Welcome to Part 1 of our trans episodes, we explore the complex science of gender, sex, and biological variations, aiming to demystify trans identities and challenge societal perceptions. Join us for an in-depth discussion on how biology, culture, and identity intersect. This episode explores the complex science behind testosterone levels, gender transition, and athletic performance, highlighting the gaps in current research and the importance of nuanced understanding in sports and gender identity.

Show Notes:

Takeaways

- Gender is a spectrum, not a binary.

- Chromosomal variations are common and often undiagnosed.

- Testosterone and estrogen levels influence physical and emotional traits.

- Society's gender roles are performative and culturally constructed.

- Understanding biology helps reduce stigma around trans identities.

- Differences between sex and gender

- Chromosomal variations and their impact

- Hormonal influences on gender expression

- Societal roles and gender performance

- Biological diversity and trans identities Testosterone levels across age and gender

- Impact of puberty blockers on physical development

- Scientific gaps in trans athlete research

- Physical advantages in sports related to biology

- The role of hormone therapy in gender transition

-Legal and ethical considerations in sports

Chapters:

00:00 Exploring Femininity and Gender Roles

03:09 Understanding Trans Identity and Gender Definitions

09:17 Navigating Gender Fluidity and Societal Norms

16:40 The Spectrum of Gender Expression

27:09 Cultural Perspectives on Gender

32:05 Chromosomal Variances and Their Implications

40:26 Understanding Testosterone in Women

47:10 The Complexity of Hormonal Testing in Athletes

56:07 The Role of Puberty Blockers in Trans Youth

01:05:42 Navigating Gender Identity and Medical Interventions

01:12:42 The Role of Schools in Supporting Trans Students

01:16:58 The Science of Puberty Blockers and Trans Youth

01:21:27 The Need for Research on Trans Athletes

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Basina, Marina. “What are normal testosterone levels? Ages, males, females, and more.” Medical News Today, https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-levels. Accessed 24 June 2026.

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“Biological Foundations of Gender: Genes, Hormones, and Behavior.” Biological Foundations of Gender, Gender Studies, 23 September 2025, https://gender.study/?print-my-blog=1&post-type=post&statuses%5B0%5D=publish&rendering_wait=0&columns=1&font_size=normal&image_size=full&links=include&show_site_title=1&show_site_tagline=1&show_site_url=1&show_date_printed=1&show_title=1&show_url=1&show_da.

Daftardar, Ishan. “Scientific Analysis Of Michael Phelps's Body Structure » ScienceABC.” ScienceABC, https://www.scienceabc.com/sports/michael-phelps-height-arms-torso-arm-span-feet-swimming. Accessed 24 June 2026.

“Gender & Athletic Ability: Are Men Really Better Athletes Than Women?” Cathe Friedrich, 23 October 2016, https://cathe.com/gender-athletic-ability-men-really-better-athletes-women/.

Hamilton, Blair, et al. “Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study.” Open Access, Br J Sports Med, 2024, https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/early/2024/04/10/bjsports-2023-108029.full.pdf.

Hunter, Sandra K., and Jonathon W. Senefeld. “Sex Difference in Human Performance.” The Physiological Society, The Journal of Physiology, 06 August 2024, https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP284198.

“International Olympic Committee announces new Policy on the Protection of the Female (Women's) Category in Olympic Sport.” Olympics.com, 26 March 2026, https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/international-olympic-committee-announces-new-policy-on-the-protection-of-the-female-women-s-category-in-olympic-sport. Accessed 24 June 2026.

Joyner, Michael J., et al. “Evidence on Sex Differences in Sport Performance.” Journal of Applied Physiology, 2025, https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00615.2024.

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“Mixed-sex sports.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-sex_sports. Accessed 24 June 2026.

“Puberty and Transitioning for Trans and Non-Binary Youth.” Kids Help Phone, 18 June 2019, https://kidshelpphone.ca/get-info/puberty-transitioning-trans-non-binary-youth/.

Ro, Christine. “The sports where women outperform men.” BBC, 1 August 2024, https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20240731-the-sports-where-women-outperform-men.

Rohmer, Robert B., and Glynne Walley. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgen_insensitivity_syndrome. Accessed 24 June 2026.

Sonksen, Peter H., et al. “Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports?” Springer Nature Link, Clinical Diabetes and Endocrinology, 07 February 2018, https://doi.org/10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3.

Soriano, Daniel. “Semenya hurt over IOC's women's category stance.” Inside the Games, 28 March 2026, https://www.insidethegames.biz/articles/semenya-voices-hurt-over-coventrys-trans-stance.

Stechyson, Natalie. “She won boxing gold. Now Imane Khelif has filed a harassment complaint over claims she's a man or transgender.” CBC, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/boxing/boxing-harassment-imane-khelif-1.7292457. Accessed 24 June 2026.

“Testosterone — What It Does And Doesn't Do.” Harvard Health, https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do. Accessed 19 April 2026.

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Webb, Karleigh, et al. “These 29 trans athletes have won major competitions or titles - Outsports.” OutSports, 6 December 2024, https://www.outsports.com/2024/12/6/22948400/transgender-trans-athlete-championship-national-world-title/. Accessed 24 June 2026.

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In this episode, Kori leads the squad as they explore the complex history and social significance of gossip, its evolution from a trusted form of communication to a stigmatized activity, and its potential as a tool for social bonding, protection, and empowerment. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and reclaim gossip as a positive force for community and connection.

Show Notes

Takeaways:

- History of gossip from the 16th century to today

- Gossip's role in women's social networks and safety

- The evolution of gossip from a trusted communication to a stigmatized activity

- The use of gossip in social learning, trust, and accountability

- Historical punishments for women accused of gossiping, including public shaming and   violence

- The concept of whisper networks and their role in exposing predators like Harvey Weinstein

- The importance of women’s communication for community building and safety

- Reclaiming gossip as a pro-social, empowering activity

- The influence of media in shaping perceptions of gossip and communication

- The significance of women supporting each other through shared stories and experiences

Chapters

00:00 Gossip and Its Social Implications

03:45 Introduction and Technical Setup

04:11 Understanding Gossip: Modern Perceptions and Stigma

12:30 The Historical Evolution of Gossip

20:10 Gossip as a Tool for Safety and Connection

21:10 The Silencing of Women: Historical Context

27:36 The Impact of Gossip on Women's Lives

31:28 Witch Trials and the Fear of Female Power

37:57 Gossip as a Tool for Connection and Empowerment

38:48 The Whisper Network: A Protective System

41:18 The Impact of Investigative Journalism

43:24 The Disappointment of Fallen Idols

44:27 Ghislaine Maxwell and Gendered Justice

45:01 The Role of Female Spies in History

46:06 Women Talking: A Cinematic Reflection

50:00 The Power of Women’s Conversations

53:20 Reclaiming Gossip as a Positive Force

References:

Dunbar, R. I. M. (2004). Gossip in evolutionary perspective. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 100–110.

Federici, S. (2018). Witches, witch-hunting, and women. PM Press.

Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664.

Foster, E. K. (2004). Research on gossip: Taxonomy, methods, and future directions. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 78–99.

Kantor, J., & Twohey, M. (2019). She said: Breaking the sexual harassment story that helped ignite a movement. Penguin Press.

Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2020). Who gossips and how in everyday life. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(3), 397–405.

Toews, M. (2018). Women talking: A novel. Bloomsbury Publishing.

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This episode explores the deeply rooted and complex issue of female genital mutilation (FGM), its cultural origins, health consequences, and the ongoing efforts to eradicate it. Hosted by Zabrina, Kori, and Jen, the discussion aims to educate and inspire action against this human rights violation.

Show Notes

Takeaways:

- Definitions and classifications of FGM

- Global prevalence and cultural origins

- Health risks and long-term consequences

- Survivor stories and emotional impact

- Efforts to educate, prevent, and provide support

Chapters:

00:00 A Shocking Story: The Rat Incident

00:16 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)

02:58 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)

04:55 Cultural Context and Prevalence of FGM

05:37 Types and Classifications of FGM

08:07 Health Risks and Complications of FGM

11:32 Historical Origins and Social Drivers of FGM

15:15 Societal Pressures and Personal Stories

18:59 Healthcare Challenges and Education on FGM

22:23 Advocacy and Changing Cultural Practices

25:27 The Role of Women in Cultural Practices

28:38 Modernization and Medicalization of FGM

31:36 Consequences of FGM on Women's Health

34:00 Cultural Norms and Male Perspectives

38:55 Cultural Identity and the Impact of Immigration

42:04 Understanding the Impact of FGM

45:02 Generational Trauma and Community Change

47:58 Education and Advocacy for Women's Rights

50:50 Confronting Harmful Practices with Compassion

References:

BMJ Global Health. (2020). FGM and maternal health outcomes. 

Nature. (2023). Global burden estimates related to female genital mutilation. 

BBC Africa. (n.d.). FGM: For the love of Fatmata [Video]. YouTube. 

AS/IS. (n.d.). How I survived female genital mutilation [Video]. YouTube.

SWPictures. (n.d.). The cutting tradition [Video]. YouTube.

FGM: Denouncing The Cut [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube. 

FGM: A Scourge That Persists In Gambia, But Mentalities Are Slowly Changing [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube. 

Hibo’s Story [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube. 

Hussein, L. (n.d.). FGM Survivor: Leyla Hussein’s Story [Video].

YouTube. Hussein, L. (n.d.). Cruel cut [Video]. YouTube. 

The Girl Who Said No to FGM [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube. 

The Unknown Pandemic: Female Genital Mutilation/cutting [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube. 

World Health Organization. (2023). Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). https://www.who.int UNICEF. (2023). Female genital mutilation: A global concern. https://www.unicef.org UNFPA. (2022). Female genital mutilation dashboard. https://www.unfpa.org 

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In this engaging episode our hosts explore the societal perceptions of women's facial expressions, especially Resting Bitch Face (RBF), and how these perceptions impact women's experiences in healthcare, professional settings, and social interactions. It delves into cultural differences, gender stereotypes, racial biases, and the importance of self-advocacy.

Show Notes

Takeaways:

- The science behind facial expressions and social cues

- Cultural differences in interpreting resting face

- Gender bias and societal expectations around women and men

- The impact of resting face on women's professional and personal lives

- Unconscious biases and their influence on perception Societal perceptions of women's facial expressions

- Impact of RBF on women's healthcare experiences

- Cultural differences in expressing emotions

- Racial and gender biases in social and medical contexts

- Strategies for self-advocacy and authenticity

Chapters:

00:01 Introduction to Murder of Crones Podcast

00:49 Exploring RBF

05:28 Personal Experiences with RBF

11:00 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions

14:04 The Burden of Smiling

16:18 RBF: A Double Standard

18:47 Cultural Expectations and Gender Norms

20:39 Unconscious Bias and Social Perception

29:16 The Impact of RBF on Professional Life

35:59 Navigating Health and Communication Challenges

36:49 The Impact of RBF on Women's Health

39:45 Systematic Dismissal of Women's Pain

44:13 Advocating for Women's Health in Medical Settings

47:03 Intersectionality in Healthcare Disparities

53:01 Understanding Neurodiversity and Gender Bias

54:25 Understanding Neurodivergence in Women

55:54 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions

01:00:46 The Impact of RBF Across Cultures

01:05:27 Breaking Gender Norms and Embracing Authenticity

01:08:28 The Social Media Landscape and Its Effects

01:11:16 Concluding Thoughts on Performance and Identity

References:

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Carpenter, Kalyn. “Getting real about women's health - Fatal delays and the misdiagnosis epidemic.” Curious Health, 7 March 2024, https://curioushealth.io/getting-real-about-womens-health-fatal-delays-and-the-misdiagnosis-epidemic/. Accessed 5 April 2026.

Christopher, Watkins D., et al. “Social Transmission of Leadership Preference: Knowledge of Group Membership and Partisan Media Reporting Moderates Perceptions of Leadership Ability From Facial Cues to Competence and Dominance.” Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 10, no. 2996, 2020. National Library of Medicine, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6971406/.

Cooke, Martin, and Tasha Shields. “Anti-Indigenous racism in Canadian healthcare: a scoping review of the literature.” International Journal for Quality in Health Care, vol. 36, no. 3, 2024. Oxford Academic, https://academic.oup.com/intqhc/article/36/3/mzae089/7749614?login=false.

Grossman, Samantha. “The Insidious Sexism of 'Resting Bitch Face.'” This Week, 10 January 2019, https://theweek.com/articles/815496/insidious-sexism-resting-bitch-face.

Harris Dr., Felecia C. “The Resting "Bitch" Face: Exploring The Intersection of African American Women, Race, Class, Sexuality. Gender and Reality TV.” University of North Carolina at Charlotte, 2016. Digital Commons, https://digitalcommons.winthrop.edu/sewsa/2016/fullschedule/5/.

Khazan, Olga. “Why Some Cultures Frown on Smiling.” The Atlantic, 27 May 2016, https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/05/culture-and-smiling/483827/.

Mehrotra, Palasha Krishna. “The Unsmiling Indian.” Man's World, https://www.mansworldindia.com/lifestyle/the-unsmiling-indian.

R, Rathi. “Resting Bitch Face: Why Are Only Women Accused Of Having It?” Feminism in India, 1 August 2017, https://feminisminindia.com/2017/08/01/resting-bitch-face-women/.

Salamon, Maureen. “The dangerous dismissal of women's pain.” Harvard Women's Health Watch, 2025. Harvard Health Publishing, https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/the-dangerous-dismissal-of-womens-pain.

“The Science Behind an Expressive Face and Its Signals.” Science Insights, 25 November 2025, https://scienceinsights.org/the-science-behind-an-expressive-face-and-its-signals/.

Strinic, Andrea, et al. “Multiple-group membership: warmth and competence perceptions in the workplace.” Journal of Business and Psychology, vol. 36, 2020, pp. 903-920. Springer Nature Link, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10869-020-09713-4.

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What happens when traditional gender roles meet modern feminism? In this episode of Murder of Crones, Kori, Jen, and Zab unpack the rise of the Tradwife movement—looking beyond the aesthetic to question power, choice, and control. Is it genuine empowerment, or a return to limiting roles shaped by religion and politics? Are Tradwives anti-feminist… or feminism in action? Listen in and decide.

Show Notes

Takeaways:

00:00 - Introduction: the rise and cultural aesthetic of Tradwives

02:00 - Social media's influence on Tradwife culture

03:13 - Initial reactions: admiration, confusion, alarm

03:38 - Tradwives as a step backward for feminism

04:01 - Wealth and visibility in Tradwife portrayals

05:03 - Traditional model: roles, submission, and gender dynamics

06:49 - Visual aesthetics and curated femininity

07:46 - Morphed and adapted social media presence

08:38 - Gender differences and role delineation

09:04 - Trust and decision-making in Tradwife relationships

10:11 - The importance of partnership vs hierarchy

11:00 - Vulnerabilities: losing skills, economic insecurity

12:06 - Historical context: 1950s family ideals

13:16 - Religious and conservative political influences

14:37 - Social media promotion and the glamorization of domestic skills

16:12 - Economic autonomy and potential risks for women

17:18 - The appeal amid burnout and social chaos

18:29 - Declining marriage rates and social trends

19:25 - The racial and nationalist undertones of procreation drives

21:17 - Impact on children and religious influences on gender roles

22:39 - Religious and conservative currents in the Tradwife movement

25:41 - The intersection with politics, legislation, and social policy

28:49 - Submission, obedience, and power structures in relationships

36:32 - The branding and monetization of Tradwife influencers

44:51 - Social media as a marketing platform and industry for Tradwives

55:21 - The dangerous undercurrents: white nationalism, religious fundamentalism

60:27 - Feminism and choice: navigating autonomy vs societal pressures

62:41 - The importance of political engagement and education

64:29 - The role of legislation and the need for social vigilance

66:01 - The importance of critical thinking and empathy in education

66:39 - Closing thoughts and acknowledgments

This episode provides a nuanced perspective on a controversial social phenomenon—balancing respect for individual choice with a critique of underlying societal and political currents. Whether you see the Tradwife lifestyle as empowerment or regression, understanding its complexities is essential.

Reference:                                                                                                                           Bilezikian, G. (1985). Beyond sex roles: What the Bible says about a woman’s place in church and family. Baker Academic.

Butler, J. (1990). Gender trouble: Feminism and the subversion of identity. Routledge.

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Welcome back for part 2 of Sex Myths. In this episode, we explore common myths about sex and desire in long-term relationships, aiming to shed light on the realities that often go unspoken. Our conversations unravel misconceptions that can hinder intimacy, offering insight and encouragement for enduring love lives.

Show Notes 

Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to the myths surrounding long-term sex and desire    02:17 - Why silence and shame impact ongoing intimacy                          04:46 - The myth that desire fades as love endures                                        10:05 - How opening relationships doesn't necessarily restore desire      13:54 - The historical and cultural context of sexuality in different eras        17:28 - Impact of societal beliefs about spontaneous desire                          22:19 - The challenge of keeping the spark alive and the myth of eternal passion                                                                                                                  26:40 - The effectiveness of date nights and creating space for eroticism  29:47 - Differentiating closeness and desire, and the importance of healthy separation                                                                                                35:10 - How desire fluctuates with life phases and age                                    43:06 - Common misconceptions that low desire signals relationship failure                                                                                                                    47:30 - The influence of porn, fantasy, and societal narratives on expectations                                                                                                      50:01 - The myth that aging ends eroticism and desire

Note: For a more comprehensive understanding, we recommend reading Esther Perel’s work, which guides much of our discussion today. The episode emphasizes that desire and intimacy in long-term relationships are dynamic, and myths only serve to create unnecessary pressure. Honest communication, ongoing self-awareness, and redefining societal narratives are key to sustaining a healthy, passionate love life as the years go by.

References

Basson, R. (2001). Using a different model for female sexual response to address women’s problematic low sexual desire. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 27(5), 395–403. https://doi.org/10.1080/009262301753148637

Baumeister, R. F., Catanese, K. R., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Is there a gender difference in strength of sex drive? Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(3), 242–273. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5

Bogaert, A. F. (2004). Asexuality: Prevalence and associated factors. The Journal of Sex Research, 41(3), 279–287. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490409552235

Hamilton, L. D., & Meston, C. M. (2013). Chronic stress and sexual function in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(7), 1349–1359. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-0044-0

Leitenberg, H., & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.469

Lindau, S. T., Schumm, L. P., Laumann, E. O., Levinson, W., O’Muircheartaigh, C. A., & Waite, L. J. (2007). A study of sexuality and health among older adults. New England Journal of Medicine, 357(8), 762–774. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa067423

Muise, A., Schimmack, U., & Impett, E. A. (2016). Sexual frequency predicts greater well-being. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(4), 295–302. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550615616462

Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.

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Join our hosts as Zabrina leads Kori and Jen in part one of this compelling conversation around Sexual Myths. Discover how myths shape our understanding of desire, intimacy, and aging in long-term relationships. Listen along as we explore cultural narratives, scientific insights, and personal experiences that challenge common assumptions about sexuality at every life stage.

Show Notes

Key Topics:

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to myths about long-term sexuality and desire

02:06 - How desire shifts with age and life changes

03:10 - The myth of maintaining desire through constant effort

05:15 - Scientific insights: spontaneous vs. responsive desire

08:22 - The truth about frequency and relationship satisfaction

12:42 - Myths about aging and the stereotypes of sexuality in older adults

15:15 - Cultural narratives and media representation of older sexuality

20:05 - How societal ageism impacts women's and men's desire

24:00 - The importance of communication and seeking help early

29:00 - Embracing change in desire and redefining intimacy

33:00 - Parenthood, children, and their effects on sexual intimacy

41:41 - Challenging the idea that aging ends eroticism

45:28 - The significance of intentionality and creating space for desire

50:34 - Moving beyond myths: embracing evolving sexuality at every age 

References:                                                                                                                         Basson, R. (2001). Using a different model for female sexual response to address women’s problematic low sexual desire. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 27(5), 395–403. https://doi.org/10.1080/009262301753148637

Baumeister, R. F., Catanese, K. R., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Is there a gender difference in strength of sex drive? Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(3), 242–273. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5

Bogaert, A. F. (2004). Asexuality: Prevalence and associated factors. The Journal of Sex Research, 41(3), 279–287. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490409552235

Hamilton, L. D., & Meston, C. M. (2013). Chronic stress and sexual function in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(7), 1349–1359. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-0044-0

Leitenberg, H., & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.469

Lindau, S. T., Schumm, L. P., Laumann, E. O., Levinson, W., O’Muircheartaigh, C. A., & Waite, L. J. (2007). A study of sexuality and health among older adults. New England Journal of Medicine, 357(8), 762–774. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa067423

Muise, A., Schimmack, U., & Impett, E. A. (2016). Sexual frequency predicts greater well-being. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(4), 295–302. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550615616462

Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.

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This week we discuss the disturbingly frequent occurrence of men taking credit for women’s academic, scientific, and entrepreneurial work. It’s so common, in fact, that the phenomenon has a name : The Matilda Effect. Join us as we explore this topic and look at some of the notable women who have had their work stolen. Let’s give credit back to these amazing inventors and creators. 

Show Notes

Key Topics:

Chapters:

00:00 Trolls and Feedback: Embracing Criticism

00:12 The Matilda Effect: Women in Science

04:47 Introduction to the Podcast Theme

04:58 Introduction and Light Banter

05:08 Historical Context and Examples of the Matilda Effect

07:56 The Matilda Effect and Historical Erasure

10:01 Women in Science: Unrecognized Contributions

12:50 The Legacy of Muleva Maric

15:41 Hollywood's Role in Highlighting Women's Contributions

17:19 Hedy Lamarr: Beauty and Brilliance

20:29 The Underappreciation of Women in History

23:04 The Impact of Role Models on Women in STEM

25:46 Artistic Contributions of Women: Artemisia Gentileschi

28:17 The Struggles of Female Artists and Writers

31:10 The Fight for Recognition and Credit

34:08 The Legacy of Women in Arts and Literature

44:36 Introduction and Context of the Conversation

44:51 The Impact of Social Media and Audience Engagement

47:27 Celebrating Women in Journalism: Nellie Bly

50:24 Athletic Achievements and Gender Inequality: Allison Felix

52:14 Historical Erasure and the Matilda Effect

55:06 The Role of Men in Feminism and Acknowledgment of Contributions

References:

Abrahams, Harold Maurice. “Allyson Felix | Medals, Olympics, Biography, Nike, & Facts.” Britannica, 10 January 2026, https://www.britannica.com/biography/Allyson-Felix. Accessed 9 February 2026.

Cobb, Mathew, and Nathaniel Comfort. “What Rosalind Franklin Truly Contributed to the Discovery of DNA's Structure.” Nature, Springer Nature, 25 4 2023, https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-01313-5.

Gage, Matilda Joslyn. “Woman as an Inventor.” Ester Lianawati, Northern University of Iowa, 17 October 2019, https://esterlianawati.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/woman-as-inventor.pdf. Accessed 31 January 2026.

Gage, Matilda Joslyn. “Woman as Inventor.” Collection Development Department, New York, Harvard Library, 1870, Persistent Link https://nrs.lib.harvard.edu/urn-3:fhcl:453551 Description Gage, Matilda Joslyn. Woman as inventor. [New York State?: s.n.], 1870. Repository Collection Development Department. Widener Library. HCL Institution Harvard University Accessed 01 .

Gagnon, Pauline. “The Forgotten Life of Einstein’s First Wife, Mileva Marić.” Scientific American, 19 December 2016, https://www.scientificamerican.com/blog/guest-blog/the-forgotten-life-of-einsteins-first-wife/. Accessed 1 February 2026.

Kaplan, Judith. “Francis Crick, Rosalind Franklin, James Watson, and Maurice Wilkins.” Science History Institute, 8 September 2025, https://www.sciencehistory.org/education/scientific-biographies/francis-crick-rosalind-franklin-james-watson-and-maurice-wilkins/. Accessed 31 January 2026.

Krichbaum, Emily. “Alice Ball.” National Women's History Museum, https://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/alice-ball.

Kuiper, Kathleen, and Jennifer Birkett. “Colette | French Writer & Feminist Icon.” Britannica, 24 January 2026, https://www.britannica.com/biography/Colette. Accessed 10 February 2026.

Lamm, Lisa. “The Matilda Effect: How Women Are Becoming Invisible in Science.” Lost Women of Science, 10 February 2023, https://www.lostwomenofscience.org/news-events/the-matilda-effect-how-women-are-becoming-invisible-in-science. Accessed 31 January 2026.

Lee, Jane J. “6 Women Scientists Who Were Snubbed Due to Sexism.” National Geographic, National Geographic Society, 19 May 2013.

Light, Jennifer S. “The Role of Women in Early Computing: Pioneers Who Shaped the Digital Age.” pcfly.info, Technology and Culture, https://pcfly.info/doc/Computers/18.pdf.

“Matilda effect.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matilda_effect. Accessed 31 January 2026.

“Nellie Bly | Biography & Around the World in Seventy-two Days.” Britannica, 23 January 2026, https://www.britannica.com/biography/Nellie-Bly. Accessed 9 February 2026.

Stevens, Nettie. “Nettie Stevens.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nettie_Stevens. Accessed 31 January 2026.

Tsaleza, Anastasia. “Women Artists' Works Misattributed to Men.” DailyArt Magazine, 29 December 2025, https://www.dailyartmagazine.com/women-artists-works-misattributed/. Accessed 10 February 2026.

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Join Kori, Jen and Zab as they discover how generations are shaped by shared historical moments, cultural shifts, and societal structure. This episode challenges common stereotypes and encourages critical thinking about how we understand generational identities. 

Show Notes

Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to the episode and the concepts of generational labeling

02:00 - Origins of generational theory and Mannheim’s context-based approach

05:00 - Cultural shaping of generations through media and societal values

09:00 - How historical events create collective memory and influence behaviour

13:00 - The critique of stereotypical personality traits assigned to generations

17:00 - The rise and critique of generational story frameworks (Strauss and Howe)

22:00 - Modern scholarly rejection of rigid generational boundaries

26:00 - How socio-economic status and environment influence experiences across generations

31:00 - Technological shifts and their influence on development and connection

36:00 - Environmental crises and how different generations respond

41:00 - Cultural moments defining generational identities (Ozzy Osbourne, Columbine, Madonna)

50:00 - The role of media, marketing, and stereotypes in shaping perceptions

55:00 - The evolving understanding of the human brain and neurodivergence in the digital age

60:00 - The impact of social media, algorithms, and dopamine on social skills and critical thinking

65:00 - Intergenerational conflict and assumptions about ease, hardship, and societal change

71:00 - Final reflections: Are generations useful labels or oversimplifications?

Note: This episode encourages critical engagement with generational narratives, emphasizing their social construction and the importance of viewing individuals beyond stereotypes.

References:

Brazil, Noli, and Jennifer Candipan. 2023. “Millennials as a Demographic Bridge to Diversity? Segregation and Diversity of Young Adult Neighborhoods.” Demography 60(1):1–28.

Cohen, Philip N. 2018. “The Coming Divorce Decline.” Socius 4:1–15.

Eyerman, Ron, and Bryan S. Turner. 1998. “Outline of a Theory of Generations.” European Journal of Social Theory 1(1):91–106.

Mannheim, Karl. 1952. “The Problem of Generations.” Pp. 276–322 in Essays on the Sociology of Knowledge, edited by P. Kecskemeti. London: Routledge & Kegan Paul. (Original work published 1928)

Strauss, William, and Neil Howe. 1991. Generations: The History of America’s Future, 1584–2069. New York: William Morrow.

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Today's episode explores the legendary Pirate Queens, Sayyida Al Hurra, known as the Queen of the Fog and Grace O’Malley who defied traditional gender roles in their times. The discussion delves into these women's strategic prowess, self-determination, and the political dynamics of their times. Hosts Zab, Jen and Kori reflect on themes of power, betrayal, and legacy. Emphasizing how these stories resonate through folklore and history, highlighting the challenges faced by these powerful women and the necessity for their stories to be told. 

Show Notes

Takeaways:

Chapters:

00:00 The Impact of Supportive Parenting 

04:51 Sayidda Al Hurra: The Free Lady of the Sea

23:56 Grace O’Malley : The Irish Pirate Queen

26:39 The Rise of a Sea Queen

33:14 The Folklore of Grace O’Malley

38:21 Grace’s Political Maneuvering

42:04 Meeting Queen Elizabeth I

46:26 Legacy Recognition of Grace O’Malley

46:56 Exploring the Importance of Historical Female Figures

49:42 Defying Gender Norms: Grace and Sayidda

52:30 Legacies of Grace and Sayidda

56:26 The Importance of Rediscovering Women’s Stories

Chambers, A. (1979). Granuaile: The Life and Times of Grace O’Malley, c.1530–1603. Dublin: Wolfhound Press.

Matar, N. (2009). Europe Through Arab Eyes, 1578–1727. New York: Columbia University Press.

Mernissi, F. (1993). The Forgotten Queens of Islam. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press.

National Folklore Collection (Ireland). (1930s–present). Oral tradition archives on Irish female leaders and maritime folklore. University College Dublin.

Howth Castle Archives. (16th–20th century). Records of the St. Lawrence family and Irish hospitality customs.

Al-Nasiri, A. (1894). Kitab al-Istiqsa li-Akhbar duwal al-Maghrib al-Aqsa. Rabat: Moroccan Royal Archives.

Patai, R. (1994). The Myth of the Jewish Race. Detroit: Wayne State University Press. (Contextual parallels on oral myth transmission.)

Simms, K. (1987). From Kings to Warlords: The Changing Political Structure of Gaelic Ireland in the Later Middle Ages. Woodbridge: Boydell Press.

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