What are 30 facts in a narcissistic home?

1. The narcissist only talks about themselves.
2. The narcissist likes to keep track of people's movements where they are and what they are doing at all times.
3. The narcissist freaks out if no one caters to their current mood, but gets pissed if anyone else is in a bad mood.
4. The narcissist brings up your past mistakes to use against you for standing up for yourself and to whittle down your self-worth so you remain a doormat.
5. The narcissist has the emotional maturity of a toddler.
6. The narcissist is constantly criticizing you, everyday all day 24/7.
7. The narcissist makes everything about them, even mundane tasks like making a sandwich.
8. The narcissist tells you that other people have it worse than you, so stop complaining.
9. The narcissist makes things about themselves, e.g. someone is sick but they get mad at the sick person for making them "stressed".
10. The narcissist never takes responsibility for what they did wrong if they hurt you.
11. The narcissist puts on a false image that is anything but the hurt child who lived in perpetual self-loathing and toxic shame.
12. When the narcissist wrongs other people, they're reminded of their own hurt and it triggers a massive shame response, which they avoid by never admitting fault.
13. The narcissist will never improve because they can't feel shame for their wrongdoings.
14. The narcissist will distort and turn whatever you say back on you.
15. The narcissist believes their own projections - an accusation from them is a confession.
16. The narcissist is arrogant and rude.
17. The narcissist is unstable and yells frequently.
18. The narcissist usually belittles others to elevate themselves.
19. The narcissist gaslights you, making you question your own reality and sanity.
20. The narcissist keeps you in a state of confusion and separateness that allows them to manipulate you.
21. The narcissist is a skilled manipulator who distorts the truth.
22. The narcissist makes you feel guilty for their wrongdoings.
23. The narcissist is controlling and domineering.
24. The narcissist destroys your self-esteem and self-worth over time.
25. The narcissist is incapable of empathy or considering others' feelings.
26. The narcissist is envious of others and resentful of their success.
27. The narcissist has a fragile ego and lashes out at any perceived slight.
28. The narcissist is charming and manipulative with those outside the family.
29. The narcissist is incapable of a healthy, reciprocal relationship.
30. The narcissist will never change or take accountability for their abusive behavior