Nita struggles with those who still try to push control over her and how they react with such hurt and dismay when they run head first into a boundary that she is learning are the healthiest things in the world as she begins the new journey of putting herself first. The journey where loving herself and choosing herself first will bring internal Nita and external Nita still closer together which will make a woman whole enough to give and receive love, to be cherished and to cherish... Our Nita finally accepts she has no control but her reactions and as she limits others access to her, she limits their attempts at controlling her.