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What begins as a chance meeting in Berlin becomes a conversation—one that moves attentively through difference, identity, and the long, uneven arc of returning to oneself. In dialogue with guest Tamia Hill (Mia), host Emeka Okereke reflects alongside her on how encounters—with people, places, and moments—serve as relational thresholds through which the self becomes legible to itself.
Together, they trace Tamia’s lived experiences: from early childhood familial reconfiguration, racialized difference, and emotional withdrawal, through dissociation, depression, and the gradual loss of agency, toward a slow process of healing and reclamation. Rather than being narrated in isolation, these experiences are held in relation—met with reflection, resonance, and philosophical inquiry, yet approached through the ordinary and the mundane exchange of stories. Berlin appears not just as a metropolitan destination, but as a crossroads: a space where new encounters mirror emerging aspects of the self, and where identity unfolds through myriad insightful and transformational refractions.
The conversation moves fluidly through cycles of birth, death, and renewal in personal identity, touching on trauma, negation (by both self and society), and the construction of “character” as survival, before opening into shared questions of trust, embodiment, and self-recognition. Transformation is approached not as resolution, but as an ongoing movement—one shaped through dialogue, attentiveness, and the courage to allow experience to pass through without fixing its outcome.
This is not an interview, not a set of answers, not self-help content.
It is an ordinary, unpretentious enactment of encounter between two individuals whose paths cross in a city long characterised as a place where trajectories intersect, within a world that is becoming increasingly multi-polar. It traces how difference shapes us, how agency is lost and reclaimed, and how encounters—when met in presence—become mirrors along the long arc back to oneself.
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