– The Harsh Truth About Success & Loyalty
(Inspired by Jack Ma’s Unfiltered Wisdom)

1. The Brutal Reality No One Admits
    "When you’re struggling, people clap. When you succeed, they vanish—or worse, sabotage you."
    Jack Ma’s Story:
        Failed high school twice, mocked by peers.
For instance:
        When I became an engineer, "friends" saw me as competition.
        Even spiritual growth (Kundalini awakening in 2 years vs. decades) triggered jealousy.
    Chinese Proverb: "The greatest pleasure is watching a friend fall from a roof."
    Why It Happens: Most relationships are transactional, not loyal.
2. The 3 Stages of "Friendship" in Success
    The Cheering Phase:
        "You can do it!" (When you’re no threat.)
    The Silence Phase:
        You outgrow them  They withdraw.
    The Sabotage Phase:
        "You think you’re better than us?" (Their insecurity speaks.)
Example: My classmates supported me until my engineering career threatened their job prospects.
3. What to Do When You Realize This
    Stop Expecting Loyalty:
        People support what benefits them, not your dream.
    Build Alliances, Not Dependencies:
        Partnerships  Friendships in business.
    Trust Only Two Things:
        Your Own Resolve ("I don’t need applause to build.")
        God/Universe ("Divine purpose doesn’t need committees.")
4. The Freedom in This Truth
    No More People-Pleasing: Focus on impact, not approval.
    Silent Grind: The greatest empires (Alibaba included) were built in isolation first.
    Clarity = Power:
        "When you accept no one is your friend, you stop making emotional decisions."
5. Jack Ma’s Survival Blueprint
    Expect Betrayal: It’s not personal—it’s human nature.
    Become Self-Sufficient: Skills  connections.
    Loyalty Test:
        "Who sticks around when I fail?" (Spoiler: Very few.)
Final Warning & Empowerment
    "Success is lonely because it’s a solo journey. But that loneliness is your armor."
Your Move Today:
    Write down one dream you’ve delayed for fear of judgment.
    Cross out one "friend" who doubts you (mentally or literally).
    Act without announcing it.
Remember:
    Jesus had 12 disciples; 1 betrayed Him.
    Steve Jobs was fired by his own board.
    Jack Ma was rejected 30+ times before Alibaba.
You’re in legendary company. Now go build.
(For more unfiltered truths, watch Jack Ma’s full speech.)
Why This Works:
    Psychology: Social pain (betrayal) activates the same brain regions as physical pain. Accepting this numbs the sting.
    History: Every icon—from Einstein to Oprah—faced isolation before breakthroughs.
    You: That anger? Channel it into unstoppable action.
Question: Who’s one person you thought was a friend but vanished when you leveled up? (Name them silently. Then let them go.) 


My Video:  No One Is Your Friend https://youtu.be/jNgerZyOfM8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/No-One-Is-Your-Friend.mp3