In this special birthday episode, we’re celebrating another trip around the sun with stories, reflections, and plenty of laughs. Join us as we look back on the moments that shaped the past year—both the unexpected challenges and the beautiful surprises—and talk about what it means to grow, reinvent, and step boldly into a new chapter.

We’ve all been there — trying to make something work long after it’s stopped feeling right. This week, we’re talking about knowing when to let go of relationships and friendships that no longer serve you. How do you know it’s time? Why is it so hard? And what does healing look like afterward? Let’s get real about outgrowing people and moving forward with love.

It was supposed to be easy — friends, benefits, and no drama. But when the fine print changes, things get messy. Join us as we talk about catching feelings, moving goalposts, and why “keeping it casual” rarely stays that way

In this episode, we explore the emotional journey of those who love deeply, give freely, and often find themselves carrying the weight of one-sided relationships, unspoken expectations, and emotional exhaustion.

We’ll dive into: Why empaths and big-hearted people attract emotional pain. The hidden strength behind vulnerability and compassion. How boundaries can protect your heart without hardening

In this episode, I share the story of how I met my husband right here in New York City — not at a bar, not through friends, but on Facebook Dating. What started with a swipe turned into something real. From awkward first messages to our unforgettable first date, and everything in between, this is a modern queer love story with a little tech twist and a whole lot of heart.

Growing up queer isn’t just about discovering your identity — it’s about navigating school hallways, hiding crushes, decoding family expectations, and learning to love yourself in a world that often tells you not to. In this episode, we dive into the experiences of growing up LGBTQ+: the awkward moments, the heartaches, the joy of that first “I think I might be…” and everything in between. Whether you’re out, closeted, questioning, or reminiscing, this one’s for you. 🌈

Breakups are rarely simple, but what happens when the romance ends and you try to stay… friends? In this episode, we dive into the complicated, sometimes beautiful, sometimes messy world of being friends with an ex. Is it healthy? Is it possible? And when is it just a terrible idea? We’ll explore the emotional realities, set some ground rules, and share stories (both wins and fails) from people who’ve tried it. Whether you're considering texting your ex or setting clear boundaries, this one’s for you.

In this episode, we’re stepping into the spotlight — unapologetically. It’s time to stop playing the supporting role in your own life and start embracing your main character energy. We’ll talk about what it really means to choose yourself, set boundaries, reclaim your narrative, and take bold action toward the life you actually want — not the one you've settled for.

In this episode of Life Unfiltered , we’re talking about the uncomfortable — but all too common — situation of people constantly asking for money and crossing personal boundaries.

Zaa"Fir shares real experiences and honest reflections on what happens when generosity is mistaken for obligation. Why do some people keep asking? How do you say no without guilt? And where do you draw the line between helping and being taken advantage of?

This is where excuses die and discipline begins. Real talk for real change, through the noise with raw advice, brutal honesty, and unapologetic strategies to help you stop waiting on a handout - and start building your own way up.