In this episode, I break down a hard truth most people avoid: your life isn’t shaped by motivation or luck — it’s shaped by the standards you tolerate.

We talk about why men don’t rise to their potential, how small acts of avoidance quietly destroy self-trust, and why discipline only works when standards are clearly defined. This episode is about ownership, honesty, and understanding why your current results exist — without blame, but without excuses.

If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready,” this episode is meant to challenge that mindset and replace it with something stronger: personal standards that don’t negotiate with comfort.

In Episode 4, we faced a hard truth: no one is coming to save you.
Episode 5 answers the next question—what do you do once you accept that?

The answer isn’t motivation.
It isn’t waiting to feel ready.
It’s discipline.

In this episode, I break down why discipline is the foundation of self-trust, confidence, and long-term change. Not extreme discipline. Not perfection. Just the daily decision to keep your word to yourself.

At some point, every man has to face an uncomfortable truth: no one is coming to save you.

Not a mentor.
Not motivation.
Not the “right time.”

In this episode of Murder On The Couch, we dig into why so many young men feel stuck, lost, or behind—and how waiting for permission, clarity, or rescue quietly keeps them there.

We talk about:

• The lie modern culture sells young men

• Why comfort is addictive and dangerous

• The real cost of waiting on motivation

• How responsibility builds confidence, direction, and self-respect

• Why accepting this truth is actually freeing—not hopeless

This isn’t about shame.
It’s about ownership.

If you’ve been feeling frustrated, behind, or like life hasn’t started yet, this episode is a wake-up call. Because the moment you stop waiting… is the moment your life actually becomes yours.

No one is coming.
And that’s exactly why it’s on you.

I almost didn’t record this episode.

No inspiration. No clear topic. No big insight planned.

Just me, sitting with the resistance, the doubt, the lack of excitement, and the question of whether showing up still matters when you don’t feel “on.”

This isn’t a polished episode. It’s a real one.

If you’ve ever struggled to create when the spark is gone, this episode is for you.

Welcome to the FIRST Episode !!!!! We are talking about Traditions and this past Christmas Viral video. (it will break your heart)