Feeling the Weight of Leadership: Why Going It Alone Leads to Burnout

Leadership is rewarding but it can also feel unbearably heavy. In this episode of the MPWR Podcast, we dive into the hidden cost of leadership: the loneliness that comes when we try to carry it all ourselves. From decision-making and conflict to team dynamics and future planning, leaders often fall into the trap of believing they must hold everything together on their own. That mindset not only exhausts us, it diminishes the potential of the very teams we’re trying to lead.

If you’ve ever thought, “It all falls on me. I’m the only one who can do it,” this episode is for you.

We’ve heard it from leaders across industries: the burden of responsibility creates a unique kind of isolation. But loneliness in leadership isn’t just about being physically alone—it’s about choosing to lead in isolation instead of collaboration.

As we unpack this challenge, we reveal the subtle shifts that can turn heavy responsibility into shared ownership. Because the truth is, when leaders hold everything close, they rob their teams of opportunities to grow and contribute. As one line from this episode reminds us:

“When we start believing that we’re the only one who can do it all, we miss the opportunities to develop others.”

That belief doesn’t just weigh leaders down—it stunts the potential of entire organizations.

But there’s another way forward. This episode explores how leaders can:

• Recognize the signs of burnout before it derails effectiveness.

• Shift from carrying the team to leading with the team.

• Build confidence in delegation, trust, and shared responsibility.

• Create space for growth—both for yourself and those you lead.

True leadership isn’t about holding every ball in the air—it’s about empowering others to juggle with you. One of the most powerful reflections from this episode is:

“Leadership does carry a unique weight of responsibility. But when you carry it alone, that weight becomes unbearable.”

And here’s the reframe:

“The best leaders aren’t the ones who do it all—they’re the ones who build others to rise with them.”

That’s the path to sustainable leadership, and the antidote to loneliness.

If you’ve been feeling the crushing weight of leadership, this episode offers a reminder: you don’t have to carry it all. You don’t have to lead in isolation.

👉 Listen now to MPWR Podcast and discover how to share the weight, develop your team, and lead with confidence without burning out. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a leader in your circle who might need this encouragement today.

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Imposter syndrome doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t matter how high you climb or how much you achieve — self-doubt still finds a way in. In fact, 71% of U.S. CEOs admit to experiencing imposter syndrome (Korn Ferry, 2024). If the very people running billion-dollar companies struggle with insecurity, then maybe it’s time we stop seeing it as a weakness and start recognizing it as part of the human condition.

In this episode of the MPWR Podcast, we pull back the curtain on what it looks like to lead while wrestling with insecurity and imposter syndrome. From second-guessing decisions to over-explaining or chasing approval, the patterns are familiar. The real danger isn’t the presence of insecurity, it’s when we let it lead unconsciously.

Through the lens of the EQ Matrix and years of leadership development, we explore how to recognize these patterns, reframe them, and ultimately step into lasting confidence. You’ll hear how moments of self-doubt can become doorways to growth when we stop performing for approval and start leading from authenticity.

• Clarity on why imposter syndrome often intensifies during growth seasons and new opportunities.

• Insight into how insecurity hijacks leadership, trading connection for control and clarity for performance.

• A roadmap to shift from approval-seeking to authentic, confident leadership.

• Practical tools to strengthen self-awareness, build resilience, and empower others through your presence.

1. “When insecurity drives our leadership, we often trade clarity for performance and connection for control.”

2. “Insecurity doesn’t mean that we’re unqualified. It means that we’re human.”

3. “It’s easy to get stuck trying to prove ourselves instead of leading from confidence.”

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I really qualified for this role?”,  this episode is for you. Confidence doesn’t come from eliminating self-doubt. It comes from choosing to lead with authenticity, even in the face of it.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how to silence imposter syndrome, embrace your humanity, and step into the kind of leadership that empowers everyone around you.

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Are you ready to unlock your full potential and lead with purpose, clarity, and conviction?

The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

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Are You Losing Influence Because of Inconsistency? Here’s How to Rebuild Trust.

Every leader wants to be trusted. But trust isn’t built on charisma, strategy, or even vision alone. It’s built on consistency, the daily patterns and signals that tell people you are reliable, predictable, and worth following.

In this episode of the MPWR Podcast, we dig into a leadership trap that is both common and costly: inconsistency. It doesn’t always look like a failure or a blow-up moment. In fact, it’s far more subtle—and that’s why it’s so dangerous. Influence isn’t lost in a single event. It erodes over time, through unpredictable energy, shifting clarity, or even haphazard meeting rhythms that leave people uncertain about what to expect.

“We don’t lose influence all at once. It’s not one data point, one experience that undermines that influence. It’s consistent data points that are inconsistent, that actually drive this diminishing of influence.”

When leaders are steady one day and scattered the next, teams don’t know which version of you will show up. Energy that should be fueling progress gets wasted on second-guessing and recalibrating. Over time, hesitation replaces confidence, and momentum comes to a crawl.

“Without realizing it, we’ve made our leadership hard to follow.”

The promise of this episode is clarity: to show you how small shifts toward predictability can restore trust, multiply your influence, and create psychological safety for those you lead. From how you structure meetings, to how you manage your energy, to how you show up emotionally—consistency signals stability. And stability creates confidence.

Research underscores just how high the stakes are: Gallup reports that 70% of employee engagement is directly tied to the quality of the manager or team leader. In other words, your consistency isn’t just about your own reputation—it directly shapes team morale, retention, and performance.

“Energy gets spent second guessing instead of moving forward.”

If you’ve ever felt like your team hesitates to follow your lead, or if your influence doesn’t carry the weight it once did, this episode will give you the language and tools to spot where inconsistency is draining your leadership. More importantly, it will help you replace unpredictability with rhythms that build momentum, deepen trust, and unleash the potential in your people.

Because in the end, the most powerful leaders aren’t the ones who occasionally inspire, they’re the ones who consistently deliver.

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The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

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When was the last time you avoided giving someone feedback because you didn’t want to hurt their feelings?

In this episode of MPWR, we delve into the quiet cost of avoiding feedback and how it shapes or fractures workplace relationships. You’ll hear thought-provoking moments like:

“It felt easier to stay silent than risk rocking the boat,” one guest admits—only to realize later that “that silence spoke louder than any words ever could.”

We explore how this hesitation erodes confidence, stalls growth, and breeds misunderstanding.

But there’s another side to the story: feedback done well ignites engagement. According to Gallup, 80% of employees who receive meaningful feedback in the past week are fully engaged (Gallup, 2021). Similarly, 75% of employees agree that feedback is incredibly valuable to their work—but fewer than 30% report actually getting it regularly (Oak Engage, 2024).

That gap between need and delivery is costly. When strengths-based feedback becomes the norm, turnover drops—by as much as 14.9% in one study of over 65,000 workers (Peaceful Leaders Academy, 2024). And in companies that cultivate feedback as part of their culture:

• 70% of employees say it improves workplace culture, and

• 68% feel more aligned with organizational goals when feedback is consistent (ThriveSparrow, 2024).

And the ripple effect continues: feedback doesn’t just feel good—it sparks action. Research featured in the Harvard Business Review shows that when employees believe managers act on their input, speaking up increases by 24%(Detert, 2024).

This episode doesn’t just share stats—it brings them to life with real stories. You’ll hear about the courage it took for one leader to trade comfort for honesty, and the transformation that followed when a team finally heard, “Let’s talk about what’s not working—so we can fix it.”

Tune in as we unpack:

• How “nice” feedback can drag down trust more than a hard truth.

• Why timely and specific feedback beats annual reviews every time.

• What silence costs—and what speaking up can save.

Whether you're a seasoned leader or a team member craving clarity, this episode reaffirms that feedback isn’t just a tool—it’s a foundation for trust, connection, and real upside. Press play and discover how one honest conversation can change everything.

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Are you ready to unlock your full potential and lead with purpose, clarity, and conviction?

The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

🔥 Subscribe to the MPWR Podcast on your favorite platform. 📲 Follow Eric Pfeiffer across social media (links available on the website). 🌐 Access our free mini course here! 

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Is your stress quietly sabotaging your team’s performance?

Stress at the top doesn’t stay at the top. It moves — quietly and powerfully — through every layer of your organization. It trickles down into tense boardroom conversations, subtle shifts in team morale, and even the unspoken undercurrents that define your company culture. One raised eyebrow in a meeting can create hesitation. One clipped response can send ripples of uncertainty through an entire department.

In this candid MPWR episode, we unpack what happens when leaders unconsciously let stress leak onto others — and how those micro-moments, repeated over time, can silently erode trust, sap productivity, and weaken performance.

The truth is, leadership stress is contagious. Research shows emotions can spread through teams in less than two minutes, often without a single word being spoken. Your tone, posture, and facial expressions are read as signals, shaping the emotional climate of your workplace. But here’s the good news: emotional containment isn’t about pretending you’re not stressed — it’s a skill you can learn and master. And when you do, it can transform not only how you lead, but how your people think, feel, and show up under pressure.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why even subtle stress signals (tone of voice, micro-expressions, body language) impact team performance

• How to identify your personal leak points before they spread to others

• Strategies to model calm and focus under pressure, even in high-stakes moments

As we share:

“If you’re not aware of it, your stress becomes everyone else’s stress.”

And the reminder hits hard:

“Your team doesn’t just listen to what you say — they feel who you are.”

Finally, we dig into a mindset shift:

“Containment isn’t suppression. It’s leadership maturity.”

Imagine leading meetings where your presence brings clarity instead of tension. Where your calm focus helps your team think creatively under pressure. Where the culture you create is one of resilience — not reactivity.

Listen now to When Your Stress Becomes Their Problem and learn how to stop the spillover before it starts.

🎯 Ready to lead with greater calm, clarity, and influence? Join our August Group Leadership Cohort, enrolling now. This is where leaders at every level sharpen their emotional containment skills, amplify their presence, and learn to lead without letting stress sabotage results.

Are you ready to unlock your full potential and lead with purpose, clarity, and conviction?

The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

🔥 Subscribe to the MPWR Podcast on your favorite platform. 📲 Follow Eric Pfeiffer across social media (links available on the website). 🌐 Access our free mini course here! 

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You’ve heard the word micromanagement tossed around in leadership circles. But have you ever stopped to ask yourself: What’s underneath it?

In this episode of the MPWR Podcast, host Eric Pfeiffer peels back the layers of control, fear, and trust that define modern leadership. This isn't a surface-level chat about delegation; it’s a deep dive into the emotional and psychological drivers behind micromanagement.

At the heart of micromanagement is something most leaders rarely admit: the fear of letting go.

Fear of losing relevance. Fear of mistakes. Fear that if we loosen our grip, everything could unravel.

Eric shares stories from his own leadership journey and the thousands of leaders he’s coached—highlighting how fear often disguises itself as productivity, excellence, or “high standards,” when in reality, it’s eroding trust and stunting growth.

“Micromanagement isn’t about your team’s capability, it’s about your own capacity to let go.”

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The root cause of micromanagement and how it often stems from personal insecurity, not professional standards

• The emotional toll micromanagement takes on teams—and leaders themselves

• How unresolved trauma and past leadership wounds can manifest in control

• Why delegation isn’t just a skill—it’s a trust exercise

• The surprising link between ego, identity, and the inability to release responsibility

• Practical ways to shift from control to confidence, from fear to freedom

Eric doesn't just name the problem, he gives you the tools to change. Whether you’re a CEO, team leader, entrepreneur, or someone stuck in a cycle of over-responsibility, this conversation will move you from awareness to empowerment.

Because true leadership isn’t about holding on, it’s about knowing when to let go.

“Micromanagement is a leadership wound—it looks like control, but it feels like fear.”

“You can’t scale your impact if you’re clinging to every decision.”

“If you believe everything will fall apart without you, the thing that needs work isn’t your team—it’s your trust.”

“Control is a trauma response. Leadership is a trust response.”

“The leader who refuses to let go is the one who hasn’t yet learned how to heal.”

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The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

🔥 Subscribe to the MPWR Podcast on your favorite platform. 📲 Follow Eric Pfeiffer across social media (links available on the website). 🌐 Access our free mini course here! 

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Why Do Great Leaders Still Feel Lost? And What to Do When You’re Stuck in the Fog

On this episode of the MPWR Podcast, host Eric Pfeiffer dives into one of the most overlooked but transformative leadership tools: personal clarity.

You can have the team, the talent, and the strategy but if you’re unclear on who you are, where you’re going, and why it matters, everything starts to shake. Your confidence, communication, and connection all depend on your internal alignment.

“Leadership clarity isn’t just about what you’re trying to accomplish—it’s about who you are, where you’re going, and why it matters.”

“When a leader lacks clarity, everyone feels it—even when no one says it.”

“You can’t lead with conviction if you’re uncertain about your own compass.”

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This episode goes beyond theory, it re-introduces a powerful spiritual and leadership framework: The Kairos Circle.

The Kairos Circle comes from Greek terms for time: Chronos (chronological time) and Kairos (divinely appointed time). The circle represents a leadership process that helps you pause, reflect, and respond during key moments of insight or disruption.

The cycle walks you through:

• Observe what’s happening

• Reflect on what it means

• Discuss with wise counsel

• Plan your next step

• Account to someone

• Act with intention

It’s not just a framework, it’s a life rhythm that brings awareness, accountability, and transformation.

Studies show that clarity isn't a “nice-to-have”—it’s a performance multiplier:

• Employees with role clarity are 53% more efficient and 27% more effective, leading to a 25% performance increase overall (Effectory).

• Teams with clarity from their leaders show higher engagement, resilience, and trust—especially in moments of change (HubSpot Careers Blog).

• The difference between doing leadership and being a clear leader

• How internal fog shows up in team performance

• Why the Kairos Circle can recalibrate your leadership in real time

• Practical ways to lead with clarity, conviction, and consistency

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The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

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You’ve checked all the boxes as a leader but your team still feels disconnected. Why?

You’ve done everything “right.” You’ve cast a compelling vision, clarified your values, and set measurable goals. You’ve had the meetings. You’ve checked in. You’ve even communicated expectations with precision. But somehow—your team still feels… off. Disengaged. Maybe even resistant.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why your team isn’t keeping pace—or worse, why they seem checked out—this episode is for you.

In this power-packed conversation, we dive deep into one of the most frustrating and misunderstood leadership dynamics: misalignment despite clarity. It's the silent tension so many leaders face but rarely talk about feeling like your efforts to lead well just aren't landing the way you hoped.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why strong leaders still experience disconnect with their teams

• The hidden emotional undercurrents that often sabotage alignment

• How ego, assumptions, and “doing more” can actually widen the gap

• The subtle difference between leading with clarity and leading with connection

• Practical tools to realign your team without starting from scratch

You’ll also learn why the temptation to internalize your team’s disengagement as failure—or to blame them for “not getting it”—is both common and dangerous. Instead, we offer a third way—a leadership reframe rooted in humility, emotional awareness, and deeper systems thinking.

Whether you’re managing a fast-growing startup, leading a seasoned corporate team, or simply trying to be a better leader in your organization, this episode will give you fresh insight and tangible action steps to reignite alignment, boost morale, and create meaningful momentum again.

Leadership isn’t just about casting vision—it’s about ensuring the people around you feel seen, safe, and significant in bringing that vision to life.

So if you’re feeling like your team has lost the spark, tune in. What feels like disengagement might actually be an invitation—an opportunity to reconnect, reassess, and rise stronger together.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• The real reason your team may feel disengaged—even if you’ve done everything “right”

• How to shift from blame to breakthrough with one leadership mindset pivot

• The underestimated power of presence, listening, and emotional safety in team culture

• A simple leadership audit you can use to spot misalignment early

“Very often, we interpret our team’s behavior—without realizing we’re the ones shaping their experience.”

Press play now and discover how to lead through disconnection with confidence and clarity.

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Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

🔥 Subscribe to the MPWR Podcast on your favorite platform. 📲 Follow Eric Pfeiffer across social media (links available on the website). 🌐 Access our free mini course here! 

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We think silence keeps the peace but sometimes, silence is the most destructive lie we tell.

Welcome to The MPWR Podcast with Eric Pfeiffer, where real leadership means having the conversations others won’t.

This episode tackles one of the most universal yet avoided challenges in leadership, work, and life: avoiding hard conversations.

We’ve all done it; biting our tongues, walking on eggshells, telling ourselves it’s “not worth it” or “not the right time.” But what is this really costing us?

“Avoidance feels safe in the moment, but it’s expensive over time. It costs trust. It costs clarity. It costs real connection."

In this candid conversation, Eric breaks down: ✅ Why so many of us default to avoidance—even when we know it hurts us ✅ The psychology of conflict avoidance: fear of rejection, fear of escalation, fear of discomfort ✅ What these unspoken truths do to relationships, teams, and cultures over time

“When you avoid telling the truth because it’s uncomfortable, you’re not protecting them—you’re protecting yourself.”

Eric draws on personal stories and real-world examples of conflict avoidance—from corporate boardrooms to family dinner tables.

He also integrates wisdom from the classic communication playbook Crucial Conversations, which reminds us:

“People don’t get defensive because of what you’re saying. They get defensive because of why they think you’re saying it.”

According to Harvard’s Program on Negotiation:

“Difficult conversations are a normal—and necessary—part of healthy relationships. Avoiding them can damage trust, foster resentment, and undermine collaboration.” (Harvard PON)

Imagine leading with honesty, even when it’s hard.

Picture yourself having the confidence to say what needs to be said without cruelty or cowardice. To tell the truth in a way that preserves dignity and deepens trust.

This episode is your guide to leaning in when your instincts want you to lean out.

“Silence isn’t neutral. When you choose not to speak, you choose to let fear do the talking.”

By tuning in, you’ll learn: ✅ Why avoidance is a short-term comfort but a long-term liability ✅ Simple frameworks to prepare for and start hard conversations ✅ Techniques to speak with candor and compassion ✅ How to turn difficult talks into opportunities for real understanding

As Eric says:

“Your ability to lead is directly tied to your ability to have the conversations others run from.”

Don’t let unspoken resentments or hidden truths undermine your relationships or leadership.

Ready to stop avoiding what really matters?

🎧 Listen now to this episode of The MPWR Podcast.

Learn how to face the hard conversations head-on—with courage, clarity, and heart.

Because real leadership isn’t about avoiding discomfort. It’s about embracing it—for the sake of growth, trust, and true connection.

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The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

Want more tools to accelerate your growth? Head over to mpwrcoaching.com where you'll find free resources, game-changing books, and programs designed to elevate your mindset, build resilience, and transform the way you lead—from the inside out.

🔥 Subscribe to the MPWR Podcast on your favorite platform. 📲 Follow Eric Pfeiffer across social media (links available on the website). 🌐 Access our free mini course here! 

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How Do You Lead When You’re Triggered?

We’ve all been there: the meeting turns tense, someone pushes your buttons, your heart rate spikes and before you know it, you’re reacting in a way you regret.

But here’s the truth:

“Emotional reactivity doesn’t disqualify us as leaders. Avoiding it does.”

In this episode, we’re diving deep into one of the most overlooked leadership challenges: how to lead when you’re emotionally triggered.

✅ Learn why emotional intelligence isn’t about never getting upset but recognizing when you’re hijacked and knowing what to do next. ✅ Hear real-life stories from competitive golf blowups to family award-ceremony meltdowns that show how easy it is to get hijacked (and how to recover). ✅ Discover actionable tools to move from default reactions to intentional responses.

As Eric explains:

“High-level leaders aren’t those who never get hijacked. They’re the ones who recognize it quickly and know how to respond.”

We’ll explore: ✔️ The science of emotional hijacking (your amygdala vs. your executive brain) ✔️ How triggers act as dashboard lights, not condemnation ✔️ The power of naming your default patterns and replacing them with conscious choices ✔️ A simple but profound question that transforms moments of anger or shame into opportunities for leadership:

“How does the best version of me respond in this situation?”

Research backs this up:

• Leaders with high emotional intelligence outperform their peers by up to 20% in team engagement and decision quality (Goleman, 2018).

• 90% of top performers in organizations have high EQ, while only 20% of low performers do (TalentSmart).

• Emotional self-awareness is repeatedly linked to better leadership outcomes, reduced conflict, and healthier team cultures (Harvard Business Review, 2019).

We also talk about the cost of staying hijacked: lost time, broken trust, spiraling conflicts. As we mention:

“It’s not just me paying the price. It’s the whole environment.”

Finally, we share practical steps you can use immediately: ✔️ Spot your emotional patterns ✔️ Name your triggers ✔️ Pause and ask the right questions ✔️ Shorten your recovery time ✔️ Lead yourself and others with calm and clarity

If you’re ready to stop letting emotional hijacks sabotage your leadership and start using them as signals to grow, this episode is for you.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how to master emotional hijacks and become the leader people want to follow.

Are you ready to unlock your full potential and lead with purpose, clarity, and conviction?

The MPWR Podcast, hosted by Eric Pfeiffer, CEO of MPWR Coaching, is your go-to space for transformational conversations, powerful insights, and practical strategies to help you step into the next level of your leadership journey. Whether you're scaling your business, seeking greater alignment in life, or stepping into your calling—this podcast will challenge, inspire, and empower you.

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