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In this episode, we sit down with Michella to talk about the unimaginable—losing her daughter, Zinnia, to a drunk driver—and how that loss became the foundation for real change.
Michella shares who Zinnia truly was: her laughter, her love for life, her carnival spirit, and the energy she brought into every room. She walks us through the day of the crash, the ambulance ride, the hospital hours, and the moment no parent should ever face. This is not a headline—it’s the reality families live with long after the news cycle ends.
From grief, we move into hard questions. What does justice mean when a life is gone forever? Why do investigations take years? How do weak consequences, delayed evidence, and broken trust in systems fail victims’ families? We unpack how culture, nightlife norms, and the bystander effect contribute to drunk driving—and why awareness alone is not enough.
Out of this loss came Amigo Didi, a sober-driving initiative created in Zinnia’s memory. We talk practical solutions that can save lives right now: sober drivers, ride credits, education that shows the human cost, accountability for repeat offenders, and making the safe choice the easy choice—especially during high-risk weekends and carnival season.
Michelle also opens up about forgiveness—not as forgetting, but as a way to heal while still demanding change. This conversation is for parents, friends, venue owners, leaders, and anyone who goes out at night. If even one person gets home safely because of this story, it matters.
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