You feel like you have a third person (being the drink) in your relationship, and you are very tired of the behaviour and what comes with your partner drinking too much, for example:

• A critical and negative partner
• An aggressive and angry partner
• A shutdown and distant partner
• An agitated partner and so much more.

You are tired of talking about it, asking, ignoring, telling, nagging, and trying for your partner to change this hurtful behaviour.

You cannot fix this for your partner, they must want to change. I will repeat this. You cannot fix this for your partner even if you’re a pleaser, rescuer and martyr and sacrifice the well-being of you for your partner.

I will give you ways to support yourself if your partner drinks too much. You cannot change this for your partner. You may be living in the potential of who you think your partner can be without the drink?