Never Would Have Guessed

By Bethany Fray and Charissa Brim

Join us as we dive into the things others never would have guessed about sexual trauma.... more

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The podcast currently has 10 episodes available.

Never Would Have Guessed episodes:

July 13, 2023 A Conversation on Purity Culture with Sheila Gregoire
Charissa and Bethany talk with author, Sheila Gregoire, about her latest book, She Deserves Better.

Learn more about Sheila at BareMarriage.com and follow her on Instagram @sheilagregoire and Twitter @sheilagregoire.

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57min
November 22, 2022Episode 9: How to know when it's time to take a break
It's good and important to process our experiences, but no one can stay in the hard parts of their story forever. In this season finale we talk about 3 signs it's time to take a break, and what that can actually look like.

Let's stay connected after the season!
Bethany has some exciting things coming up in the new year
Charissa has a bundle of Audio Affirmations for the holidays, available to download later this week.
Find out more about these offers and other resources we’ve been brainstorming as they become available -- sign up at charissabrim.com/tellmemore and bethanyfray.com.
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53min
November 15, 2022 Episode 8: The things we don't say out loud
There’s so much we don’t say about our experiences as survivors. This is where shame incubates, which can keep us trapped in our trauma responses. In today’s episode, we confess the things we don’t say out loud that leave us feeling so alone.

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November 08, 2022 Episode 7: What no one told me: sex after trauma
It’s no surprise; sexual trauma impacts our sexuality. But sometimes this looks different than we may expect. Today we dish about how our different traumas impacted our sexuality, what feels tricky now, and what we’re doing to make sense of it all.
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49min
October 25, 2022 Episode 6: Healing also looks like...
The path to healing is a lot wider than we perceive it to be. Bethany & Charissa share their experiences with therapy, surprising things that healed them, and healing lifestyles they embrace. What does healing look like for you?

Call and tell us at (504)517-5966.

Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com
To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast
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1h 4min
October 18, 2022 Episode 5: How trauma impacts your relationships
Trauma doesn't just impact you, it impacts your relationships with friends and family, too. Why does this happen, and how can we hold the tension of trauma in relationship today?

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To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast

Show Notes:
Link to the trauma and relationship arch below
https://i.postimg.cc/QMLH4tcv/The-Arch.png

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50min
October 11, 2022Episode 4: Purity culture and trauma...help! Pt 2
How does purity culture and trauma impact our present-day spirituality? Interestingly, the answer to that question reveals a lot about the embodiment of our sexuality too.
Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com
To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast

Resources:
Here are a few others speaking on the topic of purity culture:
Dr. Camden Morgante (@drcamden)
Sheila Gregeoire (@sheilagregoire)
Where Do We Go Podcast (@wheredowegopod)
Sarah of @DesconstructingPurityCulture
Dr. Laura Anderson (@drlauraeanderson)
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25min
October 04, 2022 Episode 3: Purity culture and trauma...help! Pt 1
What did ‘Purity Culture’ actually teach us, and why does it matter? Taking a closer look at its teachings can impact our understanding of our sexuality and the trauma we experienced.
Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com
To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast
Show Notes:
@sheilagregoire on Instagram

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39min
September 26, 2022 Episode 2: What our assumptions about consent are really saying
What are your assumptions about consent? Naming these internalized beliefs can impact our understanding of consent. From the phrase “no means no” to power dynamics and people pleasing, flipping these scripts can help us cultivate self-compassion and a legacy of empowerment.

Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com
To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast

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47min
September 16, 2022 Episode 1: How trauma stereotypes are affecting you
What’s behind the name "Never Would Have Guessed”? The story of how we met exposes the stigmas and negative assumptions we can carry about survivors of sexual trauma. We believe naming and confronting these stigmas can play a huge role in our healing.

Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com
To support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast

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41min

FAQs about Never Would Have Guessed:

How many episodes does Never Would Have Guessed have?

The podcast currently has 10 episodes available.