Topics: Secrets, In-laws, Grandparenting, Suicide, Anger, Physical Abuse, Affairs, Pornography, Intimacy

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions More:

1. My niece grew up thinking her stepdad is her bio dad; what do I say if she ever asks me why I never told her the truth?

2. Dr. Alice discusses the empowerment of revealing our secrets in order to grow and heal.

3. My son took his life and left a 3yo daughter; how do I protect my heart with my daughter-in-law who threatens to cut us off from our granddaughter?

4. During our 10yr marriage, my husband has been passive aggressive, narcissistic, and has made threats against my life.

5. Two years after I found out my husband was cheating and had a porn addiction, our emotional and intimate connection is still a problem. What should we do?

Suggested Resources:

How We Love Our Kids

Trust

Worthy of Her Trust

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Topics: Self-care, Siblings, Confrontation, Intimacy, Physical Abuse, Divorce

Hosts: Becky Brown Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald

Caller Questions More:

1. Laura suggests the best Christmas gift you can give is to invest in yourself so you can give all of yourself to your loved ones.

2. I used to be close to my sister, but she has been talking a lot about me behind my back; how do I handle inviting her to a holiday brunch at my house?

3. How can I find support so I can feel loved instead of tolerated? My husband and I haven’t had sex in over two years, and I feel frozen; how do I defrost?

4. Last month I had my husband arrested for domestic battery and don’t have contact with him. How do I walk through a divorce?

Suggested Resources:

How We Love

Intimate Deception

Emotionally Destructive Relationship

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Topics: Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Midlife Crisis, Emotional Affairs, Gaslighting, Retirement, Self Worth, Controllers, Pleasers

Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron

Caller Questions More:

1. Marc shares how to recognize the cycle of verbal and emotional abuse, the four stages that repeat.

2. Should my husband continue to enjoy the friendship of younger women? He is making it seem like I’m trying to control him.

3. My husband expects more from me since he retired; how can he fill the void?

4. There is a deep-rooted anger inside of my husband, and he fears I will have an affair. What can a wife do to please him?

Suggested Resources:

Intimate Deception

Biblia Renacer (Life Recovery Bible in Spanish)

How We Love

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Topics: Connection, Marijuana, Affairs, Lying, Finances, Peacemakers, Father Issues

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton

Caller Questions More:

1. Dr. Jill suggests we set aside our differences to break bread together this Thanksgiving.

2. Why can’t I give up marijuana and my affair after they ruined my marriage and devastated my kids?

3. What is the best way forward for my daughter and son-in-law after he lied about his finances?

4. How do I keep the peace during the holidays when I host my family at my house? I’m very anxious about family getting together and having arguments.

5. My dad and his wife invited me at the last minute for the holidays, and I feel like I’m an option, not a priority; how do I let myself off of the hook?

Suggested Resources:

Life Recovery Bible

Take Your Life Back

Making Peace with Your Father

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Topics: Getting Unstuck, Coping, Feelings, Communication, Divorce, Teens

Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron

Caller Questions More:

1. Becky shares coping strategies for when you feel overwhelmed.

2. What do I do if my wife gets upset at everything? She brings up everything negative that I’ve ever done.

3. I’ve been divorced for a few years, but I still cry and have panic attacks. How do I move forward from a 41yr marriage?

4. How do I inform my nieces and nephews that we are getting a divorce? I don’t want to tell them about my husband’s sex addiction and emotional infidelity.

Suggested Resources:

How We Love

Take Your Life Back

Intimate Deception

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Topics: Verbal Abuse, Confrontation, Grace, Gaslighting, Victim, Counseling, Church Life, Transgender, Estrangement, Narcissists

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron

Caller Questions More:

1. Dr. Alice asks if we should overlook subtle verbal and non-verbal mistreatment. It depends.

2. My 2nd marriage is heading toward divorce. Why can’t I give grace to the men in my life?

3. I am trying to rebuild my marriage after my wife’s two affairs, and the therapist put the blame on me. My wife cuts me off when I try to tell her how I feel.

4. My adult son has been doing well after rehab; was I right to tell him he can’t stay with me every weekend?

5. How can I direct my mom who receives spiritual abuse from her pastor?

6. My 35yo daughter married a woman and now is trans; what do I do since he cut me off after the election?

7. Should I stop talking to my narcissist husband who is verbally abusive?

Suggested Resources:

Healing Is a Choice

Intimate Deception

Doing Life with Your Adult Children

Trust

Emotionally Destructive Relationship

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Topics: Intimacy, Communication, Divorce, Adult Children, Finances, Enabling, Grief, PTSD, Drug Addiction

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West

Caller Questions More:

1. JJ explains how the comfort circle helps couples communicate and calm down.

2. I went to Restore and found my voice; how do I not let my ex trigger me when he doesn’t communicate with me regarding the kids?

3. My husband’s 48yo stepdaughter moved in with us again because of finances, and nothing has changed since the last time.

4. I lost my husband to illness, my son and daughter-in-law died in a murder-suicide situation the same day my mother died; do I have PTSD? Is God punishing me?

5. My son has been using drugs for years and now he is paranoid; what do I do? He walked out of detox today.

Suggested Resources:

Emotionally Destructive Relationship

Take Your Life Back

Healing Is a Choice

Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD

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Topics: Boundaries, Intimacy, Affairs, Newlyweds, Friendship, Secrets, Trust, Betrayal

Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald

Caller Questions More:

1. Dr. Sheri shares insight on setting boundaries.

2. I have been married 7mos to a doctor, but we have only been intimate three times. What do I do?

3. Why do I keep on having failing friendships and meeting the wrong people?

4. I’ve been married 47yrs and saw a note on my husband’s desk that makes it look like he is talking to a therapist; I am also locked out of his email account. Do I say something to him?

Suggested Resources:

Intimate Deception

Take Your Life Back

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Topics: Addictions, Dating, Sexual Integrity, Childhood Trauma, Forgiveness, Negative Thoughts

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West

Caller Questions More:

1. JJ shares a tip about getting off course in recovery; you don’t have to start over, just get back on track where you lost your way.

2. Why does my fianc say we are married when he hasn’t even asked me to marry him? Meanwhile, he is sleeping with other women.

3. What could play out in my 30yo adult daughter’s marriage after she experienced severe verbal abuse and rejection from her mom when she was young?

4. How do I forgive my husband’s infidelity? I recently found out he had an affair during COVID with my best friend.

5. I am 57yo and have a lot of negative thoughts from childhood trauma; how do I stop them?

Suggested Resources:

Trust

How We Love

Changes That Heal

Worthy of Her Trust

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Topics: Christian Walk, Codependency, Intimacy, Friendship, Betrayal

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron

Caller Questions More:

1. Marc shares about pruning and asks us to look at our circumstances. Is the Lord allowing pruning to cut off the dead branches for you to be stronger? Or to make the fruit in your life even more productive?

2. My husband died from Agent Orange and would tell me that I was addicted to him; did he mean that I was codependent?

3. I have been married 58yrs, and my husband and I are constantly in conflict.

4. Why do I always invest everything in my friendships, but my friends are never there for me? I feel like I am taken advantage of.

5. I’ve been dealing with betrayal trauma in my marriage that came out during COVID.

Suggested Resources:

Changes That Heal

How We Love

People Fuel

Intimate Deception

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