🎙️ Welcome to a powerful holiday episode of Healthy Happy Wise Wealthy (HHWW)! Host Mary Meyer is joined by parental alienation coach Charlie McCready live from England to discuss one of the most misunderstood and devastating traumas families can endure. In this heartfelt, informative conversation, Mary Meyer and Charlie McCready shine a spotlight on the hidden struggles of parents and children affected by parental alienation, especially during emotionally charged times like Christmas. Drawing from personal experience and years of coaching, Charlie McCready breaks down the phases and signs of alienation, offers strategies for healing, and provides hope for those facing what feels impossible.

🌟 Topics Covered: -What is parental alienation and how does it differ from estrangement? 

-Pre-alienation: warning signs and subtle behaviors 

-The emotional impact on parents (grief, isolation, shame, powerlessness, injustice, anxiety, fear, anger, guilt) 

-Understanding the alienator and children’s coping mechanisms 

-The psychological dynamics of narcissism and trauma 

-How to support children and yourself during periods of alienation 

-Navigating holidays and special occasions while alienated 

-Why community support is crucial and what "help" actually looks like 

-Resources and therapeutic methods for recovery 

-Practical advice for friends, family, and professionals witnessing alienation

Key takeaways: 

-Parental alienation is real, traumatizing, and still widely misunderstood—even by legal and mental health professionals. It’s not just “bad blood after divorce” but a systematic undermining of a parent-child bond. 

-Acceptance and hope are essential tools for healing: accept your present reality without giving up hope for reconnection. 

-The emotional toll is profound and cyclical; parents need to prioritize their own healing as much as their desire to “fix” the relationship with their child. 

-Recognize common traps: over-communication, responding to smear campaigns, and letting anxious thoughts dominate. 

-The alienator’s behaviors often stem from their own untreated trauma and disorders. Understanding their patterns can help reduce escalation. 

-Empathetic support from friends and professionals is lifesaving. Your presence and validation matter more than advice. 

-Reconciliation is often possible, but requires patience, boundaries, and unconditional compassion.

Some questions I ask: 

-“What led you to become a parental alienation coach?”
-“Can you describe the phases and signs of pre-alienation?”
-“How can parents begin to heal emotionally, even in the worst moments?”
-“What are those key triggers that escalate alienator behaviors?”
-“How do you help parents differentiate between estrangement and alienation?”
-“What practical steps do you recommend during holidays, when pain is most acute?”
-“What can family, friends, and community members do to offer meaningful support?”
-“Are there resources or therapies that make a real difference for those affected?”

Learn more about our guest: 

-Follow Charlie McCready on social media @CharlieMcCready1 

-Website: CharlieMcCready.com

-Contact for coaching: CharlieMcCready.com/coaching/

Resources list: 

-Books on narcissism and trauma (specific titles not mentioned, but recommended by Charlie McCready) 

-Search for information on EMDR therapy and attachment theory for trauma recovery 

-Parental alienation support communities online

-Look up “parental alienation coaching” and “attachment theory therapy” for more guidance

-For statistics and deeper research, explore international parental alienation advocacy groups and relevant legal resources (no specific organizations listed in transcript)

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Produced by Erika Christie

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