I know a lot of us want to be kind, nice and want to be liked. Nahhh, people seem to take your kindness for weakness! But also, when it's time to turn up, turn tf up. Those same people weren't scared to take your kindness for some type of weakness so now they're gonna feel what comes with it when they start to play those type of games with you. Poke your chest out and let them know you run your own life.