New City Mastery w/ Brian Marckesano: Elevate Your Social Game (Ep 259)

Links:

Brian's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brianmarckesano/

New City Mastery IG - https://www.instagram.com/newcitymastery

New City Mastery Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCABp_Ox65e9TTdQXmYt_HaA/videos

Show Notes:

Welcome to another episode of the Inner Confidence Podcast where your journey to mastering self-assurance is our commitment. I'm your host, Robbie Kramer, and today, you're in for a real treat. I've got with me Brian Marckesano, a mastermind in creating an attractive lifestyle and building powerful connections in new cities.

In this episode, we're diving deep into the secrets of establishing yourself in a fresh environment. We'll explore the essentials of looks maxing and navigating social interactions to allure opportunities and romantic interests. It's not just about looks; it's about presenting yourself in a way that speaks volumes about your value.

Brian will break down why it's crucial to prioritize social skills and friendships over pure pursuit of dating. We'll discuss the perils of relying on dating apps and consider more authentic strategies that can help even those who don't fit the stereotypical mold of attractiveness to thrive socially and romantically.

Expect personal stories, like my own adventure with leveraging Airbnb for status, and Brian's successful photo booth concept that skyrocketed his networking prowess. We're also getting real about the "James Bond effect," fashion, fitness, and the art of psychological attraction, including some honest talk about our personal grooming choices and the impact they've had on our confidence and attractiveness.

Brian also introduces his unique take on Instagram as a modern-day CRM, revealing how we can best leverage group chats and maintain meaningful relationships on the platform. Oh, and if you've ever felt the frustration of feeling lost in a new city's social scene, Brian's story of his move to Charlotte will surely inspire you.

Time Stamps:

00:00 Inner Confidence podcast, focused on dating success.

09:31 Debate between hunting and farming in dating.

15:41 Focusing on high value men brings change.

18:30 Creating social setups for normal guys.

23:41 Status, women, and routines shape dating decisions.

28:16 Create value, get opportunities, texts for dates.

37:10 Inferiority complex leads to excessive compliments.

38:36 Connect based on interests, not status or expertise.

44:38 Unlocking reciprocity, value, and successful social connections.

50:08 Instagram is crucial for staying in contact.

01:00:01 Enhance group photos to expand audience reach.

01:03:46 Entrepreneurship journey: learning, networking, value arbitrage.

01:08:51 Delay gratification, focus on inbound leads vs. dating.

01:15:56 Fashion accessories spark conversations, create unique connections.

01:17:28 Grooming can improve attractiveness and body fat.

01:26:28 Working out gives delusions of grandeur, confidence.

01:29:53 Unlocking the secrets to success and connection.

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Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! 

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