometimes choose people who aren't right for us
• How to recognise your own relationship patterns
• Learning to stop looking externally for validation
• How to build healthier relationships
• Advice for teenagers experiencing their first heartbreak
• How to know whether someone is actually right for you
• Breaking the cycles we inherit from our parents

This episode is honest, vulnerable, funny and incredibly relatable — especially if you've ever wondered why you seem to keep ending up in the same relationship patterns.

If you've ever had your heart broken, struggled to let someone go, or wondered why you keep choosing the wrong people… this one's for you.

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What does a healthy teenage relationship actually look like — and how can you tell when something has crossed the line from love into control?

In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with psychologist, violence-prevention and bystander-education expert Shaan Ross Smith to unpack the conversations every teenager — and every parent — should be having about relationships, consent, boundaries and red flags.

From controlling behaviour that can initially look romantic, to phone passwords, location sharing, jealousy, isolation and social media, Shaan explains what healthy relationships should feel like and what friends and parents can look out for when something doesn't seem right.

We dive into:

• What a healthy teenage relationship should feel like

• When caring behaviour becomes controlling

• The biggest red flags in teenage relationships

• Jealousy, possessiveness and isolation

• Phone passwords, location sharing and social media boundaries

• Consent and respecting boundaries

• What to do if an intimate image is shared

• How bystanders can step in when they notice something isn't right

• Why isolation is often the first warning sign

• How parents can have better conversations with teenagers

• Supporting teens through breakups and difficult relationships

One of Shaan's biggest messages is simple:

"Love should expand you, not restrict you."

This is an important conversation for every teenager, parent and trusted adult.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with mother and daughter duo Nadine and Taylah Steedman to uncover the real story behind one of Australia's most loved social media families.

If you're on TikTok, Instagram or YouTube, there's a good chance you've seen the Steedman family lip-syncing, dressing up, pranking each other and convincing Mum and Dad to get involved in yet another video.

But behind the millions of views is a much deeper story about family, motherhood, breaking generational cycles and creating the kind of home your children never want to leave.

Nadine opens up about getting married at just 17 years old, starting life with almost nothing, and the powerful experiences that shaped the family she was determined to build.

Together, Nadine and Taylah share what life is really like behind the cameras, how their family handles fame and social media, and why being genuinely close to your family has become one of the biggest reasons people connect with them.

We dive into:

• Getting married at just 17 years old
• Starting a life together with almost nothing
• The story behind the famous Steedman family
• How social media changed their lives
• What happens behind the cameras
• Breaking generational cycles
• Raising children who actually want to be around their parents
• The importance of being present as a mum
• Why their family chooses to stay close together
• The pressures and boundaries of sharing your life online
• Why followers don't automatically have the right to know everything
• How social media has shown them just how lucky they are to have each other

One of the most powerful moments of the episode comes when Nadine shares the message one of her children sent her:

“Thank you for giving us a life, Mum, that we've never had to heal ourselves from.”

This episode is funny, honest, emotional and a beautiful reminder that family doesn't have to be perfect to be special — and that sometimes the greatest thing you can do is break a cycle and create something better for the generations that come after you.

If you've ever wanted a closer relationship with your family, wondered what really happens behind the scenes of social media, or believed that your childhood doesn't have to define the family you create in the future… this one's for you.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with Gold Coast creator Happy Allan to uncover the real story behind one of Australia's most unexpected social media success stories.

Known for shoving cream buns into his face and making millions of people laugh, Happy Allan has turned a completely random talent into a career — but there's a lot more to his story than viral food videos.

From growing up as the "naughty" ADHD kid at school and being raised by a single mum, to discovering his ADHD as an adult, surviving testicular cancer, and eventually turning a three-minute cream bun video into one million views in just 10 hours, Happy opens up about the experiences that shaped who he is today.

We dive into:

• Growing up as the class clown and ADHD kid
• Being raised by a single mum
• Realising later in life how hard his mum worked for him
• Discovering ADHD and understanding himself differently
• The struggles of being an undiagnosed ADHD teenager
• Being diagnosed with testicular cancer
• The moment doctors told him he had an aggressive form of cancer
• How a random cream bun challenge went viral
• Getting 1 million views in just 10 hours
• Turning social media into a full-time career
• The reality behind being a content creator
• Learning to embrace who you are
• Advice for teenagers about stress, mental health and the future

Happy also opens up about the importance of living in the moment rather than constantly worrying about what comes next — something he wishes he could have told his teenage self.

This episode is hilarious, honest, emotional and a powerful reminder that sometimes the things that make you feel different can become the very things that make you successful.

If you've ever felt like the "naughty kid", struggled to understand yourself, worried too much about the future, or wondered whether being completely yourself could actually become your greatest strength… this one's for you.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with singer, songwriter and performer Ethan Dahl, who is proving that age is no barrier when it comes to chasing your dreams.

From starring in Billy Elliot and Priscilla Queen of the Desert to opening for Pete Murray and releasing his own original music, Ethan shares the highs, challenges and sacrifices that come with following your passion while still being a teenager.

Together, we explore the realities of balancing school, friendships and performing, as well as the hard work, determination and resilience needed to succeed in the music industry.

We dive into:

• Ethan's journey from musical theatre to recording artist

• Life as a teenage performer

• Writing and recording his latest single, Wrong Girl

• Opening for Pete Murray

• Overcoming nerves and self-doubt

• Learning to perform on stage

• Balancing school, music and friendships

• Advice for young people chasing their dreams

• The realities of life behind the scenes in the music industry

This episode is honest, funny, inspiring and full of valuable advice for anyone who has ever dreamed of turning their passion into a career.

If you've ever wondered what it takes to chase your dreams, overcome setbacks and keep moving forward when nobody else understands your vision, this one's for you.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with journalist, television personality and bestselling author Shelly Horton to unpack one of the most misunderstood stages in a woman's life: perimenopause.

From brain fog and hot flushes to mood swings, relationships and motherhood, Shelly shares what perimenopause really feels like—and why it's a conversation every family needs to have.

Together, we explore how hormones can impact every part of life, why so many women feel unseen during this stage, and what daughters, sons and partners can do to better understand and support the women they love.

We dive into:

• What perimenopause actually is
• Why so many women feel misunderstood
• The emotional and physical symptoms of hormonal change
• The myth that women can "have it all"
• Mother and daughter relationships during perimenopause
• Why Shelly calls it "reverse puberty"
• How partners and families can offer better support
• Advice every teenager should hear about perimenopause

This episode is honest, funny, emotional and full of practical advice that will leave you with a completely different understanding of perimenopause—and the women experiencing it.

If you've ever wondered why your mum seems different, wanted to better support your partner, or simply want to understand one of the biggest life transitions women experience… this one's for you.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with Love Island Australia's Isabel and Connor — the couple who made reality TV history when Connor chose to leave the villa after Isabel was dumped.

What looked like a fairytale romance on screen was only part of the story.

Behind the cameras, they faced heartbreak, public scrutiny, online criticism, and the challenge of building a real relationship after one of Australia's biggest reality TV shows.

Together they open up about what really happens behind the scenes of Love Island, the pressures of reality television, navigating online judgment, and why staying true to yourself matters more than public opinion.

We dive into:

• The moment Connor decided to leave Love Island
• What really happens behind the scenes of reality TV
• How editing can change a story
• The emotional impact of online criticism
• Protecting your mental health after reality TV
• Building a relationship outside the villa
• Trust, communication, and putting each other first
• Advice for teens navigating relationships and heartbreak

This episode is funny, honest, emotional, and full of valuable lessons about love, resilience, and staying true to yourself when the world has an opinion.

If you've ever felt misunderstood, struggled with online criticism, or wondered what reality TV is really like… this one's for you.

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In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with Kid David — world-renowned breakdancer, Emmy Award winner, actor, choreographer, and performer — to uncover the incredible story behind his rise from a dance-obsessed teenager to one of the most respected names in the entertainment industry.

Before dancing with artists like Justin Bieber, Taylor Swift, Chris Brown, Miley Cyrus, and Gwen Stefani, David was just a kid from California who became completely obsessed with breakdancing.

What started as a childhood passion quickly turned into something much bigger. By the age of 15, videos of David were spreading across the internet, people around the world were inviting him to compete internationally, and his life was changing faster than he could have imagined.

But while he was travelling the world, he was also dealing with insecurities, feeling different from his peers, and being misunderstood by many of the people around him.

We dive into:

• Growing up in California and discovering breakdancing
• Becoming obsessed with mastering a skill
• Going viral in the early days of YouTube
• Travelling the world as a teenager
• Being bullied and misunderstood at school
• Moving to Los Angeles at 17
• Dancing with some of the world's biggest artists
• Building confidence through passion and purpose
• Why finding your thing can change your life

This episode is funny, inspiring, and packed with valuable lessons about confidence, hard work, and following a passion even when nobody else understands it.

If you've ever felt different, doubted yourself, or dreamed of doing something extraordinary… this one's for you.

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