In this week's episode, we take a trip down memory lane and talk about my past mistakes and what lessons I learned from the decisions I made (or didn't make). Relationships have always been difficult for me and my ability to be detached from my emotions landed me in complicated situations (entanglements). There is one story that seems to come to mind whenever I reflect back on who I was then and who I am now, and that's the story of how I accidentally became a side chick. When I was 19 years old, I didn't know anything about love, dating, or what it means to value yourself and not compromise your morals for the sake of someone else’s happiness. At 19 I was lost, angry, and did not give af about consequences or repercussions. I hope that this story falls on the ears of someone who is looking for the light at the end of the tunnel and who doesn't let her past define her.

Main Points:

- Why I decided to be emotionally unavailable.
- How did I accidentally become a sidechick?
- How did that shape my view of relationships?
- How did that shape my view of myself?
- What lessons did I take away from that situation.
- Where is he now?

Promotion

Listen to Last week's episode!

I Need a Male Friend/ B. Simones Manifesting Love Challenge

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nightcappin-with-neara-lee/id1547106958?i=1000510530668

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https://open.spotify.com/episode/5IAJBjGr6SUlploKKSUiqy?si=QZPp626YQhqVhUppOUogFA

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This week's episode is a little lengthy. Press play and hear me talk about my need for a male friend, how to date for romance while hanging out with male friends

We will talk about what B. Simone's manifesting-love challenge means to me and the 4 steps you must take BEFORE making your dream man list.

Have you seen Malcolm & Marie? Listen to Last week's episode!

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nightcappin-with-neara-lee/id1547106958?i=1000508501025

Listen on Spotify!

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5J5BmdYR4bympGVJOIInSH?si=YANBpf_1QU2sSOF10O2w5A

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There are so many things to be said about Malcolm and Marie. If you haven't seen it, please watch it before you listen! Whose side were you on? Who was right? Who was wrong? Relive this experience with hilarious commentary about the movie. Malcolm and Marie is the epitome of the 46th law in the book 48 Laws of Power. Press play and tune in as Neara Lee talks about the passion, love, and craziness of this movie!

Want a dating update? Listen to Last week's bonus episode!

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bonus-episode-dating-update/id1547106958?i=1000508434442

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https://open.spotify.com/episode/5J5BmdYR4bympGVJOIInSH?si=YANBpf_1QU2sSOF10O2w5A

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So on the last episode, I mentioned that I had begun dating again and my first date did not end so well...in fact, it didn't happen at all! I stood him up....we'll this bonus update episode is about what happens when I ran into him after I ghosted him.

Listen to the previous episode to hear about why I ghosted my first date!
https://www.podomatic.com/podcasts/smalltalkandnightcaps/episodes/2021-01-31T23_12_54-08_00

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This week's episode is about identifying the Habits, People, and/or thoughts that hold you back from being the best version of yourself. Hopefully, this episode will take you down the path to discovering why you "arent there yet" and what needs to be done to change it.

This week's nightcap is about living a little with a short story of my even shorter dating life.

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This week's Small Talk session is about why I decided to start a podcast, how I came up with the name, and what I hope to gain out of this experience. It can be a little scary exploring new passions, putting yourself out there, and seeing what happens. Press play and find out why I decided to do something out of the box.

This week's nightcap is about making space in your life for the things that you want. Making space for things that you want can be applied to relationships, weight loss, money management, anything. Do you know why you aren't where you want to be in life?

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https://twitter.com/talkinncappin

This episode is about starting over. We will talk about the benefits, the risks, the steps, and more. Plus you'll catch a glimpse of my random rants at the end.

This pilot episode is about relationships and what it means to be in one. This conversation was inspired by a clubhouse conversation I heard via Khleo Thomas's twitch stream.

This is the very first official episode of the Small Talk and Nightcaps Podcast with NearaLee. It's only right that the first episode airs on the last day of the year right? Join NearaLee in conversation about what this year has meant for us and what to expect next year.