New Jersey Mat Chat

New Jersey Mat Chat

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New Jersey Mat Chat episodes

  • 079: Jackson Fearon

    Jackson Fearon almost quit wrestling.

    As a sophomore at Middletown North, he was trying to maintain 120 pounds.

    His routine?

    Wake up at 4 AM.

    Run.

    Sauna.

    School.

    Practice.

    Go home.

    Nap.

    Then go to another practice.

    Eventually, he'd had enough.

    Jackson stopped showing up to practice.

    Coach Morley wasn't having it.

    He sent Jackson's brother and teammates to his HOUSE to get him and bring him back to the wrestling room.

    Jackson stayed.

    He moved up in weight.

    And everything changed.

    As a junior, Jackson exploded to a 43-7 season, won Districts, won Region 5 and made his first trip to the NJ State Championships in Atlantic City.

    Now he's entering his senior year with one goal:

    🏆 Become an NJ State Champion.

    In this episode of New Jersey Mat Chat, Jackson talks about:

    🤼 Nearly walking away from wrestling

    ⚖️ The brutal weight cut that almost ended his career

    🚗 His teammates showing up at his house to bring him to practice

    📈 His breakout 43-7 junior season

    🏆 Winning Districts and Region 5

    🥋 Growing up around MMA and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

    👊 His father's background as a professional MMA fighter

    🤼 Growing up in the Middletown North wrestling system

    🔥 The mentality inside the Middletown North room

    🏟️ His first experience wrestling in Atlantic City

    💔 The heartbreaking match that ended his state tournament

    🎯 Why that loss changed his goals for senior year

    💪 Improving his diet, conditioning and training

    🔄 Changing his wrestling arsenal during the offseason

    🤼 Training with different wrestlers and clubs around New Jersey

    🎓 His thoughts on wrestling in college

    🏈 Walking away from football to focus on wrestling

    At the end, we asked Jackson a simple question:

    When your Middletown North career is over, what do you want people to say about Jackson Fearon?

    His answer:

    “I did it.”

    That's it.

    State Champion.

    One season left to make it happen.

    🤼 Guest: Jackson Fearon

    🏫 Middletown North

    🏆 District Champion

    🏆 Region 5 Champion

    📈 43-7 Junior Season

    🎯 Goal: NJ State Champion

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    00:00 Intro / Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:26 Meet Middletown North’s Jackson Fearon

    01:36 The Jump to a 43-7 Junior Season

    02:31 The Weight Cut That Made Him Want to Quit

    03:55 Growing Up Around MMA & Jiu-Jitsu

    05:40 His Rough Start in Wrestling

    06:45 When Jackson Realized He Was Good

    07:03 Why He Almost Left Middletown North

    07:43 Inside the Middletown North Wrestling Room

    09:01 His First Trip to Atlantic City

    10:12 The Match He Wants Back

    11:30 Senior Year Goal: NJ State Champion

    11:48 Will He Wrestle in College?

    12:12 Building a Better Version for Senior Year

    12:42 Changing His Wrestling Style

    13:18 Training at Different NJ Wrestling Clubs

    14:12 Middletown North’s 2027 Team

    14:22 Walking Away From Football

    14:56 “I Did It.”

    15:09 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    16 min
  • 078: Pat Glory

    Pat Glory knows what it feels like to come up one match short.

    Before becoming an NCAA National Champion at Princeton, Glory lost three youth state finals.

    Then he reached the New Jersey high school state final as a freshman — and lost.

    He came back as a sophomore.

    Made the final again.

    And lost again.

    But those losses became part of the reason Pat Glory eventually reached the top of college wrestling.

    In this episode of the New Jersey Mat Chat Legends Series, Pat takes us through the entire journey — from a 50-pound youth wrestler in Randolph, NJ to Delbarton, Princeton University and ultimately the top of the NCAA podium.

    One of the most powerful things Pat says in this conversation is that he doesn't know if he ever becomes an NCAA Champion without losing those first two New Jersey state finals.

    Pat Glory's career is proof that coming up short doesn't have to be the end of the story.

    Sometimes it's what builds the champion.

    🤼 Guest: Pat Glory

    🏫 Delbarton School

    🐯 Princeton University

    🏆 2X NJ State Champion

    🥈 4X NJ State Finalist

    🥈 NCAA Finalist

    🏆 2023 NCAA National Champion

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends who built — and continue to shape — New Jersey wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet NCAA Champion Pat Glory

    02:10 Growing Up in Randolph, NJ

    03:05 How Wrestling Became His Sport

    04:35 Choosing Delbarton Over Randolph

    05:50 Why Delbarton Was the Right Choice

    07:28 Entering High School at 14 Years Old

    08:11 His Early Wrestling Struggles

    09:33 Three Youth State Finals — Zero Titles

    09:52 The Pressure to Become a 4X State Champion

    10:57 Learning to Separate Results From the Process

    12:25 Losing the NJ State Final as a Freshman

    13:00 The Sophomore State Final vs. Sebastian Rivera

    14:20 Two State Finals. Two Losses.

    15:31 Turning to a Sports Psychologist

    18:39 How Mental Training Changed His Wrestling

    19:22 Why Pat Wouldn’t Change His High School Losses

    21:06 Looking Back at His Delbarton Career

    22:18 Why Princeton Became the Choice

    23:48 Princeton’s Search for Its First NCAA Champion

    25:39 Balancing Princeton Academics & Division I Wrestling

    27:13 NCAA Final vs. Nick Suriano

    31:08 The Injury That Changed the Suriano Final

    34:02 Wrestling Through the Final Seconds

    36:06 Cutting From 150 to 125 Pounds

    37:44 Why He Stayed at 125

    38:45 Preparing for Spencer Lee

    40:25 Finding Out Spencer Lee Lost

    41:29 Preparing for Matt Ramos Instead

    43:30 Becoming an NCAA Champion

    45:43 Celebrating the National Championship

    47:20 Why Pat Walked Away From Wrestling

    49:12 Life After Wrestling in Manhattan

    50:46 Greatest NJ High School Wrestler Ever?

    52:09 Could Pat Glory Become a Coach?

    53:07 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    54 min
  • 077: Joey Monticello

    Second in New Jersey isn't good enough for Joey Monticello.

    The Hanover Park senior came within one match of an NJ State Championship last season.

    Now he's coming back with bigger expectations.

    Joey joins New Jersey Mat Chat to talk about growing up in one of North Jersey's traditional wrestling communities, his journey through high school wrestling, his state-final loss—and why his entire senior season is being built around finishing the job.

    And Joey isn't hiding what he expects:

    🏆 Win Beast of the East

    🏆 Win Escape the Rock

    🏆 Win an NJ State Championship

    🔥 Go undefeated

    In this episode, Joey talks about:

    🤼 Starting wrestling at just four years old

    💪 Why he's always been physically advanced for his age

    🏈 Giving up football to go all-in on his state-title chase

    🏫 The wrestling tradition and expectations at Hanover Park

    🔥 His “in your face for six minutes” wrestling style

    🤼 How Rich Patito, Diego Crespo and Nicky Raimo influenced his wrestling

    💥 Training at Ruthless Wrestling

    🏆 Entering high school expecting to become a state champion

    🥈 His run to the NJ state final last season

    😤 Why being a state runner-up still isn't a win in his mind

    🎯 His goal of going undefeated as a senior

    🏟️ The atmosphere inside Hanover Park wrestling

    🎓 His goal of wrestling Division I in college

    🥇 Why he believes he can eventually make a run at an NCAA final

    ⚖️ His thoughts on wrestling's changing rules

    🍝 Cutting weight in a traditional Italian family

    ❤️ The huge Monticello family contingent that follows him to Atlantic City

    One thing becomes pretty clear talking to Joey:

    He's not interested in almost.

    Last season ended one match short of his goal.

    Now he gets one more shot.

    🤼 Guest: Joey Monticello

    🏫 Hanover Park High School

    🥈 NJ State Finalist

    🎯 Goal: NJ State Champion

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends shaping New Jersey wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet Hanover Park’s Joey Monticello

    02:43 Growing Up in a Hanover Park Wrestling Town

    03:38 Starting Wrestling at Four Years Old

    04:39 Being Bigger & Stronger From a Young Age

    05:56 Playing Football as a Junior

    06:28 Why He Gave Up Football for Wrestling

    07:50 The Expectations at Hanover Park

    08:25 School, Grades & an Interest in Finance

    09:19 Joey’s Wrestling Style: Six Minutes in Your Face

    10:10 How Ruthless Wrestling Changed His Game

    12:35 Training Inside the Ruthless Room

    13:21 Entering High School Expecting to Win States

    14:39 Realizing High School Wrestling Was Different

    15:57 His Run to the NJ State Finals

    16:34 The State Final Against Canova

    17:20 Why Second Place Isn’t Good Enough

    17:42 Senior Year Goal: Go Undefeated

    18:10 Treating Every Match Like an Olympic Final

    19:11 The Atmosphere at Hanover Park

    20:47 College Wrestling & Division I Goals

    22:17 How Far From Home Will He Go?

    23:15 Freestyle, Greco & His Wrestling Style

    24:16 Understanding Wrestling’s Changing Rules

    25:08 The One Wrestling Rule He Would Change

    26:12 Mom, Dad & the Monticello Wrestling Machine

    27:17 Cutting Weight in an Italian Family

    28:37 The Monticello Family Takes Over Atlantic City

    29:33 Life Away From Wrestling

    30:17 What’s Next for Joey & Hanover Park

    30:51 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    32 min
  • 076: John Martin

    Legends never die. Their stories live on through the people they inspired.

    New Jersey Mat Chat is proud to present the first installment of Legends Never Die, honoring the life and legacy of Johnny Martin, the 1992 New Jersey State Champion from Absegami High School.

    Johnny Martin's life was cut far too short, but more than three decades after he won his New Jersey state championship, the wrestlers who competed against him, trained beside him and grew up watching him still remember.

    That's a legacy.

    Legends Never Die.

    🤼 Johnny Martin

    🏫 Absegami High School — Class of 1992

    🏆 1992 New Jersey State Champion

    📈 123-8 High School Record

    ⭐ Oklahoma State Wrestling

    00:00 Legends Never Die: The Story of Johnny Martin

    01:05 1992 State Final: Johnny Martin vs. Jay Nase

    02:04 Jay Nase Remembers His State Finals Opponent

    03:36 “He Was Lightning Fast”

    05:49 The Heart & Work Ethic Wrestling Reveals

    07:37 One Word for Johnny: Speed

    09:15 How Johnny’s Passing Affected Jay Nase

    11:12 Johnny’s Brother Joe Martin

    12:41 How Johnny Got Started in Wrestling

    14:45 Meeting John Smith in Seventh Grade

    15:28 Johnny’s Dream: Oklahoma State

    16:51 His College Career & Leaving Oklahoma State

    17:58 The Back Injury That Changed Everything

    19:55 Doctors Tell Johnny His Wrestling Career Is Over

    20:40 The Cancer Diagnosis

    22:19 Fighting Cancer & Returning to the Wrestling Room

    23:42 The Conversations Between Two Brothers

    24:36 “The Closest Thing I Have to Having My Own”

    25:03 One Word for Johnny: Driven

    26:48 A Surprise Call With John Smith

    28:48 John Smith Remembers Johnny Martin

    31:31 Why NJ Wrestlers Fit at Oklahoma State

    32:50 The Malatesta Family & an Incredible Wrestling Story

    35:40 A Young Johnny Idolizes Bobby Malatesta Jr.

    36:52 Bobby Wins the 1985 NJ State Championship

    37:21 The Medal That Changed Johnny’s Life

    38:12 Johnny Fulfills the Promise

    39:13 Honoring Johnny After His Passing

    41:36 The Two State Championship Medals

    42:28 “I Knew That Was Going to Be His Day”

    43:41 One Word for Johnny: Determined

    44:51 Sean Scannell: The Next Generation at Absegami

    46:43 How Johnny Paved the Way

    48:12 Remembering the Day Johnny Passed

    49:29 Carrying Johnny’s Memory Into College

    50:39 One Word for Johnny: Innovator

    52:55 Teammate Bernie Tenet Remembers Johnny

    53:46 Visiting Johnny During His Battle With Cancer

    55:07 Johnny’s Oklahoma State Dream

    55:58 One Word for Johnny: Awesome

    57:45 George Florence Remembers His Teammate

    59:21 Watching Johnny Win the 1992 State Title

    01:01:09 Visiting Johnny at Oklahoma State

    01:04:24 Learning From the Best Wrestlers in the World

    01:06:47 Johnny Martin vs. Cary Kolat

    01:09:06 One Word for Johnny: Elite

    01:10:25 Kathy Barber Remembers Johnny

    01:12:48 Johnny’s Letters From College

    01:13:26 Their AOL Instant Messenger Conversations

    01:14:02 “The Fastest Ankle Pick I’ve Ever Seen”

    01:14:21 Johnny & Legendary Coach Gene Barber

    01:15:09 One Word for Johnny: Humble

    01:17:55 Thank You to the Martin Family

    01:18:22 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    1 hr 19 min
  • 075: Jayce Cappello

    Jayce Cappello didn't grow up as an elite year-round wrestler. He was a baseball player who got serious about wrestling entering high school. Now he's chasing an NJ State Championship.

    Toms River East standout Jayce Cappello joins New Jersey Mat Chat to talk about his rapid rise in New Jersey high school wrestling, balancing two sports, and why he's choosing wrestling as the path he wants to pursue at the next level.

    Jayce entered his freshman season with virtually no expectations—and ended it wrestling at the NJ State Championships. After placing the following year, he's entering his junior season with a completely different mindset.

    In this episode:

    ⚾ Growing up as a serious baseball player

    🤼 When he realized he could be really good at wrestling

    🔥 Making States as a freshman

    💪 How athleticism, scrambling and conditioning helped close the experience gap

    ⚾ Balancing high school baseball with year-round wrestling

    ❤️ Why he ultimately fell in love with wrestling

    🎓 Choosing wrestling over baseball if he gets the opportunity in college

    🤼 Training at Shore Thing and Top Dog

    🏫 Why he chose to stay at Toms River East instead of going private

    🧠 How Coach Mark Grey transformed his wrestling

    💪 Why Toms River East believes toughness can separate them this season

    ⚖️ His approach to weight cutting

    😂 Life inside the Toms River East wrestling room

    🏆 His goal of becoming a New Jersey State Champion

    🧠 The mental work he believes will get him there

    Jayce also talks about the expectations surrounding Toms River East wrestling this season and why he believes their difficult schedule will have them battle-tested when the postseason arrives.

    This is a great conversation for young athletes who don't necessarily specialize in wrestling from the time they're five years old. Jayce's development shows what can happen when athletic ability meets the right coaching, training partners and commitment.

    🤼 Guest: Jayce Cappello

    🏫 Toms River East Wrestling

    🎯 Goal: NJ State Champion

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends shaping New Jersey high school wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet Toms River East’s Jayce Cappello

    01:48 Big Expectations for Toms River East

    03:10 When Wrestling Became Serious

    03:39 Making States as a Freshman

    04:09 How Athleticism Helped His Wrestling

    05:29 Balancing Baseball & Wrestling

    06:17 Why He Fell in Love With Wrestling

    07:33 Baseball vs. Wrestling: Which Helps More?

    08:15 Choosing Wrestling for College

    08:28 Training at Shore Thing & Top Dog

    09:36 Why He Chose Public School

    10:18 The Impact of Coach Mark Grey

    11:03 Inside the Toms River East Wrestling Room

    12:11 Why He Doesn’t Cut Much Weight

    13:24 Turning His Family Into Wrestling Fans

    14:29 The Toms River East Team Clown

    15:19 The Goal: Win an NJ State Title

    16:35 The Mental Side of Wrestling

    17:30 Wrestling vs. Baseball Officiating

    18:18 His Family’s Toms River Baseball Connection

    19:19 Coaches, Family & Final Thoughts

    19:55 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    21 min
  • 074: Billy Damiana

    Are we making New Jersey high school wrestling better—or making the path too easy?

    Lower Cape May head wrestling and football coach Billy Damiana joins New Jersey Mat Chat: Coach’s Corner for a wide-ranging conversation about coaching, toughness, athlete development and some of the biggest issues facing NJ wrestling.

    Billy grew up in Cape May, competed in wrestling and football at the college level, and eventually returned home to coach the next generation at Lower Cape May.

    But this conversation goes well beyond his own career.

    Billy believes coaches have a responsibility to create an environment that challenges young athletes, makes them tougher and prepares them for far more than winning wrestling matches.

    🤼 Guest: Billy Damiana

    🏫 Lower Cape May Regional

    🤼 Head Wrestling Coach

    🏈 Head Football Coach

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    #NJWrestling #NewJerseyMatChat #BillyDamiana #LowerCapeMay #LowerCapeMayWrestling #NJHighSchoolWrestling #SouthJerseyWrestling #WrestlingPodcast

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet Lower Cape May Coach Billy Damiana

    01:49 Growing Up in Cape May

    04:20 From Being Bullied to Martial Arts & Wrestling

    06:10 Choosing Division I Wrestling

    07:23 College Wrestling, Football & Coming Home

    08:36 Teaching at Lower Cape May

    10:12 Becoming a Wrestling Coach

    12:19 Learning to Coach at Buena Regional

    14:27 Coaching Football & Wrestling Year-Round

    17:00 What Football and Wrestling Teach Each Other

    20:02 What Makes an Elite Athlete?

    22:48 Why Coaching Is Really About the Kids

    25:25 The Relationships That Last After Wrestling

    27:07 Why Coaches Need to Stop Ducking Matches

    28:17 Growing Wrestling Means Wrestling the Big Matches

    31:24 What Happened to Packed NJ Wrestling Gyms?

    32:34 NJ Realignment: Did We Get It Wrong?

    33:59 Should 4th Place Advance to States?

    35:35 The Disappearance of Multi-Sport Wrestlers

    38:00 Are Today’s Wrestlers Better — But the Path Easier?

    40:18 The Scariest Match of Wrestling Season

    41:10 Why One-Day Districts Need to Go

    42:09 Is 100 Career Wins Still a Big Milestone?

    43:31 Chase Hansen: Wins, Goals & Taking Ownership as a Coach

    47:07 Roasting Tristan Rosemeyer & Eli Glover

    48:33 The Culture Inside Lower Cape May Wrestling

    51:01 Greatest NJ High School Wrestler Ever?

    52:28 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    53 min
  • 073: MJ Gorrell

    New Jersey wrestling has a new name to watch this season: MJ Gorrell.

    Except MJ isn't exactly new.

    The Somerset, NJ native spent his first two high school seasons competing across the border at Conwell-Egan in Pennsylvania, reaching the state blood round as a freshman and placing Top 8 in PA as a sophomore.

    Now he's coming home.

    MJ is transferring to St. John Vianney, stepping into the Shore Conference and setting one very clear goal for his first season wrestling high school in New Jersey:

    🏆 Win an NJ State Championship.

    In this episode of New Jersey Mat Chat, MJ talks about:

    🤼 Why he originally left NJ to wrestle at Conwell-Egan

    🏠 Living away from home during wrestling season

    🔥 Training with Pennsylvania wrestlers at NPR

    🥇 His first two runs through the PA postseason

    ➡️ Why he decided it was time to return to New Jersey

    🦁 Choosing St. John Vianney

    🌊 What he expects from Shore Conference wrestling

    ⚖️ The differences between Pennsylvania and New Jersey wrestling

    🤼 Why his funky, scrambling style is better suited for folkstyle

    💪 Training at Frost, Duro and NPR

    🧠 The coach who's had the biggest influence on his career

    🏆 His goal of becoming a New Jersey State Champion

    💥 The intense strength and conditioning program he does with his father

    🎓 His interest in forensic science

    🐯 Training at Princeton and his goal of wrestling in the Ivy League

    MJ has spent years wrestling and training around high-level competition on both sides of the Delaware.

    Now New Jersey gets to see what he can do.

    Welcome home, MJ.

    🤼 Guest: MJ Gorrell

    🏫 St. John Vianney

    📍 Somerset, NJ

    🏆 PA State Top-8 Finisher

    🎯 Goal: NJ State Champion

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends shaping New Jersey wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet MJ Gorrell

    01:41 Leaving NJ to Wrestle at Conwell-Egan

    03:00 Training at NPR & Wrestling in Pennsylvania

    04:05 PA State Tournament Success

    04:48 Living Away From Home During Wrestling Season

    05:51 Why He’s Coming Back to New Jersey

    06:53 Choosing St. John Vianney

    07:49 What MJ Expects From NJ Wrestling

    09:28 Entering the Shore Conference

    10:24 Academics & Life After Wrestling

    11:09 Freestyle vs. Folkstyle

    12:32 Training at Frost, Duro & NPR

    13:36 PA vs. NJ Wrestling Rules

    15:35 Getting to Know His New SJV Teammates

    16:36 His Biggest Coaching Influence

    17:52 The Goal: Win an NJ State Title

    19:18 How His Dad Drives His Training

    20:08 MJ’s Wrestling Style

    20:48 State Title or Bust?

    21:19 His Dream Training Partner

    22:04 Princeton & Ivy League Goals

    22:52 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    24 min
  • 072: Jason Nase

    What does New Jersey high school wrestling need to change? Coach Jay Nace has some ideas.

    Former Division I All-American, longtime Rider assistant and respected New Jersey wrestling coach Jay Nase joins New Jersey Mat Chat: Coach’s Corner for a wide-ranging conversation about coaching, athlete development and the future of wrestling in New Jersey.

    Jay grew up wrestling at Point Pleasant Boro before becoming a Division I All-American at Rider. He later spent 11 seasons coaching at Rider and is now preparing to take the reins at Wall.

    But this conversation quickly becomes much bigger than one coach's career.

    We get into:

    🤼 Growing up in NJ wrestling before today's club system

    🎓 The difference between coaching high school and Division I athletes

    🏫 Why being a teacher inside the school matters as a coach

    🇺🇸 His love for freestyle and developing Team New Jersey wrestlers

    🤝 Coaching club wrestlers who may eventually compete against his own team

    🔥 Whether wrestlers SHOULD train at multiple clubs

    💰 Why club loyalty can sometimes become complicated

    🤼 Why NJ's best wrestlers need to compete together in freestyle

    👀 Why today's high school dual meets are becoming less exciting

    🚫 Coaches moving or ducking wrestlers to avoid marquee matchups

    📅 Why Jay believes high school wrestlers compete too much

    ⚖️ How constant weight management can actually prevent wrestlers from improving

    🏆 Why producing state qualifiers and college wrestlers matters more to him than dual-meet records

    🎓 Why your best wrestling should still be ahead of you when you graduate high school

    ❤️ The family decision that led him to leave Rider

    🐴 The Rider philosophy that shaped him as a coach

    🥇 His pick for the greatest New Jersey high school wrestler ever

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends shaping New Jersey wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet Coach Jay Nase

    02:39 Growing Up Wrestling at Point Pleasant Boro

    04:35 The Advantage of Having a Non-Wrestling Dad

    05:42 Learning to Trust & Listen to Your Coach

    07:12 Wrestling Before the Club Era

    08:17 When Coaching Became His Future

    09:23 Returning to Wall as Head Coach

    09:33 11 Years Coaching at Rider

    10:37 College vs. High School Coaching

    12:25 What a Wrestling Program Needs to Succeed

    14:03 Coaching Where You Teach

    16:13 A Life Consumed by Wrestling

    18:47 Why He Loves Coaching Freestyle

    21:13 Coaching Wrestlers From Rival High Schools

    23:08 The Wrestling Brotherhood

    24:01 Should Wrestlers Train at Multiple Clubs?

    27:25 Can NJ Wrestling Clubs Coexist?

    28:50 Why New Jersey Needs to Improve at Freestyle

    30:13 Why Jay Loves Coaching Freestyle

    31:02 The Problem With High School Dual Meets

    32:26 Are NJ Wrestlers Competing Too Much?

    34:30 How Jay Would Fix the High School Schedule

    36:31 State Qualifiers Over Dual Meet Wins

    38:49 Rider Wrestling & the NCAA Mindset

    40:03 Coaching Wrestling — and Coaching People

    41:27 What Comes After High School Coaching?

    43:29 Why He Left Rider for His Son

    45:55 Why Wrestlers Should Peak in College

    47:32 The Greatest NJ High School Wrestler Ever?

    49:46 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    51 min
  • 071: Julius Feliciano

    Fourth in New Jersey as a freshman. Now Julius Feliciano wants the top of the podium.

    Toms River East standout Julius Feliciano joins New Jersey Mat Chat after an incredible freshman season that ended with a 4th-place finish at the New Jersey State Championships in Atlantic City.

    And he's nowhere near satisfied.

    Julius takes us through his journey from discovering wrestling because of **WWE at seven years old to becoming one of New Jersey's top young high school wrestlers.

    We get into:

    🤼 How watching WWE accidentally introduced him to wrestling

    🔥 Why he chose Toms River East and Coach Mark Grey

    💪 Training at Top Dog, Dragon and Shore Thing

    ⚔️ Starting his high school career against elite competition

    🏆 His run through districts and regions

    🌊 Walking into Atlantic City for the first time

    🥇 Placing 4th in New Jersey as a freshman

    🎯 What he believes he needs to improve to WIN a state title

    🔥 Winning his match at the NJ Wrestling Showcase

    ⚖️ Moving toward 126 pounds for the upcoming season

    🏆 Toms River East's goal of winning a Group 4 State Championship

    💪 His relentless offseason training schedule

    🤼 Why he's interested in adding Greco to his game

    ❤️ The family members and coaches behind his success

    🧠 His simple advice to nervous incoming freshmen: Have fun.

    Julius brings plenty of personality, but underneath it is a wrestler with huge expectations for himself.

    He reached the podium in Atlantic City during his first high school season.

    Now the question is:

    How high can he climb?

    🤼 Guest: Julius Feliciano

    🏫 Toms River High School East

    🏆 4th Place — NJ State Championships

    🎯 Next Goal: NJ State Champion

    Subscribe to New Jersey Mat Chat for conversations with the wrestlers, coaches and legends shaping New Jersey high school wrestling.

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:25 Meet Toms River East’s Julius Feliciano

    02:17 How WWE Got Him Into Wrestling

    03:08 Reclassing & Choosing Toms River East

    04:12 Training at Top Dog, Dragon & Shore Thing

    05:43 Entering High School With State Title Expectations

    06:50 Starting His Freshman Season Against Shiloh

    08:15 Inside the Toms River East Wrestling Room

    08:57 Districts, Regions & the Road to Atlantic City

    09:32 His First Experience at the NJ State Championships

    10:43 Placing 4th in NJ as a Freshman

    11:20 What He Needs to Become a State Champion

    11:52 Winning at the NJ Wrestling Showcase

    12:31 Looking Ahead to 126 Pounds

    13:26 Toms River East’s Group 4 Championship Goals

    14:49 His Insane Offseason Training Schedule

    15:43 Freestyle, Greco & Expanding His Wrestling

    16:35 The Family Behind His Success

    17:20 His Advice to Incoming Freshmen: Have Fun

    17:52 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    19 min
  • 070: Adam Derengowski

    Adam Derengowski went 0–8 as a freshman and was pinned in every match. Four years later, he was a New Jersey State Champion.

    And that was only the beginning.

    In this episode of the New Jersey Mat Chat Legends Series, former Paul VI standout and Rider NCAA All-American Adam Derengowski tells the incredible story of how hard work, dedication and persistence transformed his wrestling career.

    Adam didn't start wrestling until his freshman year of high school. After going winless his first season and then losing in the first round of districts as a junior, he made a decision: go all-in.

    One year later, he found himself wrestling two-time defending state champion Dave Boncher for a New Jersey State Championship.

    We get into:

    🤼 Going 0–8 and getting pinned eight times as a freshman

    🔥 The district loss that completely changed his mentality

    🎬 How Vision Quest became part of his own wrestling journey

    🏆 His incredible run to a New Jersey State Championship

    ⚔️ Taking down two-time champion Dave Boncher

    🔄 Developing the tilt system that became his trademark

    🎓 How Temple dropping wrestling unexpectedly led him to Rider

    🐴 Becoming an NCAA All-American at Rider

    💪 Training with two-time NCAA Champion Jack Cuvo

    🦊 Entering the legendary Foxcatcher wrestling room

    🌎 Competing internationally in freestyle

    🌪️ Getting hired by Iowa State immediately after college

    🧠 Why hard work, dedication and persistence remain his three pillars for success

    🏆 His choice for the greatest NJ high school wrestler of all time

    🤼 The one thing he would change about New Jersey wrestling today

    Adam's story is proof that where you start has very little to do with where you can finish.

    For New Jersey wrestling fans, this episode is also a trip through some incredible NJ wrestling history—from Paul VI and the old district system to Rider, Foxcatcher, Iowa State and the NCAA Championships.

    Guest: Adam Derengowski

    🏆 New Jersey State Champion — Paul VI

    🇺🇸 NCAA All-American — Rider

    🤼 Former Assistant Coach — Iowa State & Cornell

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    00:00 Champion Athletes Nutrition

    01:22 Meet NJ Wrestling Legend Adam Derengowski

    03:01 The “Wanted” Poster That Started His Wrestling Career

    03:51 Going 0–8 as a Freshman

    06:15 The District Loss That Changed Everything

    08:59 Why Wrestling Became His Sport

    11:52 The Vision Quest Begins

    13:29 Facing 2X State Champion Dave Boncher

    15:35 Dominating His Senior Season

    17:49 The Incredible Run to the State Finals

    20:00 Taking Down Dave Boncher for the NJ State Title

    23:43 Life After Becoming a State Champion

    26:07 Becoming a Tilting Machine

    27:16 College Recruiting & Temple Dropping Wrestling

    29:20 How He Ended Up at Rider

    31:04 Preparing for Division I Wrestling

    32:07 Getting Beat Out as a College Freshman

    32:52 Breaking Through at Rider

    34:52 One Year Left — Another Vision Quest

    36:40 Training at the Legendary Foxcatcher

    38:21 Entering His Senior Year Ranked #2

    40:51 The Run to NCAA All-American

    43:42 State Champion vs. NCAA All-American

    44:08 Getting the Call From Iowa State

    47:06 Coaching at Cornell & Leaving College Coaching

    49:39 Staying Connected to NJ Wrestling

    50:20 How Wrestling Has Evolved

    51:09 Hard Work, Dedication & Persistence

    52:13 Why None of His Kids Wrestled

    53:43 The Greatest NJ Wrestler Ever?

    54:45 What He Would Change About NJ Wrestling

    55:47 New Jersey Mat Chat Outro

    57 min

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