•Sex without valid consent is rape. Who can give a valid consent? Anyone who isn't a minor, anyone who does not lack intellectual content and is not under the influence of drugs or alcohol at that time. I don't think there should be a written form with both parties' signatures cause thats just ridiculous, if you have to do all of that then I suggest you fall back cause apparently that person isn't trustworthy. I think when you make sexual advances towards someone and the person refuses, it's paramount for you to FALL BACK! Cause even when you think you both had fun, she may use it against you later on. Even if you perceive that the person would later give in and she's just doing "initial gra gra", FALL BACK! • Posting about your rape experiences on social media and how you enjoyed it may seem harmless to you but you're encouraging rapists. You're saying "we lowkey like it, we just pretending". Stay woke!