0:01 - I try to convince all the women I know to have anal sex

1:06 - Why we are talking about it

2:15 - Erin’s brief narrative - It wasn’t working for me

3:45 - “I think I should create detailed metrics about this” - Neg

4:10 - Let’s talk EXPLICIT CONSENT

5:24 - Communication is sexy

9:03 - “Pure” societies and the “sanctity of your asshole”

11:30 - Opening up to conversations on pleasure

13:18 - Shout out to the Punany Poets & Pussy Potions Tea!

14:53 - Finding extreme pleasure

15:43 - You don’t have to try it, but I ask you to…

17:22 - It’s far easier to time simultaneous climax

18:42 - Laying out options...choose what’s best for you

19:52 - Fear of having an accident

20:40 - What made you continue exploring this option for yourself?

23:07 - Avoiding accidents

24:20 - How anal sex is portrayed in porn

25:40 - Safety & security conversation

27:20 - Erin’s labor poop story

29:35 - Positions in porn make anal uncomfortable & positions for most pleasure

35:36 - Is there prep work? What’s the foreplay for anal?

36:25 - Olive oil?

38:30 - Taking care of the mess

40:28 - Main take aways

42:00 - What’s the pitch for anal when I’ve got this other thing that’s working??

46:09 - Exploring your body and feminist standpoint

46:58 - How much lube?

50:33 - Modern day anal sex with an empowered woman

54:00 - The Aftermath

55:30 - Submission can be hot