By Neghar Fonooni and Erin Brown
The podcast currently has 8 episodes available.
Episode 24 : The Lie of Having Your Shit Together
0:57 – There’s a LOT of pressure for millennials today
1:35 – I feel so fortunate that social media wasn’t a part of my younger life
3:08 – What we were doing in our early twenties
7:43 – The most important thing Neg learned in her 20s
9:54 – For the first time the other day, I reflected back on college and realized I love the woman I was
13:24 – How I feel like I have my shit together
20:32 – Perfectionist society and choosing your own priorities
23:24 – Stop auditioning for relationships + Hustling for worthiness
29:30 – Getting over it
32:23 – Unpacking, authenticity, and honest relationships
34:48 – It’s OK to be vulnerable
37:36 - Whatever you do, someone is going to make fun of you
42:13 – It was like reading a whole different book
44:15 – Tools we would recommend
44:30 – Finding people through social media that resonate with you, not what you think you should be doing
45:21 – Connections vs. comparison
47:00 – There’s not really an “all together”
48:43 – “Is this gonna be FOREVER??”
51:45 – Doing our best
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Episode 20 (??): Wonder Woman and femininity and whatever else pops up!
00:54 – Neg’s thoughts on “Wonder Woman” (movie, 2017)
Side note – the director is from Lawrence, KS (where Erin hails from), and, a WOMAN!
1:45 – “As the sociopolitical climate stands currently, we can’t afford for this film not to crush”
2:32 – Mentioning the controversy around Gal Gadot
4:36 – Here at NWR, we don’t want to avoid the messy conversations…
5:21 – Gal isn’t my hero. Wonder Woman is! + what Neg learned about her training
6:56 – Uh…Robin Wright TOTALLY made up for Buttercup (finally)
7:45 – Erin’s thoughts on the movie
7:57 – SPOILER ALERT!!! FAST FORWARD TO…
10:30 – Fair criticism – when you get ONE female superhero movie, there is so much that it won’t get right!
13:57 – Something we can learn from Wonder Woman – preparing girls in our culture…
14:42 – Ann Wolfe – world-class badass who is NOT afraid to take up space!
16:00 – We need to stop saying “Women CAN be strong”
16:39 – The new animated “Snow White” movie…things aren’t looking good
17:26 – I would love it so much if she was fat and it was never talked about
18:08 – Playing into awful marketing
19:13 – MORE SPOILERS!! FAST FORWARD TO…
19:36 – Segway into FEMININITY!
22:04 – Addressing over-sexualization and romantic plotline in Wonder Woman
24:08 – Femininity as a social construct, necessary energies, and stripping feminine energy from men
26:47 – There’s no nailing it when it comes to femininity!
30:03 – I feel both masculine and feminine in energy ALL the time!
31:31 – We have to be able to show up authentically (and feel things in a REAL way)!
31:49 – “I get teased a lot at the gym” – Neg
36:09 – Pullups and having your nails done don’t have to be masculine/feminine
36:40 – Girl World Magazine – letter to the editor
39:36 – I shouldn’t have to explain why sometimes I like to wear snapbacks, and sometimes I like to wear lipstick! + EVERYBODY should be able to have all of these forms of expression available to them!
41:30 – Is there any way to avoid religion in this conversation?
42:07 – Nothing’s off topic anymore…we are talking about marriage and religion now!
43:14 – Talking intersectionality with my guy friends over beer
46:46 – Warrior archetypes!
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Episode 16: Reverse Racism - It’s a lie
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0:01 - I try to convince all the women I know to have anal sex
1:06 - Why we are talking about it
2:15 - Erin’s brief narrative - It wasn’t working for me
3:45 - “I think I should create detailed metrics about this” - Neg
4:10 - Let’s talk EXPLICIT CONSENT
5:24 - Communication is sexy
9:03 - “Pure” societies and the “sanctity of your asshole”
11:30 - Opening up to conversations on pleasure
13:18 - Shout out to the Punany Poets & Pussy Potions Tea!
14:53 - Finding extreme pleasure
15:43 - You don’t have to try it, but I ask you to…
17:22 - It’s far easier to time simultaneous climax
18:42 - Laying out options...choose what’s best for you
19:52 - Fear of having an accident
20:40 - What made you continue exploring this option for yourself?
23:07 - Avoiding accidents
24:20 - How anal sex is portrayed in porn
25:40 - Safety & security conversation
27:20 - Erin’s labor poop story
29:35 - Positions in porn make anal uncomfortable & positions for most pleasure
35:36 - Is there prep work? What’s the foreplay for anal?
36:25 - Olive oil?
38:30 - Taking care of the mess
40:28 - Main take aways
42:00 - What’s the pitch for anal when I’ve got this other thing that’s working??
46:09 - Exploring your body and feminist standpoint
46:58 - How much lube?
50:33 - Modern day anal sex with an empowered woman
54:00 - The Aftermath
55:30 - Submission can be hot
Episode 06 :: Talking With Your Kids
0:20 - I peed in my backyard
1:18 - Mothering is a woman’s whole life...whether you choose to be a parent or not
3:04 - Mom Compassion
4:18 - Main Thing: We ARE having difficult conversations with our kids
5:20 - Let’s Talk About Sex
7:35 - Starting with objective information
9:31 - Sex: It’s like going to the movies!
17:40 - Always answer honestly, satisfy curiosity
21:58 - EXPLICIT understanding of consent
23:40 - What can I get vs. what we choose to do together
27:17 - Erections at the Dinner Table
29:13 - What’s off limits in your home?
32:32 - Are Barbies off limits?
34:14 - Having these conversations ahead of the game makes them less difficult
38:07 - FIlmmakers, authors, educators, creators...LISTEN UP!
40:21 - Sheltering your children doesn’t prevent them from exposure
42:34 - We can create a safe space for our children to talk with us sans shame
48:59 - Walking around in a bubble…
51:00 - An Argument FOR Parenting in the Bubble
58:45 - What do cuss words MEAN
1:04:56 - Because-I-said-so parenting
1:07:25 - Look for the helpers
4:04 - Tell me what’s happening to my body??
5:36 - The first and last day of your cycle
7:15 - What my method of period tracking USED to be
8:21 - I fired my gynocologist...here’s why
11:01 - Why I use a period app
11:43 - You can get pregnant outside of ovulation
14:42 - Ovulating with the full moon and new moon
15:02 - Syncing cycles
16:02 - That’s the only time I use Twitter…
16:35 - Getting in touch with your cycle is nearly impossible on hormonal birth control
17:47 - I have never felt better in my body than when…
19:17 - If hormonal birth control doesn’t work for you…
20:36 - Erin’s IUD attacked her
23:28 - I feel most like a woman when…
24:33 - That’s Ovulation!
25:56 - How can I start tracking my period?
31:36 - The See of Patriarchy
32:34 - Menstrual Blood - from sacred elixir to…
35:06 - CUNT used to mean…
37:04 - Our hope for you!
40:00 - Give yourself a Uterine Massage!
Episode 04 :: PERIODS pt1
2:05 - Neghar’s First Period
5:22 - Life’s a Bitch, and Then You Die
7:08 - My 10-Year-Old Son Knows All About Periods
7:47 - To Bush, Or Not To Bush
9:02 - Erin’s First Period
10:35 - He Referred to My Period as “Broken”
11:22 - Period Options and the Cultural Evolution of Acceptance
15:52 - THINX Panties!!!
16:38 - Jen Sinkler Shout Out!
18:13 - Why Erin Isn’t a Big Fan of Tampons
20:00 - Erin’s THINX Show-and-Tell
20:52 - Disclosure: NOT Sponsored By THINX (but would love to be…)
22:30 - Your Period Wants Out! Don’t Have One? Address That!
23:30 - The Energy and Release Around Your Period
25:50 - Women and the Moon
27:16 - This One Time, At Witch Camp…(Honoring Your Womanhood)
29:13 - Private, But NOT Shameful
30:26 - No Matter Which Management You Choose, the Choice is Important
33:46 - Powerful Passages
34:49 - Get In Touch With Your Menstrual Cycle
35:13 - On the Next Episode (PERIODS pt2)!!
References:
“Cunt: A Declaration of Independence”
“Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit”
On this episode Neghar and Erin have an introductory conversation on intersectional feminism. They define terms and examine critiques of the movement as well as some discussion of the women's march on Washington and worldwide.
The podcast currently has 8 episodes available.