My Life My Choice

Why Is Knowing what to do and doing it are totally different things.  Daily, millions of people struggle with this issue.  And their struggle is real.  And as a result of these mental and emotional phenomena, we wind up not experiencing and or getting the most out of life. What does this mean; better yet can this type of behavior be changed?

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at “knowing it vs. doing it.”

Asking the wrong questions will always get the wrong answers and in creating the life that you are wanting to manifest.  “How Do I” is totally the wrong question to ask self.  Asking how, when you are consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction to manifest things into your life, taps into your past experiences, which have little bearing on the outcome.  Why? Because you don’t know the whole story!  And that fact alone means you need a different type of internal manifesting dialog.

Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the self talk necessary to get you to your next level.

There is a saying that states “your family can be a blessing or a curse!” Is there a difference between your biological family and your spiritual family?  In essence, the answer to that is no, there isn’t.  Yet, how each individual shows up in your life and the functions that they have agreed to perform are very, very different.  The indoctrinated ideals, along with the do’s and don’ts that you have been taught regarding our traditional biological family, if not understood has the potential to undermine your life. Both biological and spiritual members of your family play a key and powerful role in influencing your decision making process as well as holding sacred space for you.

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we take a look at family and what that means.

Things that have happen in your life are called seasons, whether they are deemed failures or successes.  Each event or situation, each success or each failure is a season that has a divine purpose or a divine reason.  Where you find yourself now, today, this minute or where you have been, is all about you, God, the Universe and “show and tell.”  Your seasons are showing you and telling you what your options for creativity are.  These options are found within two opposite poles i.e. hot and cold.  This is the Universal Law of polarity who’s divine purpose is to present you with contrasts and parallels in the form of duality.  It is within this framework of polarity and the nature of the Universal Law of Duality, which addresses your emotions, so that you will find what you need to support you in making your choices.  

Ecclesiastes 3:1 eloquently states “To everything there is a season, and a time, to every purpose under the heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die.”  It’s what you do in between that counts as what you choose to do make the life that you live.

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the polarity and duality of nature and life.

We all have a story to tell!  And your life story is created from what has happened in your life, or as I like to say “for” your life, coupled with what you think is going to happen to you.  Your life story is center around who you were and who you are evolving to be.  It’s all about the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the joys and pains.  Many of people choose to allow the pain associated with their stories to paralyzed them or at the very least cripple them emotionally, mentally and physically.  You will always have an ace in the hole; a spirit that refuses to be crushed to death and be buried. Your spirit is indomitable! And this gives you an opportunity to use your personal story to enhance your life and to create it the way in which you want. You will always have the ability to invoke the Universal Law of Rebound.

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the ways to use your story to your fullest advantage.

The biggest part of getting what you want and manifesting it in life is knowing what you want for your life. What ending are you wanting to see?  Having this kind of clarity can really cause havoc in your life and send us spiraling in all directions.  Why?  Because more often than not we feel that we don’t know what we are wanting and as a result there is a feeling of paralysis when making a choice…should I stay or should I go? “Agh! I don’t know what to do?”  However that’s not true.  You, me, we do know what we want and we do know what we need to do. Actually, know everything that we want and everything that we don’t want. It sometimes takes a little time sorting it out. 

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the push and pull of making choices

Can you keep your secret? Can you?  And Do you? There is a Universal Law of Secrecy that when invoked acts as a contingency plan to your manifestation happening and or happening in a smooth way.  Secrecy, in regard to manifesting goes beyond not telling what you are doing or being private.   It means “to be done without others having knowledge of it.”  This doesn’t means someone saying to you “I knew something was up…I just didn’t know what!”  It’s more like when your spouse of significant other blindsides you and calmly states, “I want out.  And I am leaving!   Whoa!  That came out of nowhere.  When did you decide to do this?”  And the response is “I’ve been thinking about this for the last year!” Now that’s a secret!

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at secrecy you and the Laws of Attraction.

Money!  You may associate the lack of money with poverty or living a lifestyle that you don’t want.  Poverty or being broke as a joke is a state of mind that has manifested.  By the time you are aware that you are in dire financial straits, it’s already too late.  Lack of money is the effect of the cause…it’s not the cause of the effect or lack... your thinking is.  The Laws of Attraction don’t work.  If you could do one thing, that doesn’t require you to do anything illegal or morally wrong, to change your finances to get “them” where you want “them” to be, would you do it? 

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we talk about what you can do to change your financial status.

“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:” Proverbs 23:7.  Biblical quotes, spiritual texts, religious doctrines, ol’ wives adages along with the new thought, metaphysical and spiritual communities state clearly “if you think it, you will manifest it!”  This is one of the foundational cornerstones taught within the Laws of Attraction.  The Secret by Rhonda Byrne and many other books published on using the Laws of Attraction are heavily based on this thought process.  So is it possible to prepare a contingency plan for something catastrophic without making it a reality?  

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we turn this belief on it head, inside out and upside down.

The Universal Law of Flexibility is exactly what the word means: capable of bending or being bent without breaking; this is flexibility. This law is about you choosing to be adaptable within your current situation.  It’s about finding the courage within you to move through your situation without resistance.  Flexibility allows you to find your unique foot and finger hold so you can push and pull yourself up.  Flexibility is choosing to consciously change your view finder lens and look at your life from a different perspective.  This law speaks to you about your willingness to change and authentically try something different. 

Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how flexibility impacts your life and what it can do for you.