Your Intended Message

Negotiation Strategies that Work: Fotini Iconomopoulos

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Episode 298 (Fotini is based in Toronto)

In this conversation with Fotini Iconomopolous we explore:

  • why the concept of “winning” in negotiation can damage outcomes
  • how conflict is a natural and necessary part of negotiation
  • why emotions—not information—drive most decisions
  • how perception differs from intention in communication
  • the importance of considering how others feel during negotiation
  • the balance between advocating for yourself and serving others
  • how preparation shapes confidence and effectiveness
  • why adapting your approach to the individual matters
  • how asking questions gives you control of the conversation
  • how to respond when budget objections arise
  • the role of silence and restraint in high-stakes conversations
  • how to use language to create alignment and collaboration
  • why value creation is more effective than price reduction
  • how negotiation styles shift across contexts and relationships

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    About our guest, Fotini Iconomopolous:

    She is author of the book on negotiation "Say Less, Get More" which is available in most book stores.

    Take the quizz for a free assessment of your natural negotiation style.

    https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/

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    Key Lessons from this conversation with Fotini:

    • the word “win” creates a losing dynamic in negotiation
    • negotiation is a form of conflict, but conflict is not inherently negative
    • misalignment in negotiation is driven more by emotion than information
    • removing emotion from negotiation is impossible and counterproductive
    • how you make people feel determines whether they accept your proposal
    • effective negotiation requires balancing three key questions
    • preparation is essential and should never be replaced by “winging it”
    • asking questions early gives you control of the negotiation
    • open-ended questions prevent immediate rejection and invite collaboration
    • objections should trigger exploration, not discounting
    • negotiation requires adapting to the individual, not just the situation
    • silence is a strategic advantage in negotiation
    • talking too much weakens your position and reveals vulnerability
    • value can be created by reframing, not just reducing price
    • trading value creates better outcomes than making concessions

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