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Let’s be clear: it’s not your job to fix someone.
In this episode, I’m breaking down why dating someone who’s still carrying emotional (or tangible) baggage—from past trauma, toxic exes, baby mama/daddy drama, or unhealed wounds—is a setup for resentment, disappointment, and broken foundations.
You’ll learn:
🧠 Why carrying baggage = unhealed pain
🚩 How taking on someone’s issues turns you into a caretaker, not a partner
⚠️ What to do when you’re the one trying to “help” too much
✅ Why true connection starts when both people show up whole and ready
You deserve someone who’s done the work to be ready for you—not someone who’s hoping you’ll carry their load while they figure it out.
💬 Need help spotting hidden baggage or setting better boundaries in dating? DM or email me “coaching” and we’ll get to work. Let’s get it! 🤙🏾
Let’s be clear: it’s not your job to fix someone.
In this episode, I’m breaking down why dating someone who’s still carrying emotional (or tangible) baggage—from past trauma, toxic exes, baby mama/daddy drama, or unhealed wounds—is a setup for resentment, disappointment, and broken foundations.
You’ll learn:
🧠 Why carrying baggage = unhealed pain
🚩 How taking on someone’s issues turns you into a caretaker, not a partner
⚠️ What to do when you’re the one trying to “help” too much
✅ Why true connection starts when both people show up whole and ready
You deserve someone who’s done the work to be ready for you—not someone who’s hoping you’ll carry their load while they figure it out.
💬 Need help spotting hidden baggage or setting better boundaries in dating? DM or email me “coaching” and we’ll get to work. Let’s get it! 🤙🏾