Nicolle Kopping-Pavars is a family lawyer and fertility law expert based in Toronto, Canada. She is also a trained meditation and mindfulness teacher.
We talk about her professional and spiritual journey as she reinvented herself after moving from South Africa to Canada, how she developed her family and fertility law practice and how she is now a guide for her clients as they undergo transformations in their lives and their families.
We touch on the meaning of family, why it's so important to all of us, and how valuing and nurturing family is crucial so we can start to recognise and embrace the entire human race as one family.
Show notes
[1:57] Nicolle relates how she became interested in mindfulness, after finding she and many of her colleagues were unable to achieve 'work-life' balance and were suffering.
[6:18] Nicolle became aware of The Secret and the Law of Attraction, and began her personal self-development journey. However, she needed a more spiritual solution, so began training in Buddhist meditation.
[8:59] According to Nicolle, mindfulness stills the mind and gives us power over our responses so we can create more responsibly.
[11:12] In 2020, Nicolle rebranded her law practice to focus on transformation. She brings her whole self, her interest in crystals, oracle cards and spirituality in general, into her dealings with clients.
[16:17] Being herself allows her to move past imposter syndrome and be authentic and unashamed of herself.
[17:46] Nicolle is clear about choosing the clients whom she acts for. Having requalified as a lawyer in Canada after moving from South Africa, she promised herself she would be true to herself.
[21:37] Nicolle had always been interested in surrogacy and relates her personal experience being asked to act as a surrogate. From there, she was motivated to help as many families as possible to deal with fertility issues and start families of their own.
[27:59] We talk about the importance of family and why protecting the family as a unit is important for humans. It preserves community and helps children feel safe and at home wherever they are.
[32:32] As Nicolle says, divorce doesn't have to mean the end of family and children can feel like they have multiple homes.
[35:55] Nicolle discusses her plans for continuing to advocate for mental wellness for lawyers.
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