My Orgasmic Life

Limited – Ep.30-Chapter 8 : Expectations kills erections and orgasms Becoming a better lover series on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me  How do I become a better lover Or How can I be better in bed […]

Limited - Ep.30-Chapter 8 : Expectations kills erections and orgasms \xe2\x80\x9c Becoming a better lover series\xe2\x80\x9d on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette
So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me \xe2\x80\x9c How do I become a better lover\xe2\x80\x9d Or \xe2\x80\x9cHow can I be better in bed\xe2\x80\x9d so I have been inspired to create series dedicated to being better at sex\xe2\x80\xa6 Content Warning : Swearing, Talking about Sex, Laughter, Getting Laid, Performance anxiety, ED, Erection issues, penis, vaginas and orgasms

Covering in this Chapter:
*What is Expectational sex?
*What is Explorational sex?
*Why Orgasm and Expectional goal driven sex kills boners
*Why Orgasm goal kills orgasmic release
* What is performance anxiety and the major reason it happens
* The only goal for sexy time is giving and receiving pleasure
* Tool: Mastering your own expectations \xe2\x80\xa6 Ask yourself do I have goal or am I just interested in exploring pleasure with my lover? If the answer is goal .. Stop, take 3 deep breaths; with each breath on the inhale squeeze your genitals and on exhale say in your head I am only here to give and receive pleasure. Then focus on your 5 senses to come back into your body and get out of your head.
*Tool: How to talk to your lover about moving out of expectational sex into explorational sex. Current lover and if new lover

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Ep.27 – Overcoming Hatred of Women on My Orgasmic Life  part of the #MightyMenSeries:   w/ co-host Ryan Thomas of https://theintimatelifestyle.com & Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette www.succulentliving.com . Content Warning: Swearing, Open and Honest talking about men’s sexuality , true feeling for some men of hatred and resentment towards women Today: *Honest conversation […]

Limited – Ep.29- Chapter 7- Mapping your lovers body  Becoming a better lover series on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me How do I become a better lover Or How can I be better in bed so […]

Limited – Ep.28- Chapter 6- Consent  Becoming a better lover series on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me:  How do I become a better lover Or How can I be better in bed. so I have been […]

Limited - Ep.28- Chapter 6- Consent \xe2\x80\x9c Becoming a better lover series\xe2\x80\x9d on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette
So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me \xe2\x80\x9c How do I become a better lover\xe2\x80\x9d Or \xe2\x80\x9cHow can I be better in bed\xe2\x80\x9d so I have been inspired to create series dedicated to being better at sex\xe2\x80\xa6 Content Warning : Swearing, Talking about Sex, Laughter, Getting Laid, Consent

Covering in this Chapter:
*What is consent? # different areas of consent : communication/interaction, touch, sexual
*Why do we want to get consent?
* Remember you don\'t know if someone as past sexual or physical trauma your touch might make them feel icky if you don\'t get verbal consent
*Importance of verbal consent
*The different levels of consent within a current sexual relationship verses new sexual relationship
*How to make consent sexy?
*Practice in non sexual spaces : Touch consent- \xe2\x80\x9c May I hug you?\xe2\x80\x9d May I touch you? Don\'t take it personally if the person says no .. Than ask them may you express your appreciation or excitement for them? Then respect their answer!!
*Practice saying no thank you to hugs and touches : Start with with a safe friends:Then move to strangers. Ask people ask before they hug or touch you please. This is training everyone around you to respect your personal space and body. Once you get more comfortable with this you can then it will be easier to do sexual .

Seat back and get ready for a wild ride\xe2\x80\xa6
Join My Orgasmic Life Podcast on Spreaker or Spotify or Apple podcast or Google Podcast or iHeartRadio

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#beabetterlover, #bebetterinbed, #havebettersex, #communication,#Interactionconsent,#touchconsent, #sexualconsent, #consent, #mindreadingisnotsexy,#askingissexy, #honestyissexy, #gaiamorrissette, #holisticsexualwellness, #myorgasmiclife, #Orgasmicliving, #sex, #sexcoach, #sexshame, #succulentliving, #myorgasmiclifepodcast #relationship, #Relationshipadvice,#SexEducation,#sexual, #sexualwellness, #sexualwellness, #sexualwellnessspecialist, #shame, #healing

Limited – Ep.26- Chapter 4- After Sex Communication  Becoming a better lover serie on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me  How do I become a better lover Or How can I be better in bedx so I […]

Limited - Ep.26- Chapter 4- After Sex Communication \xe2\x80\x9c Becoming a better lover series\xe2\x80\x9d on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette
So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me \xe2\x80\x9c How do I become a better lover\xe2\x80\x9d Or \xe2\x80\x9cHow can I be better in bed\xe2\x80\x9d so I have been inspired to create series dedicated to being better at sex\xe2\x80\xa6 Content Warning : Swearing, Talking about Sex, Laughter, Getting Laid,

Covering in this Chapter:
*Update information on 1st conversation in before sex : What do you lke to do after sex. Eg ; pee,bathe,cuddle, make a sandwich, watch TV
*Importance of After sex communication
*After sex debrief this how you get to become better lover
*Talking and sharing what your liked , what was some highlights , what you want to explore and expand on and what could be done differently
*Let go of your insecurity some wanting something different doesnt mean anything about your skills
*Remember improvement is sexy and win /win for everyone
*Practice hearing improvement requests without taking it personal.. Ask a loving friend is there anyway I could do anything different to improve our friendship? Then listen and don\'t freak out remember you asked and know they are just asking for something they need. It not about you sucking.
*Practice asking someone for something that would improve your time with them ( loving Friend) It is also very helpful to frame this conversation with what you are learning to do so everyone is on the same page

Seat back and get ready for a wild ride\xe2\x80\xa6
Join My Orgasmic Life Podcast on Spreaker or Spotify or Apple podcast or Google Podcast or iHeartRadio

There is a whole world of playful, educational, healing and safe experiences to be discovered at www.succulentliving.com and come frolic with Gaia on Social Media under Gaia Morrissette

#beabetterlover, #bebetterinbed, #havebettersex, #communication,#aftersextalk, #consent, #sexcommunicationstages,#mindreadingisnotsexy,#askingissexy, #honestyissexy, #gaiamorrissette, #holisticsexualwellness, #myorgasmiclife, #Orgasmicliving, #sex, #sexcoach, #sexshame, #succulentliving, #myorgasmiclifepodcast #relationship, #Relationshipadvice,#SexEducation,#sexual, #sexualwellness, #sexualwellness, #sexualwellnessspecialist, #shame, #healing

Ep.25 – How far can my Vagina Stretch on My Orgasmic Lifex with co-host Miss Jaime Jones Sexual Wellness Educator & Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette www.succulentliving.com . Content Warning: Swearing, VERY VERY explicit conversation about vagina stretching , Fisting, Personal graphic sexual experiences all about Miss Jones and Gaias vagina. Today: *Miss […]

Ep.24 – How to express sexual desire without being disrespectful or creepy on My Orgasmic Life part of the #MightyMenSeries:with co-host Mike Popovici of https://www.phoenixiaa.com & Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette www.succulentliving.com . Content Warning: Swearing, Open and Honest talking about Arousal and Desire, Penis and men sexuality Today: *What is sexual arousal […]