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Episode Highlights:

• Journal Reading: I share another poignant entry from my mother's journal. In this part, she reflects on how to approach the other woman my father has been seeing. Despite the turmoil, she finds solace and support in her prayer partner. The entry concludes with a heartfelt prayer for my father.

• Poetry Reading: A moving poem from a woman who was the wife of an alcoholic, shedding light on her emotional journey.

• Personal Reflections:

  • My Father's Childhood: I discuss my father's dynamic as a child and how it shaped his behavior.
  • Media Representations: Exploration of 911 episodes and the movie "Baby Boy," which normalized domestic violence. I recount my own experience of being taken to see "Baby Boy" as a child.
  • Impact of Abuse: Discussing how abuse can be difficult to recognize and how fear can paralyze those in abusive relationships.

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In this episode we introduce the theme of addiction within the context of IPV and its effect on families. India highlights the complexities of living with addiction and its intertwining with the cycle of violence.

Date: 03/06/2024

Murder, Death & Cancer

Episode title: Children Caught in the Crossfire: Impact of IPV

Brief summary of the episode: In Episode #4 of Murder, Death and Cancer, titled "Children Caught in the Crossfire: Impact of IPV," India discusses the profound effects of intimate partner violence (IPV) on children. Drawing from personal experiences and a case study involving Bishop Eddie Long, she highlights the lasting impact of abuse and emphasizes the need for accountability. India navigates the complexities of faith and community support for survivors, advocating for compassionate spaces free from judgment. She concludes by providing resources and affirmations for survivors, urging listeners to seek help, and reminding them of their inherent worth. With empathy and authenticity, India empowers her audience to confront difficult truths and embrace healing.

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Murder, Death & Cancer

Episode title and number: Episode #3 Silent Suffering

Brief summary of episode: In today's episode of "Murder, Death, and Cancer," host India delves into the theme of silent suffering within intimate partner violence (IPV), shedding light on the often-hidden struggles of survivors and victims. Drawing from excerpts of "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz, the episode begins by defining silent suffering in the context of IPV, exploring the emotional and psychological turmoil it entails, including shame, guilt, and regret. India navigates through the desire for revenge and the internal battle survivors face, particularly regarding intimacy and self-worth. Coping mechanisms, generational trauma, and the journey towards healing are also discussed. The episode emphasizes the importance of breaking the silence surrounding IPV and offers support to those in need. Note: The episode contains potentially triggering content, and resources for IPV support are provided.

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Name of podcast: Murder, Death & Cancer Episode title and number: Unveiling Intimate Partner Violence Episode #2

Brief summary of episode: In the second episode of "Murder, Death, and Cancer," host India Snow-Watt Black delves into the harrowing realities of intimate partner violence (IPV), shedding light on the profound darkness it casts over survivors and victims. Drawing from her own experiences as a queer activist, artist, and self-love enthusiast, India explores themes such as infidelity, self-sacrifice, and feelings of unworthiness that often accompany IPV. She highlights the role of EMDR therapy in unraveling unconscious beliefs and discusses the intersectionality of IPV within the LGBTQ-IA community. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, India confronts the normalization of abuse in both heterosexual and queer relationships, emphasizing the inclusive nature of IPV. She recommends the documentary "Private Violence" on Amazon Prime as a poignant portrayal of the experiences endured by DV survivors. Furthermore, India educates listeners on the staggering statistics surrounding IPV, including the alarming fact that 63% of female murder victims are killed by their intimate partners. Throughout the episode, India emphasizes the courage it takes for victims to leave abusive relationships and emphasizes the importance of recognizing IPV as a pervasive societal issue that demands urgent attention and action.

Bullet points of key topics + chapter markers Topic #1 [1:00]Kelly’s Journal entry on 12/29/1998 Topic #2 [3:14] Reflection of Journal Prompt Topic #3 [28:59]IPV Disclaimer

Episode 1: The Untold Story - Excerpts from My Mother's Journal

• The host reads poignant excerpts from their mother's journal, shedding light on her experiences with IPV leading up to her untimely death.
• Through these intimate reflections, listeners gain insight into the emotional turmoil and trauma endured by victims.
• The profound impact of IPV on children within the household is explored, highlighting the intricate dynamics between the abuser and the children.
• The long-term consequences on children's well-being and development are discussed, emphasizing the lasting scars of familial violence.
• The theme of addiction is introduced within the context of IPV, underscoring its detrimental effects on families.
• The complexities of living with addiction and its intertwining with the cycle of violence are emphasized.