When it comes to your health and wellness, when do you harness grit vs grace? In this episode of Navigating Nourishment, Debbie and Wendy discuss the balance between grit and grace in overcoming adversity, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one's stories, practicing self-compassion, and maintaining resilience while also being gritty when necessary. They explore the need for balance between discipline and grace in various aspects of life, including fitness, and share practical strategies for self-care and personal growth.
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Debbie 00:00
There's so many times, and I'm sure this has probably happened to some of you, where you're going about your business and doing your activities, doing your thing, and something happens, you get hurt, or you get sick, or plans are canceled, and everything just stops, and you're mad, upset or depressed because you can't do what you were going to do, and you just get down on yourself. And so before you know it, a few weeks have gone by, and even though you said, Okay, I'm going to pick myself up after a week, you didn't, because you just kind of went down that drain, and you find yourself a month later feeling terrible about yourself for not doing anything.
Wendy 00:46
That sounds like someone who is totally derailed.
Debbie 00:50
Yeah, and that happens a lot.
Wendy 00:54
It does. It happens a lot with our clients, if they've set out to do something specific, new habit, or if they've committed to a specific way of eating, and then don't do it, they just feel bad about themselves. It's really demoralizing, and it can have a ripple effect on other places and situations in our life. It can affect our work performance, our workout performance, and our relationships with our friends and our family.
Debbie 01:29
We see it happen all the time. I'm thinking of one of our clients in particular, who was really on a great roll of walking and being active regularly for the first time in her life, where she was really getting in shape and feeling good about herself. And she got injured, and she went down a drain fast because she had worked so hard to get there, and then all of a sudden, it had to stop, and she was told she had to stop by certain people as well, and that just made her go in a completely opposite direction.
Wendy 02:05
Today, we're going to be talking about grit and grace and that really fine line between the two of them. We’ll talk about how to pick ourselves up and hold intentions with grace AND where we need to be a little bit more gritty.
Debbie 02:25
Just those two words have helped me tremendously because I've felt myself starting to circle the drain a few times. I’ve had to say, wait a second here, where's my grit? I need to just get a little bit of grit right here, and it puts me into a different state of mind. So those two words are very powerful, and that's what we want to uncover here. Welcome to Navigating Nourishment. This is Debbie.
Questions to ask yourself when you need to decide on grit vs grace
Wendy 02:50
And this is Wendy. We're so happy you've joined us. I think this is such a human nature conversation, and we can apply the idea of grit and grace to anything in our life. And it's a matter of saying, All right, here's my situation. Here's my truth right in this moment:
Do I need to:
muster through this? Or rest?
actually get this out? Or wait till tomorrow?
put in more energy, more determination? Or relax?
focus on this a little bit more?
Am I giving myself excuses or being too soft on myself?
Maybe I'm being lazy?
Maybe you know the story you're telling yourself and ask. If I put more grit into this specific situation, is it going to move me towards my goal, or is it going to bury me?
Debbie 03:43
That's a big thing where you mentioned stories, because it really does come down to the stories that ...