Mud & Rib Podcast

Ep 007: In this episode, Guy and Kelli Caskey delve into the complexities of embracing our new identity and what it means to walk in the spirit. They explore the concept of self-effort versus reliance on Christ, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the resources available in Christ to overcome life's challenges. Through personal stories and biblical references, they discuss the transformative power of faith, the significance of eternal life as a present reality, and the mystery of Christ living within believers. The conversation culminates in practical steps for living out one's faith and embracing a new identity in Christ.Chapters00:00 Exploring Hurt and Adversity03:10 The Death Notice: A Turning Point05:57 Resources in Christ: Overcoming Self-Effort08:49 Living by Faith: The Upside Down Kingdom12:08 Eternal Life: A Present Reality14:57 The Power of Christ Within Us17:47 Practical Steps to Live Out Faith21:09 The Mystery of Christ in You24:00 Embracing New Identity in ChristStay Connected▶️ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheCaskeyCollective📧 Join Our Mailing List: https://mud-rib-podcast.kit.com/2986162456📸 Instagram: @mud.and.rib.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/mud.and.rib.podcast)💌 Share Your Ideas: [email protected]

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In this episode of the Mud and Rib podcast, Guy & Kelli Caskey explore church hurt, examining the many ways people have been wounded by church experiences. They discuss how corporate structures shape church dynamics, the importance of dialogue and discovery in healing, and the necessity of forgiveness. The conversation emphasizes the role of relationships in overcoming hurt, the expectations placed on church members, and the importance of community in the healing process. They conclude with a call to action for listeners to reflect on their own experiences and seek healing through forgiveness and community.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Church Hurt01:49 Understanding Church Hurt04:51 The Impact of Corporate Structures on Church07:35 Dialogue and Discovery in Healing10:20 Forgiveness and Moving Forward12:35 The Role of Relationships in Healing15:41 Expectations and Misunderstandings in Church18:31 Choosing to Forgive21:17 The Importance of Community24:05 Living as a Dead Man27:08 Conclusion and Next Steps34:34 MUD & RIB WEEKLY OUTRO.mp4📌 Stay Connected▶️ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheCaskeyCollective📧 Join Our Mailing List: https://mud-rib-podcast.kit.com/2986162456📸 Instagram: @mud.and.rib.podcast💌 Share Your Ideas: [email protected]

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The Good, Bad, and Ugly of Discipleship

We don't talk about the bad enough.

That's really where this episode started. Guy and I were at Georgia Movements recently, and we shared on this topic, the good, the bad, and the ugly of investing your life in people. The response was overwhelming. People were hungry to talk about it because so often in Christian culture, we only share the victories. We want to look good. We want discipleship to appear neat and tidy. But the truth? It isn't.

In Hebrews 11, we love to celebrate the Hall of Faith, the victories, the miracles, the by-faith moments. But tucked at the end of that same chapter is a list that doesn't get preached nearly as often: the ones who were tortured, imprisoned, stoned, sawed in two. And here's the thing, they were all commended for their faith too. The bad is still good.

In this episode, we get real about what it actually looks like to pour your life into people:

People will walk away. You can do everything right and still lose someone. I had a woman I was discipling, months of investment, real relationship, and then out of nowhere, she asked me not to reach out again. It stings. But it doesn't change what I'm called to do.

We've made our share of mistakes. Pushing too hard. Expecting people to look like us. Trying to follow a set order of tools when the Holy Spirit had a different plan. Growth means being honest about all of it.

Motivation matters more than results. As Guy put it: "We do the right things for the right reasons, no matter the results." If Christ's love is truly what's driving us, we don't quit when it gets hard.

"You cannot be like Jesus until you've been kissed by Judas."

Betrayal, hurt, and disappointment are part of this. So is choosing an unoffendable heart, having crucial conversations, and getting back up anyway. And the good? Watching generations of disciples, seeing fruit you never expected, and knowing you were faithful, that makes every hard moment worth it.

If you've been hurt in this process, or you're wondering how to even start making disciples, reach out. We'd love to connect you with community. You can email us at [email protected] or find everything else in the show notes.

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In this episode, Guy & Kelli discuss the importance of collaboration in marriage, building on the previous episode's themes of oneness and communication. The conversation explores biblical examples like Priscilla and Aquila, practical ways to work together in daily life, and the importance of hospitality and global missions. They emphasize that couples must embrace their differences and work as a team to fulfill their shared mission, ultimately highlighting the transformative power of collaboration in strengthening their marriage.Stay Connected▶️ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheCaskeyCollective📧 Join Our Mailing List: https://mud-rib-podcast.kit.com/2986162456📸 Instagram: @mud.and.rib.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/mud.and.rib.podcast)💌 Share Your Ideas: [email protected]

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✨ Welcome to the Mud & Rib Podcast! ✨In this episode of the Mud and Rib Podcast, Guy and Kelli Caskey explore the concept of side-by-side leadership within marriage. They discuss the importance of co-laboring, effective communication, and understanding each other's unique strengths. The conversation emphasizes the need for connection, communication, collaboration, and the significance of love languages in fostering a healthy relationship. The Caskey’s share personal and practical tools to help couples navigate their differences and build a strong team based on mutual respect and shared mission.▶️ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheCaskeyCollective📧 Join Our Mailing List: https://mud-rib-podcast.kit.com/2986162456📸 Instagram: @mud.and.rib.podcast (https://www.instagram.com/mud.and.rib.podcast)💌 Share Your Ideas: [email protected] Book: https://a.co/d/0zfKqp0

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In this episode, Guy and Kelli Caskey dive into the power of mentoring in relationships—from spiritual parenting to marriage as a mentoring tool. They unpack the dynamics of mentoring through biblical models like Paul, Timothy, and Barnabas, showing how different roles in our lives help us grow.The conversation explores:• The significance of accountability• The posture needed for healthy relationships• Why grace +truth is the fuel for transformation• How community provides the space where mentoring flourishesGuy and Kelli also share practical insights for pursuing mentorship—how to ask good questions, the courage it takes to seek mentors, and why love must always be at the center. Chapters00:00 – The Importance of Mentoring and Relationships06:57 – Understanding Spiritual Parenting12:34 – Types of Mentoring Relationships18:09 – Navigating Accountability in Relationships24:32 – The Dynamics of Mentoring30:33 – The Essence of Mentoring: Love and Relationship36:03 – The Role of Questions in Mentoring41:56 – The Process of Mentoring47:22 – Outro 📌 Stay Connected▶️ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheCaskeyCollective📧 Join Our Mailing List: https://mud-rib-podcast.kit.com/2986162456📸 Instagram: @mud.and.rib.podcast💌 Share Your Ideas: [email protected]

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✨ Welcome to the Mud & Rib Podcast! ✨

In this very first episode, Kelli and Guy Caskey introduce their new show, exploring themes of love, life, and leadership. They share personal stories about living by design, generational impact, and their spiritual journeys. This conversation highlights the power of faith, the importance of relationships, and how church is more about family than institutions.

If you’re hungry for real conversations about relationships, mission, and faith that transforms lives—this podcast is for you.

Episode Takeaways

• Living by design leads to a fulfilling life• Generational impact shapes values and beliefs• Spiritual journeys are personal and transformative• Relationships with God and others are essential• Faith radically changes lives• Conviction vs. condemnation: knowing the difference• Intergenerational learning enriches communities• Church is about relationships, not just institutions• Mutual submission strengthens partnerships• Personal stories inspire others

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