Ms. Behavior

By Colette Shaw and Kurt Doan

It's not uncommon for professionals in college student conduct to hear "Glad I don't have your job," but the impacts of how we approach conflict, crisis and discomfort have the potential to ripple

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The podcast currently has 52 episodes available.

Ms. Behavior episodes:

February 14, 2026 Celebrating Our 1000th Download at ASCA
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Just as their microphones were starting to die, Colette and Kurt learned that the podcast had reached its first big milestone of 1000 downloads. As they are surrounded by conduct colleagues, they reflect on their original goals and unexpected rewards, and dreams for the future of Ms. Behavior.
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Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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9min
February 13, 2026 Hello, World! We're at ASCA 2026!
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Colette and Kurt are at the national student conduct conference in Arlington, VA. Let the games begin! (As long as they're not drinking games, of course.)
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Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
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Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
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The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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2min
February 05, 2026 Cyndi Freeman: Leadership, Engagement & Lifetime Lessons
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Kurt invites his first conduct supervisor, Cyndi Freeman, to reflect on her journey and philosophy in student conduct and engagement. They discuss memorable discipline cases, the importance of educational outcomes, and the role of mentorship in shaping future conduct officers. They note the significance and long-lasting impact of safe spaces for dialogue for all. Cyndi talks about the relevance of popular culture in education and the imperative of modeling a civil community for students. **NOTE** Don't forget, Colette and Kurt will be at ASCA next week giving out Ms. Behavior swag. If you won't make it to the conference, use our Fan Mail link to text us, and we might just surprise you!
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Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
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Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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48min
January 29, 2026 The Day the Hate Group Came to Campus
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Colette and Kurt engage in a deep conversation with Emily, a student conduct and care professional, about her experiences managing a crisis on campus involving a hate group. They discuss the importance of community communication, the emotional toll of such events, and the strategies for processing and coping with the aftermath. Emily shares insights on the significance of being present, maintaining a focus on our institutional values, and the necessity of self-care in the face of adversity. The conversation highlights the challenges and responsibilities of those in higher education to honor First Amendment rights while also fostering a safe and learning-centered environment for all students.
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Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
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Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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44min
January 22, 2026 ASCA, ICE, TIX and Our Acronym-Related Dilemmas
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In this episode of "Ms. Behavior," Colette Shaw and Kurt Doan dive into the complexities of attending the National ASCA Conference in Washington, DC. They discuss the excitement of reconnecting with Association of Student Conduct Administrator colleagues, the challenges of navigating ICE-related concerns, and the importance of activism and dialogue in today's educational landscape. Join them as they explore the intersection of personal convictions, institutional policies, and the ever-evolving role of student conduct professionals.
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Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
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Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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39min
January 15, 2026 New Year's Resolutions, Hobbies and Pop Culture Conduct Inspirations
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Former college deans Colette and Kurt reflect on their New Year experiences, discuss personal resolutions, and delve into the themes of the show 'Pluribus.' They explore the importance of hobbies and personal interests in maintaining mental health and well-being, particularly in the context of their roles in college administration. The conversation wraps up with a look ahead to the new semester and the excitement of engaging with students.

Support the show
Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
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Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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22min
December 16, 2025 Processing the Brown Shooting: Looking for Community in Chaos
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Ms. Behavior hosts Kurt and Colette discuss the recent tragic shooting at Brown University and its implications for campus safety and community. They explore the challenges of communication during crises, the desensitization of students to violence, and the importance of mental health support. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive leadership and self-care in the wake of such events, highlighting the role of community in fostering resilience and support among students and staff.
Support the show
Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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24min
December 11, 2025 Conduct Lessons from Abroad: Kiwi RJ, Campus Complicity and Guns
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Co-host Colette spent multiple weeks in New Zealand this semester and found educational takeaways in the most interesting places. Lessons from Kiwi universities, government and historical tours were just the start. As New Zealand grapples with decisions about arming security, Kurt and Colette reflected on gun culture on US campuses.
Support the show
Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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41min
December 04, 2025 Yoanna Lee: From Conduct Violation to Conduct Vocation
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In this episode of Ms. Behavior, Yoanna Lee shares her journey as a student navigating the complexities of student conduct at college. From her personal experiences with consequences for her actions to her role on the conduct committee, Yoanna emphasizes the importance of empathy, transparency, and the human side of disciplinary processes. She reflects on how her experiences have shaped her perspective on accountability and the benefits of a more compassionate approach to student conduct.
Support the show
Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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44min
November 20, 2025 Thanksgiving 2025: Families, Spankings and Gratitude
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In anticipation of the holiday, Kurt and Colette reflect on supportive colleagues and family members. In reflecting on their lives as the children of educators, Kurt shares a personal experience from his school days, reflecting on the dynamics of authority between teachers and students. He discusses the impact of a teacher's threat to inform his father about his behavior, highlighting the emotional weight such interactions can carry for young students.
Support the show
Ms. Behavior Blog and Website
Contact us at [email protected]
Follow us for updates:
YouTube Channel
Instagram: @MsBehaviorCollege
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ms-behavior-podcast
FB Page: Ms. Behavior
Threads: @MsBehaviorCollege
Tik Tok: @MsBehaviorCollege
Theme music "Fuzzball Parade" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
The views and opinions expressed by participants in Ms. Behavior are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views, policies, or positions of their employers or affiliated institutions.
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39min

FAQs about Ms. Behavior:

How many episodes does Ms. Behavior have?

The podcast currently has 52 episodes available.