✨ Instead of focusing on what THEY want, we’re gaining clarity on what YOU want! 

This episode is about going from “Am I good enough? 😔” to “Are they what I’m looking for? 🧐”

Listen to this episode if you’re someone (queer or straight 👀) seeking dating advice on setting relationship standards, knowing your worth, and walking away when it’s not in alignment.

🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode:

• ​⚡️ The "Couple Goals" Illusion: Stop pedestalizing relationships you only see on the surface. Pluck what resonates and leave the rest!

• ​⚡️ The Ice Cream Shop: Walk away when the "menu" doesn't match your request—trying to force it is a waste of your time. 

• ​⚡️ “Tickling Booties": A good moan and groan doesn’t equal a partner who’s aligned and compatible.

• ​⚡️ Toxic Femininity & Overgiving: A candid look at the "Take-Take-Take" vs. "Give-Give-Give" dynamics in both straight and queer relationships.

• ​⚡️ Willingness vs. Capability: Just because they may want to show up doesn't mean they have the emotional maturity, time, or capacity to properly do so.

💎 Top Takeaway: Wearing rose-colored glasses to make a situation that's "good on paper" work is foolish and a waste of time. Be clear on exactly what you want, because that’s the only way you’re gonna get it!

📣 Cuddle Up and Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: What's one thing you know you want but haven't had the courage to ask for?

And remember, there's No Love Lost… only wisdom gained!

✨ Welcome to the first official episode of No Love Lost. We aren't just talking about dating; we’re talking about the social programming that tells us to shrink, settle, and play small for the sake of being chosen.

🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode:

• Autopilot Dating: How we repeat toxic cycles just because they feel "normal."

• The Subconscious "Pick Me": Shifting from "Do they want me?" to "Does this person align with the life I’m building?"

• Titles vs. Commitment: Why a romantic label doesn't mean anything if they aren't showing up for the connection.

• Nagging vs. Growth: Stop nagging your friends and asking why your lover did X, Y, Z. Either take your concerns directly to your lover—or take yourself out of the equation. Simple!

• Emotional Safety: True safety isn't "they like me more than I like them" or “everything looks good on paper.” Real safety is fully being yourself without walking on eggshells and being deeply fulfilled in areas that matter to YOU!

💎 Top Takeaway: You shouldn't be with someone who hinders the version of you that you actually like. If you have to stifle your humor or your spirit to fit in their box, that’s not a relationship—that’s a prison cell.

📣 Cuddle Up and Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: What was the moment you realized you liked the attention more than you liked the person?

And remember, there’s No Love Lost… only wisdom gained!