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You're done with the man who isn't ready for anything serious. You're ready to get the guy who shows up for the connection.

It's time to align with the man who is creating a life of substance. You've got to deliberately build out the belief system that men do understand the value of women. And you must release the lies you believed from your past that tell you otherwise.

In today's episode, we're talking about the fact that the man with God's anointing on his life obviously understands the value of a wife (or spouse). He understands the value of a love relationship. He understands the value that a relationship brings. As a woman, as a life partner, you are his greatest asset.

Why would a man who's creating a life of substance ever be interested in filling his time with a multitude of women who don't challenge or expand his mind, his skillset, his money, or his mission? He wouldn't. He doesn't have time for that. He doesn't have the desire for that. He has a purpose he is working towards. He understands the power and value of his focus. He's not putting that on anything that doesn't move the needle forward in his business, mission, or life. And that's who the love of your life is.

Your soulmate, a man with purpose and vision, values women. He values love and connection. He understands that the places he wants to go cannot be reached by himself. Therefore, he is obviously seeking you out. He is obviously ready, willing, and eager to invest in you and do whatever it takes to make your connection work. It just makes sense. That's just what you do with things that are valuable to you. You plan and take action towards them. So, you can trust your soulmate to plan and take action towards you— even if you don't consciously now who he is, yet.

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Seeing a man as helpless or struggling is the worst thing you could ever do for him. Afterall, the guy who can't provide for you (emotionally, financially, or physically) cannot make you feel safe. Today's episode is about what to do with your words and focus instead of "trying to help". If you like this snippet and want more on this topic, be sure to register for the FREE drop the defense training before it becomes a bonus inside of the Love After Loss course on June 8th, 2024.

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Why do you keep attracting the worst men in the world? Why are you only approached by men who aren't attractice to you? (I used to say, "why are ugly men the most bold with me??") Your answer lies in today's episode, my love.

When you're constantly finding things wrong with the guys who come into your world... when you're constantly being dissapointing... there's probably something deepr going on in your assumptions, beliefs, and fears. That's what we're getting to the bottom of today. It's possible that your non-negotiables might be self sabotage. Let's get into it.

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Today's episode includes a breakup script and some mindset shifts around what to do when you know it's time to end a relationship... even when people might be unhappy when you follow through with that desire. Enjoy.

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You're scared that there are more bad men than good in the world. You're doubtful in love and feeling discouraged after the unwanted shit you've experienced. In today's episode, we're shifting this. It's time to develop the mindset that every negative experience love is serving you and leading you up to your one true love.

You've got to believe that it's all adding up. You've got to believe that you are being led to him, and he is being led to you. If you don't do this, you will be wobbly. You will go back and forth. You will entertain the idea that you might die alone. You will entertain the idea that he might not ever show up. This creates unnecessary uncertainty in your future. That inspires feelings of fear, dread, powerlessness, doubt, and worry. It also inspires a mindset where you're approaching life from a hardened place where it feels like it's you against the world. Your soulmate is your rock; even if you have no conscious idea of who he is. And when you practice the mindset that your man is your destiny, you create an environment of safety, security, certainty, positive expectation, peace, love, and even joy within yourself. I LOVE THIS EPISODE. Enjoy.

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Being who you truly are isn't going to repel the love of your life. Whether it's your emotional needs, your physical flaws, or the ways you just don't yet have your shit together… you cannot scare off, intimidate, or deter the man that God created, anointed, called, assigned, and designated to be in your life.

Today's episode is about the power of showing up vulnerably: throwing all caution and unnecessary socialization ritual to the wayside, and being who you truly are so that your soulmate can spot you quickly and easily. We don't have time to show up insecure, doubtful, and worried anymore. Your soulmate relationship is a part of your purpose; and the two of you have amazing things to do in the world.

This means that you've got to get out of your own way. And when you're showing up, afraid to be openly honest and direct that you want marriage… afraid to be honest about what you need from him emotionally… or you're otherwise hiding who you truly are and what you're looking for… you're delaying your love, you're energetically communicating to the world that you are not actually ready for what you say you want… and you perpetuate belief systems that keep your emotionally fulfilled, purpose driven love at bay.

Today's episode is for the woman who is done pushing her love away. It's for the woman who is ready for the love and the union because there is so much goodness on the other side that she is ready to experience.

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There are very popular religious, spiritual, and sociological concepts that speak about the role that men should play in your life. A lot of them talk about men being the "head of the household" and being "leaders". But when you've experienced harm at the hands of men… the idea of being "lead" by a man feels incredibly triggering. As a consequence of your life experience, you've learn to perceive men as untrustworthy, dangerous, and unsafe. And that means, you struggle with the idea of depending on men, trusting them to show up for you, and expecting positive outcomes in your relationships with them. I've struggled with this, too.

As I understand Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine energy more and more, I understand that most teachers aren't explaining healthy masculine leadership and containment in a way that makes wounded, healing women (like myself) feel safe and open to that support. So, that's what we're discussing in today's episode. You want to understand how to attract a good man after abuse. And to do that, you need to understand these fundamental principles about Divine Masculine energy.

I spend the first 30 minutes of the episode setting the scene for today's conversation. Then, we talk about the consequences of abuse: so that you understand what's going on within you, as a woman, who has learned that she can't trust men. I'm making it really clear how, living a life where you don't need a man is possible… but it's not the best feeling life experience available to you. Afterwards, we get into my favorite part of the episode where we discusss what it actually means to be lead by a man in a healthy, balanced way.

By the end of this episode, you will not cringe at the idea of a man being the "leader" in your relationship or the "head of your household". By the end of this episode, I believe that you will feel more relief around this idea of being "lead" by a man.

And of course, in today's episode, we are talking about overcoming abuse, so here's a bit of a trigger warning for that; but in my opinion, we don't go into detail about anything particularly offensive or extreme.

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Your soulmate is a man who is pursuing and living in his zone of genius. The man living in his zone of genius is pursuing an emotionally fulfilled, purpose driven life. In that pursuit, he intentionally challenges and expands his comfort zone. That man shows up for the hard conversations. That man doesn't run away.

On the other hand, the man who lives in his zone of excellence is midly challenged, but mostly comfortable… He goes for low hanging fruit, most evidently in his dating life, and is probably incredibly successful according to external standards.

Right now, we live in a time where society teaches men to seek out their zone of excellence: a place where they can prove their worth to others without ever challenging themselves to fulfill their purpose and truly serve their communities. It's important that you, as a divine feminine or girlfriend or wife, can differentiate between zone of excellence living and zone of genius living; becuase only one of those is going to get you an amazing relationship and life with your soulmate.

In today's episode, we're defining zone of genius versus zone of excellence living, I'm breaking down why the zone of excellence is one hell of a dangerous drug, and we're briefly discussing how you can hold an energy that supports your soulmate in getting all that he's come here for. Ultimately, we're having a conversation around what it means to truly be a source of value in your man's life as a woman who requires emotional intimacy and closeness. When you express and expect a man to meet your emotional needs, you help him to fulfill his purpose in every aspect of life. I had so much fun recording this episode and giving you examples. As usual, I suggest listening the whole way through. Enjoy.

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In today's episode, we're continuing our lessons on divine feminine and masculine energy. I'm approaching the episode through the lens of forgiveness and self trust as I continue to do my own healing in my soulmate relationship.

We're having a million conversations about this, including an important talk around power dynamics in relationships. Whether you know who your soulmate is or not, are you showing up in your romantic relationship ready and all in, no matter what?

As I tap further and further into my divine feminine energy, there is a deeper level of self trust: trust in my ability to choose the right guy, trust in what I feel and sense about a man's good character, and trust in the masculine energy to show up. Because none of this works if the guy doesn't show up, right? So we're talking about healing abandonment, and we're also talking about creating supportive expectations for men.

I initially started the episode with the intention of talking about forgiveness and releasing the belief that you've got to force a guy to show up for you, but the episode expanded into so much more. Enjoy.

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How to attract your soulmate? How to find the one after failed relationships? How to overcome heartbreak? In today's episode, we're focusing on your mindset. You have formed an identity around your heartbreak and disappointments in love. Every time you tell the old story about how things didn't work out, and how they didn't show up, you affirm the identity that you're someone who doesn't get the love they desire... and that's not exactly true. When you deliberately shift your focus to all of the amazing things about the men of the past (I'm being serious), then you open up to allow in the perfect man who will be the perfect amalgamation of ever man you've ever loved. I know this because I've done it. And you probably have, too. Tune in to find out how to begin this mindset practice today.

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