What if becoming parents isn't a smooth transition, but a crash landing that reshapes everything?

In this episode of Our Patients Are Having Sex, I'm joined by Elly Taylor, an Australian relationship counsellor, author, and creator of the Becoming Us model—a groundbreaking approach to helping couples stay connected through the transition to parenthood.

We talk about why 92% of couples report more conflict after having a baby, and how emotional, relational, and identity shifts can impact intimacy and mental health. Elly shares why disconnection after baby is normal, what helps couples repair and reconnect, and how early support can make all the difference. Together we explore:

Why the transition to parenthood can feel like a "crash landing"

The emotional and identity changes both parents experience

Why is the relationship the foundation of the family

The importance of communication, compassion, and support

How professionals can "plant seeds" for relationship conversations

The real story behind sex and intimacy after a baby

It's a grounding, insightful conversation that reminds us - when couples take care of themselves and each other, their whole family benefits.

💬 Learn more about my work at www.isiah-mckimmie.com 💬 Learn more about Elly Taylor's work at www.ellytaylor.com or connect on Instagram @isiahmckimmie.sexologist @ellytaylorauthor @ourpatientsarehavingsex