God Wasn’t a Man, the Fruit Wasn’t Sin, and the Church Ain’t the Plug

What if everything you were taught about Adam and Eve was backwards?

✨What if the serpent was sacred, the fruit was a portal, and Eve wasn’t the villain, but the divine feminine daring to awaken? 👁️

In this explosive episode of No! But Seriously… Let Me Explain, La La DàVie peels back the layers of colonized religion to reveal the spiritual truth hidden in plain sight. We’re diving deep into the metaphysics of Eden, the real meaning of “the fall,” the soul trap of reincarnation, and how religion was weaponized to suppress ancestral memory and feminine power.

Get ready for a no-holds-barred breakdown of:

• Why “original sin” was never sin at all
• The serpent as sacred Kundalini energy
• Churches as vibrational traps
• How reincarnation may be a spiritual recycling scam
• And how YOU can exit the matrix through remembrance and soul sovereignty

This isn’t about bashing faith, it’s about freeing it.  So grab your tea, open your third eye, and brace yourself for the episode your pastor warned you about.

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App: Black Knowledge        
Thank GOD Adam & Eve Ate the Apple   
Eve, Eden & the Metaphor of Consciousness   
Kundalini, Shakti & the Serpent as Sacred Energy

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Adam, Eve, and the Serpent: Sex and Politics in Early Christianity         
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In this eye-opening episode, we’re diving deep into the emotional, psychological, and energetic shifts that happen to a woman based on who she’s with. Is she really anxious, or is she reacting to dishonesty? Is she controlling, or is she tired of parenting a grown man? Is her independence empowering or is it survival?

We explore how a woman’s behavior is often a mirror of the energy she’s receiving in her relationship. From feeling safe and childlike with a secure man, to becoming hard and overworked with a partner who lacks direction; this conversation gets real about how love (or the lack of it) transforms us.

We’re not here to bash men or idealize women, but to have a raw, honest talk about roles, responsibility, and relationship dynamics that are often misunderstood.

Whether you’re in a relationship, healing from one, or reevaluating the patterns you keep repeating, this episode will challenge how you view yourself and your past connections.

Before you diagnose yourself with a broken heart or call yourself “too emotional,” ask yourself: What role did they cast me in—and who did I become because of it?

Tune in. This one might change how you see everything.

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In this raw and soul-stirring episode, we dive deep into the unspoken struggles many couples face: how two people from completely different emotional backgrounds can ever hope to build a lasting love without first understanding each other’s wounds.

We unpack how speaking harshly over your relationship plants seeds of destruction, why honest conversations about your upbringing are essential for true connection, and why teaching your partner how to love you isn’t weakness; it’s wisdom.

We’ll explore how a man’s energy sets the emotional climate of the relationship, why emotional safety will always matter more than material gifts, and why so many people unknowingly sabotage real love by holding onto the ghosts of their past.

If you’ve ever wrestled with feeling unseen, unsafe, or misunderstood in love, this conversation will challenge you, heal you, and maybe even change the way you approach relationships forever.

Because real love? It demands more than chemistry and it demands growth.

Key Takeaways:

 • Why “teaching someone how to love you” is powerful, not desperate.

 • How emotional safety impacts attraction, vulnerability, and longevity.

 • Why consistency will always outweigh grand gestures in a healthy relationship.

 • How your childhood experiences are shaping your romantic decisions — whether you realize it or not.

 • How real love challenges you, while surface-level love leaves you comfortable but stagnant.

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7 Cups
The Love Language Quiz

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Talk Space
Better Help| Professional Therapy

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Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner             
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Think soul ties are just some woo-woo fairy tale? Think again. In this episode, we’re snatching the pretty bow off “casual connections” and exposing the very real, very messy contracts you might be unknowingly signing every time you share your energy. From pair-bonding with people who mirror your deepest wounds to stacking up karmic debt like unpaid credit cards, we’re breaking down how casual flings can leave you spiritually bankrupt or catapult you into your biggest awakening yet.

We’ll dive deep into:

•Why your “situationship” might be a karmic lesson in stilettos.

•How unhealed trauma is the real matchmaker behind most relationships.

•Why hurting a spiritual person could accidentally enroll you into your own personal Dark Night of the Soul.

•How words, frequencies, and manifestation are shaping your love life (and possibly ruining it).

Expect truth bombs, side-eyes, hard laughs, and a little spiritual side-eye therapy as we make you think twice before building a bed you don’t plan to lay in for the long haul.

Grab your journal, grab your sage, and maybe text your ex a thank you note, because once you hear this, you’ll never ‘just vibe’ with people the same way again.

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Insight Timer
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Soul Ties Quiz for Couples

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Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner             
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Why do some people cling to love, while others run from it? Why do you feel anxious when someone pulls away or numb when they get too close? In this deep-dive episode, we explore the powerful world of attachment styles and how they shape every romantic relationship we experience.

You’ll get a full breakdown of the four main attachment styles—Secure, Anxious, Dismissive-Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized) and how these emotional blueprints are created, often in early childhood through your connection with caregivers.

Inside the Episode:

•Origins of Attachment: How early life experiences program your emotional wiring and determine your attachment style.

•Consequences of Each Style:

•Secure: Healthy boundaries, emotional regulation, strong communication.

•Anxious: Fear of abandonment, emotional highs and lows, clinginess.

•Dismissive-Avoidant: Emotional suppression, hyper-independence, fear of vulnerability.

•Fearful-Avoidant: Craving closeness but pushing it away, emotional chaos, trauma bonding.

•Communication Patterns: How each style expresses (or avoids) feelings, asks for needs, or shuts down in conflict.

•Spotlight on Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment: Why this style often gets labeled “emotionally unavailable,” how it differs from narcissism, and why they aren’t the same thing.

•Attraction Dynamics: Which styles tend to attract one another and why? (Spoiler: Anxious + Avoidant is the most common, and often the most painful.)

•Attachment Pairings: What happens when Secure meets Anxious? Or Avoidant meets Fearful? Understand the compatibility, the challenges, and how to build emotional bridges.

This episode is your emotional masterclass on love and intimacy. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of yourself, your partner, and the path toward more secure, connected, and conscious love.  Listen now and begin healing the way you love, just one insight at a time.

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Join your lovely host, La La DàVie, as we delve deep into the intricate world of power dynamics within relationships. In an era where connections can often feel fleeting and superficial, how do couples forge something meaningful and lasting?

We explore the foundations of equality, mutual respect, and communication, shedding light on the pivotal role power dynamics play in either building or breaking a relationship. As La La DàVie guides you through this essential conversation, expect to gain insights that will help rekindle and strengthen your connection with your partner.

“True love is not about perfection. It is hidden in flaws and acceptance.” – Unknown.

Get ready for a heartfelt discussion, practical advice, and stories that resonate. Whether you’re in a relationship or searching for that meaningful connection, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and discover tools and strategies that empower you and your partner to grow together, even in a world that seems to rush past meaningful encounters.

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Welcome to another episode of No! But Seriously: Let Me Explain…, the hottest podcast where we break down complex topics for everyday understanding. In this episode, "Justified Reparations", we dive deep into the pressing topic of reparations—something that's on everyone's radar, but how many of us are actively pursuing our rightful claims? Join us as we unravel the intricate web of subrogation strategy and empower you with the knowledge to take action.

Listen in as we share inspiring real-life stories, including the remarkable journey of Latisha Johnson, who defied the odds and turned the tables on the system to secure her victory. We'll discuss the critical importance of knowing your rights, unveil the secrets of Suretyship, and equip you with actionable strategies to claim the reparations you deserve.

Tune in and discover how you can transform awareness into action and make your voice heard in the quest for justice!

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Welcome to another episode of No! But Seriously: Let Me Explain…, the hottest podcast where we break down complex topics for everyday understanding. In this episode, "Legal Tactics," we dive deep into essential strategies for preparing for court and maximizing your chances of a favorable outcome. Whether you're facing a legal battle or just want to be informed, we've got you covered with a practical guide and insider tips.

We'll also explore what law enforcement officers need to conduct an investigatory stop. Understanding your rights and the requirements officers must meet can make all the difference in these situations.

Tune in for an insightful and empowering discussion that demystifies the legal process and equips you with the knowledge you need to navigate the justice system confidently. Don't miss it!

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Welcome to an eye-opening episode of "No! But Seriously: Let Me Explain…"! I'm your host, La La DàVie, and today we're diving deep into a hot-button topic that's taking over our social media feeds: "Hyper Sexuality." Ever found yourself scrolling through Instagram, bombarded with tantalizing images that leave little to the imagination? You're not alone. This episode uncovers the pervasive culture of hyper-sexualization and its impact on our lives.

Meet Lisa, a successful businesswoman who found herself trapped in relentless sexual urges, unable to control her desires. Her story is a compelling narrative that mirrors the struggles many face in a society fixated on hyper-sexuality. We'll explore how excessive sexual behavior, recognized as a mental disorder under DSM-5, can wreak havoc on one's self-esteem, relationships, career, and health.

Tune in as we dissect the societal pressures, insecurities, and quest for validation that fuel this behavior. But it’s not all doom and gloom—there’s hope! Discover effective strategies to confront hyper-sexuality, build self-esteem, and foster healthier relationships.

Whether it’s dealing with societal norms, overcoming past traumas, or addressing low self-esteem, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips to help you or someone you know navigate and manage compulsive sexual behavior. Join us for a candid and supportive discussion that aims to enlighten and empower. Don't miss out!  If you know someone that is currently showing signs of hyper sexual  behavior or maybe just interested in hearing all about it - then this episode is just for you!

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Today, we dive deep into the dynamics of loyalty, relationships, and societal norms and fully dissecting why some guys seem to prioritize their homies over their significant others.

Sure, there's the stereotype of bros before hoes, but let's peel back the layers. It's not just about loyalty; it's about fear, communication, and societal conditioning.

Some guys may have underlying trauma from past relationships, leading to a fear of intimacy and a preference for shallow connections with their friends. Others might be poor communicators, blaming their partners for everything and playing the victim.

But why the emphasis on loyalty to the homies? It's about street credibility, avoiding drama, and fearing consequences. Betraying your boys can have serious repercussions, unlike relationships where the consequences might not seem as immediate or severe.

Yet, it's ironic that men stay loyal to systems that suppress them, all while fearing their partners will leave them for someone more powerful. It's a cycle of domination and fear perpetuated by societal norms.

We're witnessing broken homes and betrayed friendships, where loyalty is warped into something toxic. But is it really about bros before hoes, or is it about fear of making new connections and challenging societal norms?

As we navigate these complexities, let's challenge the status quo and strive for healthier, more equitable relationships. After all, true strength isn't in dominating others but in building genuine connections and fostering mutual respect.

So, whether you're a bro or a significant other, let's redefine loyalty and break free from toxic conditioning. Because in the end, it's not about gender superiority but about creating a world where everyone can thrive.

Join the conversation, challenge the narrative, and let's pave the way for healthier relationships and a more equitable society. This is your power message, your call to action.  Grab your headphones, and let's make a difference, together!! 

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Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner         
Jump-Start Your Cash Cushion: Planning for Retirement         
Lush Credit Secrets : Inside Secrets to Creating Financial Wealth

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