Do you end up blaming someone or something else, i.e., enter defence mode or end up blaming yourself?

Should we expect things from people? Or are we happier having zero expectations?

Chinthikya polumulilatha karyangal insecurity akunath egane?

Oru preshnavumilathe irikyuna samayath, enthukondanu avishyamilatha preshnam ondaki idukunath? Ath human nature ano? Atho enikyu mathram ulla preshnam ano?

Njan control cheyyan struggle cheyune oru emotion anu deshyam. Ath innum enikyu ond, pakshe ente reethiyil ath control cheyyan sremikyunond. Pakshe njan ith control cheyth verumbozhekum, too late akuvo?