New Kind of Man

New Kind of Man

By Chad N. ZueckSociety & Culture
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  • 21. Fighting the Dad Bod w/Cam Hall

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    2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
    3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
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    5. Subscribe the to New Kind of Man Podcast on Youtube.
    6. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

      7. SHOW NOTES:

      The UPCOMING GUESTS

      • Ken Harrison (4/20/20)
      • Thom Shea (4/27/20)
      • John Eldredge (5/4/20)
      • Scott Flansbaum (5/11/20)
      • Stephen Mansfield (5/18/20)

        • Cam works to helping fathers to be fit through fitness and lifestyle.

        Topics we discuss: 

        1. How physique can create a shallow man and form a false identity.
        2. How he wandered from faith and family and then a traumatic experience shook him to the core.
        3. How faith, a painful loss and his fitness journey have helped him to become the man he is today. 
        4. How faith and fitness work together.
        5. Why the best part of fatherhood is being active. 
        6. How being a dad is showing your kids the ups and downs of life.
        7. How you can benefit from eating (PFC 3) Protein, Fat, & Carb every 3 hours.
        8. Why you may have chocolate cravings. (magnesium, low on iron)
        9. How you can survive a cheat meal and food and still get back on plan.
        10. Why cheat days are a bad way of looking at food.

          11. Thank you @josephmcdademusic for letting us use your music on the New Kind of Man Podcast.

          1 hr 11 min
        11. 20. Thriving as a Dad in the Trenches w/Aaron
          Aaron shares the story of how faith restored his marriage and the valuable tools he gained through the process. This created the foundation for @dadinthetrenches.
          We discuss some inherent flaws in the modern Christian movement and how true Christianity is the actual answer.
          His broken spiritual life left him adrift in an ocean of confusion and brokenness until he surrendered his pride and rule following to Jesus.
          Aaron encourages men to step up into their roles as fathers.
          Want to truly change? Seek God and apply yourself to being a follower of Jesus. -Aaron Long
          Aaron suggested these books:
          Walking with God (Eldridge)
          Waking the Dead (Eldridge)
          Wild at Heart (Eldridge)
          Taming a Powerful Emotion (Chapman)
          Finish (Jon Acuff) 
          Aaron’s IG: @dadinthetrenches
          Aaron’s website: www.dadinthetrenches.com 
          Dad in the Trenches Podcast
          The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.
          If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.
          To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:
          Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
          Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
          Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
          Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe or sign up for some coaching.
          Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].
          Let’s get after it!
          Special thanks to @josephmcdade for letting us use his music @anewkindofman.
          1 hr 1 min
        12. 19. Control Issues w/Covid 19

          Are you learning what you are supposed to right now? 

          Don't waste this moment by rejecting what you should be learning. 

          The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

          If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

          To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

          1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
          2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
          3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
          4. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe or sign up for some coaching.
          5. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

            6. Let’s get after it!

            15 min
          6. 18. Equipping Dads w/Michael Ashford of Fit Dad Fitness

            Michael is equipping fathers to live an active, involved, healthy life with their kids. 

            4 Priorities of Fit Dad Fitness

            1. Purpose
            2. People
            3. Passion
            4. Profession

              5. Michael's encouragement involved 

              • discussing good self talk, 
              • how identity impacts health and fitness, 
              • and why discipline doesn't always work when it comes to health and fitness. 

                • How to connect with Michael

                Instagram: @fitdadfitness

                Website: https://www.fitdadfitness.com/

                Coaching: https://www.fitdadfitness.com/online-fitness-coaching-training

                Podcast: https://www.fitdadfitness.com/fit-dad-fitness-podcast

                Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/fitdadfitnesspage

                His book, "The Involved Man" 

                The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

                If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
                2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
                3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                4. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe or sign up for some coaching.
                5. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                  6. Let’s get after it!

                  1 hr 21 min
                6. 17. Positive Disruptions w/Larry Hagner of the Dad Edge Podcast

                  Larry seeks to positively disrupt this generation of fathers and men to help them live fulfilled lives. 5 Dimensions of the Good Dad Project Financial Mastery Optimized Health Legendary Marriage Connection with Kids Business To find all of Larry’s work: https://gooddadproject.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedadedge/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/larry.hagner.3 (personal) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheGoodDadProject/ (Good Dad Project) The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face. If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes. To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options: Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram. Share it with friends on your social media feeds. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe or sign up for some coaching. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected]. Let’s get after it!

                  1 hr 4 min
                7. 16. Putting on the New Man

                  If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                  To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                  1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
                  2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
                  3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                  4. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe!
                  5. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                    6. Episode 16 Complete Show Notes: 

                    Irenaeus is “the glory of God is man fully alive.”  (130-202 AD)

                    WOUNDING>VOW>LIE>FALSE SELF

                    ASSAULT WOUNDS ARE OBVIOUS

                    -Physical, Verbal, sexual wounds from mom, dad, or girlfriends, loss of purity, sex outside of marriage, rape, incest

                    - Denying a boys ability to become a man

                    - Name calling

                    PASSIVE WOUNDS ARE NOT OBVIOUS

                    -Emotional wounds (Not feeling safe, loved, accepted, touch, blessed)

                    -Workaholic, Present but not accounted for

                    -Mom who wouldn’t send the boy out to be w/Dad for initiation

                    - Dad who doesn’t initiate the boys - Divorce

                    -Abandonment

                    The failure of so many fathers [and mothers] and the emasculating culture has left many men without direction and boys without fathers.

                    Richard Rohr, “Whatever pain that doesn’t get transformed gets transferred.”

                    A man that never finds the proper use for his masculine strength will undermine his own potential by further wounding himself and others.

                    -Abusive father, abusive sons

                    -Passive father, men who lack confidence

                    -Angry father, angry, abusive, or overly aggressive men.

                    -Complacent fathers, complacent sons

                    MEN need to know the answer to the QUESTIONS.

                    Who am I? Do I have what it takes? (John Eldridge, Wild at Heart) 

                    NO MATTER...

                    HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE, HOW “ALPHA” YOU TRY TO BE, HOW MANY DEGREES, HOW MANY WOMEN YOU BED DOWN, HOW MANY KIDS YOU HAVE, HOW MANY BOATS, ATVS, GUNS, ETC., HOW FAR YOU GO IN LIFE, THEY WILL NEVER HEAL YOUR WOUND OR TELL YOU WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

                    SOME OF THE LIES.

                    • You’re not loved; you are lonely.
                    • You’re needs are not being met; take matters into your own hands.
                    • You have no one to trust; rely on yourself.
                    • People are the enemy; talk about them.
                    • People are out to get you; avoid them.
                    • You’re doing great all by yourself; you don’t need community.

                      • STEPS to THROWING OFF THE FALSE SELF

                      1. DISRUPTION
                      2. HONESTY
                      3. ASK GOD
                      4. TRUST GOD
                      5. WILLINGNESS
                      6. WALK IT OUT
                      7. SERVICE TO GOD & OTHERS

                        8. WHAT EVERY MAN NEEDS

                        IDENTIFICATION, INITIATION, VALIDATION, AFFIRMATION

                        33 min
                      8. 15. Discernment- A Spiritual Battle Plan for Life

                        The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

                        If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                        To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                        1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
                        2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
                        3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                        4. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe!
                        5. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                          6. To connect with Tim and his work: 

                          Tim's Instagram 

                          Tim's Facebook

                          Tim's Everyday Discernment Bible Reading Plan on the Bible App. 

                          Books that Tim recommended: 

                          Everyday Discernment, Tim Ferrara

                          You and Me Forever by Chan

                          Wild at Heart by John Eldridge

                          Man Up, God’s Way by Jody Burkeen


                          54 min
                        6. 14. 10 Elements of Good Work

                          In this solocast, Chad talks about the value of a good day's work. 

                          Here are some takeaways from the show. 

                          Aim for purpose not success. If you hit purpose you get both.

                          “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” Genesis 2:15, NIV84

                          THREE primary questions to consider:

                          • Is God glorified?
                          • Is this bringing good into the world?
                          • How is it showing love for neighbor?

                            • PROBLEMS to Overcome

                            1. Chasing Success
                            2. Chasing what success brings
                            3. Being a workaholic.
                            4. Laziness
                            5. Working to avoid responsibilities at home.
                            6. Changing jobs. (Starting over)

                              7. 10 Elements of Good Work

                              1. Pursue mastery of your work. (gain more skill, education, etc.)
                              2. Work as you are working for God, not men.
                              3. Don’t compartmentalize your work.
                              4. Be happy that you get to work.
                              5. Don’t settle for less than your best. (Excellence in Everything)
                              6. Work ethically, morally, and be generous with your earnings.
                              7. Make yourself indispensable.
                              8. Don’t be afraid to give knowledge away.
                              9. Don’t judge another generations work patterns.
                              10. Passion follows mastery. (Jordan Raynor's Podcast)

                                11. The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

                                If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                                To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                                1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Instagram.
                                2. Share it with friends on your social media feeds.
                                3. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                                4. Go to www.beanewman.com to join the tribe!
                                5. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                                  6. Let’s get after it!

                                  35 min
                                6. 13. Advancing as a Warrior (w/Greg Amundson)

                                  In this episode, 

                                  • How can a man become a warrior for God? 
                                  • How he as an elite athlete starts his day? 
                                  • Should Christians do yoga? How do you do grow spiritually by using it?
                                  • What are some things that a man needs to do to become strong physically and spiritually?
                                  • How is physical fitness integrated into worship of God?

                                    • “As a spiritual warrior annointed by God, your mindset should be one of eagerness to be deployed onto the ultimate battlefield of life.”

                                    — The Good Soldier: How to Fight Well, Finish the Race, and Keep the Faith by Greg Amundson

                                    GREG AMUNDSON IN 50 WORDS

                                    Love God with all your Heart. Believe unconditionally in yourself and the ability of others. Learn new skills, teach them to a friend. Forge an indomitable body and spirit. Apply character traits learned in the studio to life: Purity – Truthfulness – Peacefulness – Contentment – Strength – Service – Willpower and Shalom. Be Humble. Encourage Others.

                                    Greg personal website: https://gregoryamundson.com/about-greg-amundson/

                                    Greg's Crossfit website: https://crossfitamundson.com/greg-amundson/

                                    Greg's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gregoryamundson/

                                    The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

                                    If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                                    To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                                    1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook and Instagram.
                                    2. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                                    3. Check out the New Kind of Man website, www.beanewman.com. 
                                    4. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                                      5. Let’s get after it!

                                      1 hr 11 min
                                    5. 12. Relational Growth

                                      Are you emotionally literate? 

                                      This question is the launching point in this podcast about relational growth (emotional maturity). What you can expect in this podcast is a clear and easy way for you to have better relationships today. 

                                      Here are seven quick steps to increase emotional intimacy.

                                      1. Be respectful of other people’s needs.
                                      2. Support others by giving good eye contact.
                                      3. Tell yourself be curious about what the other person is saying and feeling.
                                      4. Listen to your own body. If your body is resisting the engagement there will be tells within your own body like back pain or tenseness, tightness in your chest, or looking at your phone or watch. You’re searching for an escape. Heart rate increase, temptation to withdraw, etc.
                                      5. Listen also to the other person’s body language and discern what they are saying.
                                      6. Find something to ask a question about based off of their words or body language.
                                      7. Trust yourself enough to do it right next time.

                                        8. Chad references the book Emotional Intelligence 2.0. 

                                        The biggest "thank you" you could give to the A New Kind of Man team is to share this episode with others on social media, and face and face.

                                        If this show has been helpful or insightful, please subscribe and leave a rating and review in iTunes.

                                        To get further connected within the New Kind of Man Community, here are some options:

                                        1. Follow “A New Kind of Man” on Facebook and Instagram.
                                        2. Join our private, men’s Facebook group, "New Man Crew.” This group of men is committed to changing the world beginning with themselves, their relationships, their communities, and the world! Big vision, we know. It starts with us.
                                        3. Email Chad to get some personal coaching, [email protected].

                                          4. Let’s get after it!

                                          30 min

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                                        The New Kind of Man podcast is for men who want more from life. Every man has a unique story, but the virtues needed to be a man are universal. We are helping men to become strong relationally,…