Victory Field overflowed with Best Buddies supporters of all ages wearing bright clothing, tiaras, tutus, sunglasses and pom-poms on April 19th for the Best Buddies Friendship Walk. The sound of laughter, celebration and making new friends drowned out the top hits playlist heard over the speakers.
Buddies wore matching face-paint butterflies and colorful balloon crowns as the 1,200-person crowd gathered around the Best Buddies inflatable arch for the mascot race, including the Indiana Pacers’ Boomer.
Colts Cheerleader Morgan McLain stood on the dugout in front of the cheering crowd to sign the national anthem using American Sign Language.
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Just as the walk was about to begin, bubbles filled the air as the crowd warmed up by dancing to Taylor Swift. Then, participants walked one mile around the field and continued the celebration.
Best Buddies is an internationally recognized non-profit organization which fosters friendships between people with and without disabilities.
Due to efforts by the international organization, the month of March is officially recognized as Best Buddies month. During this time, members can participate in spirit weeks, various activities and campaigns.
Best Buddies prioritizes a campaign known as “Spread the Word, ” an effort to end the use of the “R” word by spreading awareness about the term’s implications.
Founder, Anthony K. Shriver wrote, “This national campaign is dedicated to eliminating the use of the R-word — a term that demeans, insults, and discriminates against individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. The goal is not to shame — it is to challenge, to educate, and to encourage meaningful dialogue with friends, teammates, colleagues, and peers. Real change happens when culture shifts, and culture shifts one conversation at a time. Inclusion begins with awareness. It grows through action.”
The founder, Anthony K. Shriver was inspired to create Best Buddies by his Aunt Rosemary Kennedy. Ambassadors for the program include Cindy Crawford, Rob Lowe, Tom Brady, Savannah Guthrie, Guy Fieri and Pierce Brosnan.
Following this month of celebrating inclusion and awareness, local Best Buddies chapters participate in an event titled the “Friendship Walk.”
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The Best Buddies of Indiana’s friendship walk at Victory Field was the first time that the venue was used for this event. Friendship walk attendees ranged from buddies, peers, club advisors, parents and supporters.
There are over 5,400 participants in the program statewide. Between participating parties and fundraising teams, the walk raised over $155,000.
Sam and Brady, two boys who have been friends for nearly a decade, shared why they chose to come out to the event. “We’re all out here today to be part of the friendship walk and to have a super fun time,” Sam said.
Supporters stood tall in their Best Buddies gear as they beamed while making new friends at activity stations for all abilities.
Nicole, a mother of a student chapter member, shared what the Friendship Walk and Best Buddies has meant to her. She said, “I think it’s just a wonderful inclusion program for the kids, and just through that program he’s met a lot of people and gained a lot of confidence. As a parent, it really makes me happy to see him being included in different things. When we go to school events, seeing the other kids, who know him from the program, give him high fives and say hello, it really puts a big smile on his face. So, it’s really nice to know there are programs like this in Indiana. It just makes my mama-heart happy.”
Madison is one of Indiana’s Miss Amazing Pageant winners. She explained what she enjoys about the program, “I like to interact with new people, new friends, and just be yourself. It’s not all about winning.”
Gwen is a buddy in her high school chapter and shared what she has done with her school. “Being with friends, we hang out, we do fun stuff, we go to the zoo. Tons of fun,” Gwen said.
Caesar has a daughter with special needs and has witnessed the impact of Best Buddies on his daughter’s life. He said, “It’s been an incredible opportunity for Maya to socialize with other peers her age. That’s very difficult for her, having very severe special needs. Placing her in a place where she can be safe, in a good environment and with other kids having fun. [It] really brings joy to her life.”
Joe has a daughter with autism and shows support for his colleague with an intellectual disability. He explained why he continues to be involved with the program and how he’s seen the impact as a parent. “We are here supporting Best Buddies for a couple of reasons. I have a daughter with autism [and] I have a co-worker with some intellectual disabilities. He was the one who introduced the organization. I partnered with him a few years ago, and so just every year we’ve been coming back,” he said. Joe also shared, “It’s really incredible, as someone who has a daughter with an intellectual disability, it’s been really nice to connect with other people going through similar things as we are. It’s really nice to know that there’s people in the community that support people with autism as far as jobs, social skills, and what to do in life. There’s a lot of things as a parent you worry about for your kid, and you never know what the future will be like for them. To know that there is a huge community that supports her is amazing.”
Molly and Natalie are another Best Buddies pair who have been friends for nearly 20 years. They shared their journey with the program. “We’ve been buddies since 2008 and I’ve been with Best Buddies since 2002, when they first came down to Indy. I’ve been a long time Best Buddy, and so I am really happy to see this wonderful event and a lot of people,” Molly said. Natalie explained, “I just think Best Buddies is a really amazing organization. It impacts a lot of people. Coming here today, to the friendship walk, you see the mission in action. You’re seeing buddy pairs, you’re seeing people with and without disabilities spending time having fun. It’s just nice seeing everyone together for the same cause, the same mission, and to see people so excited.”
The Indiana University chapter of Best Buddies was also in attendance. James, Aiden and Dane are three of the peers who shared why they attended the friendship walk. “We’re just here with Indiana supporting a good cause… It’s nice to see everyone come together for a good cause… Being a part of Best Buddies has been really fun so I thought I’d finish the year strong,” they said.
These IU students also shared their favorite part about being involved with the IU chapter. James, Aiden and Dane shared, “I just like hanging out with all the people with IDD and making lives better… Yeah, making good friends, like I wouldn’t have known him if it weren’t for it…I’ve met a lot of good people through it, so it’s been a lot of fun.”
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WFHB Local News asked attendees to describe Best Buddies in one word. They said, “friend…fun…inclusion…inspiring…friendship…impactful…Inclusivity…joy…friends…exciting…fun…inclusion…loving…support…inclusion…being amazing and being yourself.”
Volunteers and participants emphasized the importance of Best Buddies. A common concept was how friends truly become family.
Best Buddies International offers different options to be involved with the program. This includes e-buddies which is a virtual friendship format and Citizens, which is for forming friendships amongst adults. IU students can find ways to get involved with the local chapter on the BeInvolved website. Furthermore, a Best Buddies inclusive-living program has been implemented in Bloomington. For more information on the organization and its resources, you can visit bestbuddies.org.
Special thanks to WFHB News Director Kade Young and WFHB News Correspondent Emma Maher.