Jollof and Kompa

My Nigerian Husband Thinks Crying During Arguments Is “Manipulation”


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In this episode, we talk about crying during arguments and why we see it so differently in our marriage.

My Nigerian husband believes crying during conflict can feel manipulative because it shifts the focus away from the conversation, while I see tears as a natural expression of vulnerability and emotion.

We unpack how culture, upbringing, and communication styles shape the way we handle conflict as a couple — and why emotional expression during arguments can feel so complicated.

What do you think? Is crying during arguments manipulative, or is it a healthy expression of emotion?

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Jollof and KompaBy Alexis & Augustus