What does it feel like when you're just 19 days away from moving your family across the world?

In this episode, I chat with Tessa, a mental health counselor from San Diego who is preparing to move to the Taranaki region of New Zealand with her American husband and their adventurous four-year-old son.

Unlike most of my guests, Tessa hasn't arrived yet, so we're capturing the excitement, nerves, and reality of the weeks leading up to a life-changing international move.

Tessa also shares her unique perspective as a New Zealand-born Kiwi returning home with an American accent, while we compare life in California and New Zealand from customer service and work culture to playgrounds, schools, and making friends as adults.

This episode is a snapshot of the "before" such as the anticipation, the planning, and the hope that comes with starting over in a new country.

If you're dreaming of moving to New Zealand, this conversation will remind you that every big move begins with a countdown! Tessa will be back on once she is settled in :)

Ashley talks about the common feeling people have about wanting to move again and current events in NZ and Christchurch.

Jonathan moved to New Zealand in 2018 - not exactly by plan. He came for a training, met someone, and one thing led to another. Now six months into Christchurch after years in rural North Island, he's still making up his mind about small city life after Boston, San Francisco, and Chicago.

In this episode Jonathan and Ashley get into the things Americans don't always expect — the lack of billboards and freeways, the tall poppy syndrome, the moments of surprising conservatism sitting right next to genuine community warmth, and what it feels like to live somewhere so safe you forget what you left behind. They also talk about diversity in schools, the Jewish community (or lack of one), the best red meat you'll ever eat, and why New Zealand might just be the safest place on earth - earthquakes aside.

Honest, warm, and wonderfully unfiltered...just like this podcast.

This week I'm joined by Karl, an American who moved from Portland, Oregon to Christchurch in 2015 and never left. Eleven years on, he shares what it's really like to build a life here, from arriving on a work visa (and shipping two dogs through the blood-tests), to raising two Kiwi kids, to re-entering the dating scene in Christchurch after experiencing a divorce after moving here. Karl also shares his perspective as a Black American in Christchurch, something listeners have specifically asked to hear.

We get into the stuff people actually want to know: why it's so hard to break into the "Christchurch club" and how Karl found his people through expat meetups, what work-life balance and four weeks of annual leave actually look like, grass-fed everything, freezing old houses (new build = warm, trust us), cheap golf, and healthcare, including the difference between a $50,000 C-section bill in the US and a $50 home birth here.

Whether you're planning your move or just curious about life on the other side, Karl's take is honest, relaxed, and full of practical advice, including why your five-year-old might end up scooting to school alone.

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Most newcomers to New Zealand discover a vibrant, bustling city full of surprises, yet many are caught off guard by how lively Christchurch truly is. From unexpected community events to the rapid pace of adoption of AI in local businesses, there’s more happening here than meets the eye. In this episode, Ashley sits down with Si Thu who’s navigated the intricate pathways of relocating from the UAE and Myanmar to Christchurch. He also lived in the US for his university studies at Wharton. He shares firsthand insights into the skilled migrant visa process, pet relocations involving direct Emirates flights, and the subtle cultural shifts that come with building a new life. You’ll learn the real behind-the-scenes of bringing pets into New Zealand, including quarantine procedures, paperwork. We delve into the quirky differences between local transportation and lifestyle choices, from ride-sharing apps like Didi and Uber to the surprising popularity of car-free living among young families. Discover how the Kiwi city’s endless calendar of events -concerts, theatre, art shows, and sports defies expectations and creates a lively, dynamic atmosphere. You’ll also hear about the rise of AI adoption here because Si Thu is an expert and tutors Ashley. Why does this matter? Because missing out on these nuances may mean staying disconnected from opportunities that could transform your experience here. Whether you’re planning your move or already living in New Zealand, understanding Christchurch’s energetic pulse and its embrace of technology can open new doors for growth, community, and adventure. If you’re considering a life change or eager to explore the real Kiwi experience beyond tourist spots, this episode is packed with practical tips, surprising insights, and personal stories that will inspire you and maybe start planning your own adventure in this vibrant, ever-evolving city.

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In this episode, Ben, who recently made the leap from Colorado to Christchurch, shares the unexpected joys and surprises of his journey, from navigating visa pitfalls to rediscovering a laid-back, community-focused lifestyle. Ben brought his wife and two teens with him on this adventure.

Discover how planning, curiosity, and a willingness to adapt can open doors to a new world! Ben's story peels back the curtain on what it really takes to relocate abroad, from downsizing from a 4,000-square-foot home to a fully furnished rental. Ben talks about the adaptability required to thrive without a car in Aotearoa New Zealand.

You'll learn about student visa pathways and how they can effectively lead to work opportunities, and the importance of seeking expert advice to avoid costly mistakes. Ben also shares fascinating differences in sports culture and why rugby here is less intense and more community-oriented, and how casual sports and outdoor activities foster genuine connections.

Ben is taking full advantage of Christchurch's new One Stadium and the local love for live music, food markets, and outdoor adventures. Ben is the perfect guest for aspiring expats, adventure-seekers, or anyone considering a fresh start.

Diving into a life filled with vibrant cultures, fierce independence, and self-discovery, Susan’s story reveals how embracing your authentic self can transform your entire world. From London to Guyana to Florida and to the lush landscapes of Aotearoa New Zealand, her journey uncovers the power of internal growth over external circumstances, showing you that wherever you go, the real home is within.

In this episode, Susan shares how her childhood challenges, encounters with racism, and relentless travel shaped her unique perspective on life, love, and belonging. She discusses how moving across continents taught her vital lessons about confidence, self-love, and the importance of community. Her insights challenge the notion that a place defines us; instead, she emphasizes that your mindset and inner peace create your true home.

You'll discover how to cultivate resilience in unfamiliar environments, why self-awareness is more crucial than ever when making big life moves, and the secret to radiating positivity regardless of where you are. Susan also explores the cultural differences she’s observed, how authenticity attracts trust, and why understanding your personal values opens the door to happiness and success- whether in business, relationships, or personal growth.This episode is perfect for anyone considering a big move abroad, feeling the pull of new beginnings, or simply seeking inspiration to connect with their inner strength. If you're feeling lost in transition or craving a reminder that your true home lives inside you, Susan’s story will leave you inspired to embrace your journey with courage, joy, and a radiant energy that attracts the right opportunities.Join us to learn how to navigate change without losing sight of who you are, and why the greatest adventure starts from within. Whether you're dreaming of a new country, searching for your community, or simply looking to reignite your zest for life, this episode offers priceless insights to help you live authentically and joyfully wherever you are.

Dont skip this one. Immigration lawyer, Michelle Chen, answers questions about moving to New Zealand and the different visa pathways.

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How Aaron made New Zealand his forever home. He came to the country in 2013 on a working holiday visa as a fruit picker.

Summary: This episode features Julie sharing her journey of moving to New Zealand just before COVID-19, navigating the challenges of immigration, housing, and adapting to a new culture. She moved with her husband, 15 year old, dog and a few suitcases! She offers practical advice for prospective immigrants and insights into life in New Zealand. Follow Julie for assistance with a move you may be thinking about the move. Listen to find out what Julie misses most about America!