Also…important mistake…I thought because I weeded out other guys and landed on him, everything else in terms of marriage & children would be the next step…I counted on them to lead and give directives for the pace of the relationship…I didn’t nag about marriage and was passive and docile…but the grave error is i didn’t go one step further and nag/demand/ask what outcome they wanted…cause they would have told me, nah bih, I just want to taste the rainbow and keep it pushing 🤷🏽♀️ statistically bm do not value marriage so I’m just eliminating that all together from my dating pool I’m open to! That cost me valuable wasted time. I’m open to attracting a quality lifetime companion, and once I’m positive we BOTH want that dynamic, then I think I’ll be comfortable submitting again, it’s just I submitted to the wrong type cause i didn’t understand fully what that meant…
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