Choose FREEDOM from Fear

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1) Fear of not measuring up

The only standard that matters is the one you set for yourself.

The judgement of others is irrelevant. 

Those who judge the harshest tend to have the most skeletons in their closet.

4) Fear of not knowing how to live in the world without porn or compulsive masturbation: 

When you take on the responsibilities of a man- the questions above become irrelevant.

You must dare to dream.

To truly reboot, you must master the art of facing your relapse head on. This is what separates the men from those who dabble.

In times of crisis, men who act in spite of their fears win.

At NewMenRising, we are anti-fear and anti- playing small.

I want you to THRIVE! And so I am stepping up in a huge way to support you.

I am offering a webinar on conquering fear and how to ATTACK your addiction.

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What’s unfolding today is the confluence of three pandemics: COVID-19, pornography, and anxiety. We are experiencing this toxic convergence.

Porn offers two experiences we haven’t been able to find in the coronavirus pandemic: relief and power. The relief and power porn offers however is not only temporary, it’s deeply problematic for two reasons:

By seeking and offering accountability in many areas of life, check-in phone calls become more interesting. 

In addition to aiding in sobriety, accountability partners can be there to help each other achieve both short-term and long-term goals. 

This will aid in overall recovery.

PornHub and other porn sites are experiencing record breaking traffic as more people are confined to their homes to prevent the spread of COVID-19.

2 ways you can respond as a man trying to quit porn.

Option #1: Attack.

Go on the offense. Rally and encourage your family. Tighten your boundaries. Increase your investment in improving your mindset, finances and any areas of weakness. Seek opportunities to thrive while other focus in surviving. TAKE ACTION.

Option #2: Defense

Victim. Play safe. Cut spending. Get Scared. Give in to anxiety. Keep your family in a state of paranoia and fear. Compulsively watch the news. Worry about job instead of finding new income sources. Lose hope.

Which do you choose?

The reason why men relapse is because they still hold on to some aspects of their old life.

You will continue relapsing if you do not identify the people, places and things which lead to a relapse.

In this podcast I discuss the questions that help identify all the major situations which lead to a relapse.

I also discuss the 10 reasons why men stay addicted to porn.

Today, March 8th is International Women’s Day.

Today, on a day that we celebrate women, we should consider and recognize the destruction porn has caused in our culture, society and personal lives for women.

The consumption of porn, gives a man many of the desires he seeks from women without him having to give himself in return. This leads to the objectification of women, and over time, the inability to connect with and find pleasure in real life, Human to Human interactions. We are failing to provide strength and protection to the women in our lives. 

We have failed them for the last time. 

Today, honor the women in your life with more than flowers. Take the first step towards authenticity. Stop consuming porn.