New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics

In this episode, Lucas and Luna tackle a problem many first-time managers quietly struggle with: decision fatigue. Lucas shares a specific framework from a study of judges and parole decisions to illustrate how mental depletion erodes judgment by the afternoon. They discuss why new managers face an especially steep cognitive load — more decisions, less experience, and tighter feedback loops — and offer practical strategies like the 'two-list' system and scheduling decision blocks. Luna pushes back on the idea of outsourcing every small choice, arguing that some micro-decisions actually build team trust. They also touch on how company culture, meeting density, and Slack notifications compound the problem. No fluff, just a clear angle and concrete tactics for protecting your decision-making bandwidth.

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In this episode of New Manager Conversations, Lucas and Luna tackle a topic every new manager dreads: the status meeting. They break down why most status meetings waste 30 minutes of everyone's week and offer a specific framework to fix them. Lucas introduces the 'three-by-three' structure: three minutes of prep, three agenda items maximum, and a three-word status per person. They walk through a real example from a marketing team at a mid-size SaaS company, showing how one manager cut meeting time in half and doubled actionable output. Luna pushes back on whether this works for remote teams, and Lucas shares a simple async alternative. The episode also covers how to handle the urge to micromanage during status updates and when to kill the meeting entirely. Listeners walk away with one concrete change they can make to their next team meeting. If you're a new manager struggling to run meetings that don't suck, this one is for you.

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Episode 107 of New Manager Conversations explores a skill almost nobody teaches: how to accept feedback as a new boss. Lucas and Luna break down the specific psychological triggers that make direct reports hesitate to critique their manager, and why the classic 'feedback is a gift' advice backfires. They unpack a real example from a first-time engineering manager at a midsize SaaS company who learned that her team's silence was not agreement—it was avoidance. The hosts share a practical two-question framework for weekly check-ins that invites honest upward feedback without putting junior team members on the spot. They also discuss the one gesture that consistently reduced defensive reactions in a study of 80 new managers at a Fortune 500 retailer: simply saying 'Thank you. Can you tell me more?' without justifying, explaining, or fixing. If you have ever felt stung by feedback from someone you manage, this episode gives you a repeatable way to turn that moment into trust.

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Episode 106 of New Manager Conversations with Fexingo tackles the most daunting moment of the first 90 days: the first difficult performance conversation. Lucas and Luna break down a real-world case — a new manager named Priya who must address declining output from a ten-year veteran named Raj. They walk through the five-minute prep framework, the conversation structure that reduces defensiveness, and the follow-up process that turns critique into change. The episode includes specific language scripts, a distinction between coaching and managing out, and guidance on what to do if the employee gets emotional. No generic advice here — just a step-by-step playbook for the conversation every new manager dreads.

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Episode 105 of New Manager Conversations with Fexingo tackles a milestone most first-time leaders dread: planning and running a team offsite. Lucas and Luna walk through a real-world case — a new manager at a mid-sized B2B SaaS company, six months into the role, taking eight direct reports to a one-day offsite. They break down the pre-work (setting a clear purpose, gathering input without over-engineering), the agenda structure (morning reflection + afternoon decisions, not death by slides), and the post-offsite follow-through that actually builds momentum. The hosts also discuss the biggest trap: trying to fill every minute with content. With specific examples like a team charter exercise and a retro-style 'stop/start/continue' session, this episode gives new managers a concrete playbook. No theory — just what to do Monday morning.

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Episode 104 of New Manager Conversations with Fexingo tackles the single most underused tool in a new manager's toolkit: the weekly one-on-one. Lucas and Luna break down why most one-on-ones are a waste of time—and how to fix them. They walk through a concrete structure from manager coaching veteran Kim Scott, including the 'state of the union opener,' the five-minute rule for listening, and the one question that turns a status update into real coaching. Lucas shares a surprising stat from a 2023 Harvard Business Review study: managers who use a simple agenda template see 40 percent higher team engagement scores within three months. Luna pushes back on the 'weekly meeting creep' and they settle on a 25-minute formula that works for remote and in-person teams. If you're a new manager drowning in calendar invites that don't move the needle, this episode is your reset.

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Episode 103 of New Manager Conversations tackles one of the hardest and least-taught skills for first-time leaders: resolving conflict with peers in other departments. Lucas and Luna break down a real scenario—a new product manager clashing with engineering over deadlines—and walk through three specific moves: separating positional from personal stakes, finding the shared metric, and escalating without burning bridges. They draw on research from the Harvard Negotiation Project and a 2025 study on cross-functional friction in mid-size tech firms. No generic 'communicate better' advice—just a concrete framework you can use in your next cross-team standoff. Plus, a light reminder that listener support keeps the show ad-free.

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Episode 102 of New Manager Conversations tackles one of the hardest tests for a first-time manager: leading a team through a reorganisation. Lucas walks through a real scenario based on a mid-size tech company where a new manager named Priya was told her five-person team would be absorbed into a larger group, with two roles eliminated. Lucas and Luna break down the concrete moves Priya made in her first 90 days — from gathering information privately before the announcement, to framing the change with her team, to negotiating for her people in one-on-ones with her new boss. They discuss the emotional arc of reorgs, the importance of separating what you can control from what you can't, and how to rebuild trust when your team feels betrayed by the company. Luna shares a counter-example from a friend whose manager stayed silent, and they compare what that cost. No theory — just a specific playbook for a moment every manager will face eventually.

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New manager imposter syndrome is a hidden career trap. Lucas unpacks a 2024 study from Catalyst showing 67% of first-time managers report feeling like a fraud, and why it hits hardest during the first 90 days. He and Luna walk through the specific moments that trigger it: hiring someone older than you, giving feedback to a former peer, and sitting in your first budget meeting. They discuss a practical reframing technique called the 'competence log' and share how one engineering manager at a mid-size fintech used it to stop second-guessing every decision. No fluff, just a concrete tool for the transition from individual contributor to leader that the prior episodes haven't covered.

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Episode 100: Luna and Lucas tackle a challenge every new manager faces: who do you turn to for honest, unbiased advice when you can't go to your boss or your old peers? They explore the concept of a 'personal board of directors' — a small, handpicked group of mentors and peers from inside and outside your organisation. Lucas shares the story of a first-time manager at a mid-sized tech firm who, after a disastrous all-hands presentation, reached out to three people: a former boss, a peer in a different department, and a mentor from a previous industry. The episode breaks down what each person brought to the table and how the manager used that council to course-correct. No generic advice. No 'just find a mentor' platitudes. A specific, repeatable framework for building your own advisory network — even if you're introverted, even if you're the only new manager in your company.

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