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Hello Fellow Perverts!

A subby recently told me something to the effect of - “even though you warned me over and over that it was coming, my feelings were still hurt and I almost didn’t come back to see you.” When I heard that I knew I wanted to document my real life failed D/s relationships of 2023.

Communication breakdown is real. BDSM is not a sterile …