What if the beliefs you’ve held close, the very things that gave you purpose, suddenly seemed like strangers?

How do you hold on to meaning when it feels like it’s slipping through your fingers?

These were the questions that weighed down the wealthy, famous writer Tolstoy.
Even though he had a loving family and children…
Nothing was missing to enjoy his life…
Yet, he was consumed by an inner emptiness.
In his 50s, he faced an existential crisis…
What is my life’s purpose?What is all of this for?Why am I here?Why should I continue living if everything I love and cherish will ultimately fade away?

Tolstoy’s own meaning of life—his fame and success—felt like an illusion to him.
Because it is so…For a religious seeker, fame, success, money, and family are just illusions.

He wanted to find something that would last and give him a reason to keep going.

For every religious person, worldly life is meaningless and often disgusting.

In his autobiography, Confession, his search for meaning brought him to the verge of suicide.
Personal satisfaction becomes a hollow pursuit; it doesn’t give us meaning.
In the end, he discovered a truth that was as simple as it was profound…
But meaningless for religious people!

Tolstoy realized that meaning could not be found in grand pursuits or intellectual answers but in acts of humility, connecting with others, and accepting life as it is.
Only by merging myself with the whole of humanity could I find my life’s purpose!

Life has no meaning, nor is it meaningless. (Quote Bhagwan or Osho.)

Tolstoy failed. Without a spiritual connection to God—found through contemplation—life has no meaning.

You have to look beyond your physical body, emotions, and thoughts.

“I can’t die; I am energy.” These were the last words of Wilhelm Einstein.

I don’t want to brag, but I was clinically dead three times or had three near-death experiences.
I read everything I could find about near-death experiences… Guess what? What I experienced is normal, and what all religions say about death is a big lie to exploit people.
You can never die! There is no hell, no paradise, no Moksha, and no Nirvana. But there is God!

You have never felt such unlimited freedom as many feel when leaving their bodies.
God wanted me to come back into my body—my cage—and so I did.

If you surrender your life to God, your life will make sense to you!

Instead of running like a hungry dog after worldly pleasures! (Quote Attar, the greatest Sufi.)

When my child died, my life fell apart…

My only focus in life became my spiritual journey, and God came to me… God became my purpose.
I spent over ten years in meditation retreats because life doesn’t make sense without surrendering to God.

We have the choice: to be slaves to our egos or to God.

When religions lost their grip on people, they began searching for purpose or meaning in their lives—or to make a difference in the world.

How disgusting is this sentence? I call this megalomania!
How does one become humble by serving the Lord?Do it for God!

The meaning of life or purpose is for irreligious people.


 My Video:  Tolstoy's Surprising Solution to the Meaning of Life https://youtu.be/FpsQNNtXqvs
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Tolstoy's-Surprising-Solution-to-the-Meaning-of-Life.mp3

 Today, in the past and in the future this formula works/worked and will work…
They present somebody who could never find the solution/recipe/healing … And then they sell some awkward solution that never will help…
Don’t buy in such Merry Tales…
These Merry Tales are sold from all Religions in the world (paradise/hell/enlightenment, moksha, never get reborn). Today the same Merry Tales are sold from about 50% of the Advertisement on the internet.  
How would it be if you believe in yourself, in your capabilities, instead to trust any internet advertisement?
I can tell you stories from me where I was incurable ill and healed them all by myself. Because I believe that every disease is curable with the help of God … 
And I never wish that you will be in such worse situations I already was …
For instance, through an accident my back was incurable. Also, I had strong scoliosis. I always said to these awful doctors and even to the best orthopedic doctors… You are wrong! I did the opposite what they have recommended to me.And today my back is straight and better than before. Why? Because I did the opposite what the doctors were telling me!!!
Question: Do you still believe in these Titles or positions? You need just to be an American President then everything is true?! Or what? The people getting the positions or titles to exploit better people. 
I believe in God and never believe in anything until I have tried it out!!!For me is God real, so real like you!Before, I was an atheist who got never baptized in any Religion… I don’t need to be baptized, or I don’t need any Religion, to be religious…. For what? Religions want to sell their dreams to become rich.  
And do you think that any sold strategy of the internet had helped me…? For sure not!! Because all of these B.S. strategies offered on the internet to cure your back has only one idea to make money… 
Trust yourself, trust God and never trust anybody who makes a living with:
I have an easy strategy with miracles cure…With my strategy, everybody is getting richI always win on the stock market…
There will rarely be any strategy that is easy to implement and gives you all that you want!
You don’t get anything for free… only this block… 

My Video: Selling Dreams and delivering B.S. https://youtu.be/eYzylcZJZlIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Selling-Dreams-and-delivering-B.S..mp3

 How to find out who is lying?
There exist sciences proved evident how to spot a liar. First, we should find out:
Why people lie? Or why do we lie?
Be honest! 
If we would tell everything our sweetheart,…Think this over what will happen?
In a relationship should we keep a secret so that our partner doesn’t get hurt? Or should we tell the truth immediately even it breaks the person?  
We lie to protect our friends and us from the truth.
We are against lying and covertly for it, and that starts with our childhood.
The truth hurts.And the truth always finds his way, regardless of how good we cover it up.
We can only postpone the truth and never suppress it all the time.In the meantime, we win time. And that is good so.
Lying is an attempt to bridge our fantasias how we wish to be or what we really like…
In average we lie 10 to 200 times/day
When strangers meet each other, they lie 3 times in the first 10 minutes
1.) We lie more to strangers than to coworker.2.) Extroverts lie more than introverts.3.) Men lie 8times more to themselves than to other people.4.) Women lie more to protect other people.5.) Married couples lie 10% in every underlying action why they do it.

What is if we deceive or to cheat a person to profit from that?.
The Corporations in the USA cheat nearly 1 Trillion Dollar per year. This is huge and even better than the organized crime!

How to cheat and deceive?
Find out what the people want and are hungry for…And then sell dreams and deliver B.S. like the Motivation speaker, Stock market trader. 
Because everybody is willing to give you something whatever they are hungry for…
When you don’t like to be deceived look for what you are hungry for…
And recognize these Cheaters with their:
1.) Easy to get rich-formula, 2.) to get healthy, 3.) to lose weight, 4.) to become attractive… 5.) to become successful.
Most of all Motivation speaker, Marketing experts use our hungriness to cheat us.

If we want to spot a lie, we need the reason why that person will lie. 

1.) The person likes to distance himself from that subject he/she lies about.
2.) We have to communicate with that person to find out if he/she is lying. 
3.) An honest person is likely cooperative, open, helpful to get to the truth, provide details.  
4.) A dishonest person is withdrawn, looking down, lower their voice, pause.
5.) If you ask a deceptive guy to tell their story… he/she brings too many details which nobody will care for (irrelevant), and he/she illogically tells their story. 6.) Then ask them to tell their story backward… they can’t. 7.) Or the liar gets fast furious about the topic, and when you change the subject, the anger disappears immediately. If you come back to the issue again anger… He doesn’t want to speak or to be confronted with that problem because he has to lie. 
We need evidence!
1.) Ask uncomfortable questions, be curious, look for contradiction,  2.) confront the person, 3.) look at how he/she reacts, 4.) are his/her emotions real and fitting to the situation? 
Still, remain polite and friendly; otherwise, the liar recognizes your intention.

Body language signals of lying.
1.) When they lie, the muscles of their upper body contracts.
2.) Or a fake smile it is a reduced smile with the lips and no smiling with the eyes… 
3.) Shrug their shoulders, head shakes.
4.) Expression of contempt, cover up their anger.
5.) One lip-corner pulls up and turns in asynchronous expression.
6.) Shift their blink rate.
7.) Point their feeds toward an exit.
8.) They will put objects between themselves and the other person to protect them
9.) They alter the vocal tone to much lower 
10.) They like to speak faster and be nervous. 


My Video: How to spot lies? https://youtu.be/k2Ycv0ea1nAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-spot-lies.mp3

 As a man, I describe that men are different… And women misinterpret us… 
 1.)  A man is rather more mind orientated and a women more heart orientated…   Problem-solving makes him feel good! Logic makes him feel good! Being mind-oriented makes him want to fix. It's just how he relates to the world.
A man can not fix the emotions of his spouse. The emotions of females are even scary for men.  
Solution: feel your emotions, let your feelings come and go; without disturbing your partner with your feelings. 
Nobody can understand with the mind emotions nor can you explain why you have at this moment this feeling… In any case who cares. Feel your emotions and let them go. Many men may not understand the strong emotional reaction of their spouse. Still, he wants to help. To the same time, he can not help… That makes him feel overwhelmed…
Women should not explain why they feel so, just say it is enough if you are close to me and be silent…   until the emotions are over. 


2.) Men pull away from women in a close relationship because they like to be independent and autonomous. They need their space to define themselves. Women pull away because they feel negative emotions, got hurt….  And when the man pulls away, they think that they have done something wrong… 
The Females needs intimacy, and if the man pulls away they feel hurt… And they can’t understand that men don’t need so much intimacy … 
Let the man separates for a while so that he can recover and feel love again… Many men hate when women always act like a sling plant… they need their space!
3.) Men like to provide to make women happy …
And he likes to give without to get pressed or to fulfill her desires. 
And the women like to organize and don’t want to give the room for free giving … 
For instance, my father liked to give as a surprise something, and my mother wanted rather more that he is delivering exactly what she wants…
Give more space to the man; otherwise, he doesn’t like to be the provider anymore or to function for his spouse! 
Remember, a man feels competent by doing. A woman feels loved by being taken care of.
If you want your relationship run smoother, give up some control and let a man start doing things for you. Everyone will be much happier as a result.
My Video: How to deal with men in relationships? https://youtu.be/ew6LxVTLJp0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-deal-with-men-in-relationships.mp3

 

No one can be good for long if goodness is not in demand.
Don't be afraid of death so much as an inadequate life.
Because things are the way they are, things will not stay the way they are.
Grub first, then ethics.
He who laughs has not yet heard the bad news.
War is like love; it always finds a way.
People remain what they are even if their faces fall apart.
Why be a man when you can be a success?
Everyone chases after happiness, not noticing that happiness is right at their heels.
What's breaking into a bank compared with founding a bank?
The law was made for one thing alone, for the exploitation of those who don't understand it, or are prevented by naked misery from obeying it.
Whenever there are great virtues, it's a sure sign something's wrong.
Intelligence is not to make no mistakes, but quickly to see how to make them good.
To live means to finesse the processes to which one is subjugated.
From the cradle to the coffin underwear comes first.
People are too durable, that's their main trouble. They can do too much to themselves, they last too long.
Poverty makes you wise but it's a curse.Poverty makes you sad as well as wise.
Unhappy the land that is in need of heroes.
The finest plans have always been spoiled by the littleness of them that should carry them out. Even emperors can't do it all by themselves.
There are many elements to a campaign. Leadership is number one. Everything else is number two.
The world of knowledge takes a crazy turn when teachers themselves are taught to learn.
Don't tell me peace has broken out.

 Imagine you are a baby and your mother force you not to cry.Do you think that this will work?
Imagine you do positive thinking and force yourself to be positive… Do you think that this will work? 
And both is the same!
Express your negative emotions, don’t suppress them! The Feelings are creating thoughts. It is only a one-way road, science proofed! Thoughts can’t create emotions!
There exist no great Actor or Singer who doesn’t express their feelings on the stage totally!What is then bad on emotions? 
People who never have studied psychology have created positive thinking… 
The side effects of positive thinking are devastating diseases… and that is good for the doctors…  
And always, in the end, it proves that Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich had been right…
We have to remove our negative suppressed feelings and traumas to change ourselves. 
Otherwise our traumas, suppressed feelings will sabotage our success or outcome…
What is inside is outside, every obstacle that we face outside is created through our psychology and that have proved at least Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich … 
And there is no way around it… 
Freud had used Hypnosis, and still, it is not good enough? 
The today Hypnosis is done with positive thinking and NLP… And so the Hypnosis is not efficient anymore! How stupid because the Positive thinkers have done so!!!! 
For instance, if I make a Hypnosis Mp3 and hear it every night before I sleep for at least 30 days. I can change a lot with releasing of my negative suppressed feelings… even I am not aware of it!… 
And then I attract the things that I need without forcing anything… 
Life is simple, or we make it difficult! 
For instance, I was in the Male Menopause and had huge sexual problems; I didn’t like to have sex… 
What to do? 
Hypnosis. Here is a part of my Hypnosis script (I am a certified Hypnotist)
Relax and relax more and more.
Remember and feel that you have failed in the bed. Remember these devastating moments and let them go.You have 1 minute time.
Remember and feel your fears of being together with an unknown woman in the bed… And let them go.You have 1 minute.
Think of any moralities that prevent you from having sex with any women. And let them go.You have 1 minute.
Forget all of your bad experience in the bed together with a woman.
Relax and relax more. Notice how relaxed you are right now.
Remember the beautiful moments when you had sex with so different women, and you had no problem. 
Remember for 2 minutes those moments.……
It goes on and on, and I address later all of my sexual problems…
Life is simple or we make it difficult!
I hope this will help You!!! 

My Video: You can’t force it! https://youtu.be/1zDVtmTDyMwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-can’t-force-it.mp3

 When you do not like your work, make two lists. One list should be of what you like about your work, and the other list should be what you do not want. Also, think about what you can afford while working at this job. 
Choose one or two tasks you do not want and focus on how to make them good and fun in the next months. 
Check the reason why you do not like these tasks. If your idea or attitude is wrong, then change them. Maybe you see these tasks from a mistaken viewpoint. Ask friends to help you to improve your opinion about these tasks to become happy through these tasks. 
Check your mindset about these tasks until you are happy and fulfilled through these tasks, and you have accomplished your goal. See the good in everything, or do you prefer to suffer? One boss said to me, ‘What you cannot or do not like, you have to do this to become better.’ He said, ‘I know you have problems with phoning that you’ll need to call me about, so I give you my extension when I am not at my desk.’  Unfortunately, I had two chiefs, and the other manager made the same. So then I had to make for them the phone calls and even had to decide for them. I learned a lot.

We have our happiness in our hands!
If we have boring work to do, we can do a meditation out of them or just relax. Stressful jobs are challenging us to remain relaxed and focused.
We can solve problems with colleagues if we change the way we talk to and approach them. There are many books for dealing with difficult people. We can learn so much and even have fun trying out the different strategies to deal with difficult people.
Stupid people cultivate their weakness, sorrow, and ego, while wise people eliminate their weakness, pain, and ego.
Even if I am qualified, I should be able to make any type of work without any complaints. Life shows us again and again how fast we can slip down and have to start again with a simple task to make money.
I remember my time at the ashram. Nobody liked to wash the dishes after midnight. Imagine pots and dishes from over twenty thousand people. Nevertheless, we always had a group of people for this task. One time, it had been three professors, one doctor, and me. The group chose me as the supervisor; this meant I had more to do than the others did. Imagine a room, 300 square foot, filled with pots and dishes. We did this chore without hesitation or complaint. For everyone, it was just very natural to do this chore.

My Video: How to make your work fun? https://youtu.be/CzYpspYnM3IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-make-your-work-fun.mp3

 

Learning vs. Acquisition: 
What Matters More? 
1. Learning (Conscious Knowledge):
Rules, grammar, and vocabulary studied deliberately.
Example: Memorizing verb conjugations from a textbook.
2. Acquisition (Subconscious Knowledge):
Internalized language you use without thinking (like your native tongue).
Example: Speaking fluently in conversations.
Science says: Focus on acquisition—it’s how we naturally master languages.
How Acquisition WorksComes from understanding messages in context.
Requires comprehensible input (language slightly above your level but mostly understandable).
Why Apps Often Fail?Most apps teach through:
Repetition without real-world application.
Translation-based drills (inefficient).
Better alternatives:
Online teachers who speak only the target language (no translation).
Tools like Pimsleur that prompt direct responses in the language.
The Baby Method: Learn Like a Native SpeakerChildren acquire language by:
Listening to slow, clear speech paired with visual context (e.g., pointing to an apple while saying "apple").
Focusing on meaning—not grammar rules.
Absorbing stories and real-world interactions.
Key Insight:
Grammar is acquired subconsciously through exposure, not memorization.
Example: You learned English grammar by reading books, not studying textbooks.
Grammar: Stop "Learning" ItProblem: Explicit grammar study doesn’t lead to fluency.
Students forget rules when speaking.
Mistakes persist because the brain prioritizes meaning over correctness.
Solution:
Get comprehensible input (95% understandable content).
Grammar sticks automatically when you focus on messages, not rules.
Vocabulary: Ditch FlashcardsWords are acquired:
Incidentally: Through reading/listening to engaging content.
Incrementally: By inferring meaning from context.
Example:
Read a sentence with 1–2 unknown words.
Guess the meaning from context or ask for clarification.
Result: Vocabulary enters your subconscious effortlessly.
Actionable Steps to FluencyPrioritize input over output: Listen/read before speaking.
Choose compelling content (interesting podcasts, books, shows).
Seek "i+1" input (slightly challenging but mostly comprehensible).
Avoid translation—think directly in the target language.
Embrace mistakes—they’re part of acquisition.
Key TakeawaysAcquisition > Learning: Fluency comes from understanding, not memorization.
Babies are the model: Focus on meaning, not rules.
Input matters most: Engage with content you mostly understand.
Patience pays off: Grammar and vocabulary emerge naturally.
Final Tip: Spend 80% of your time on comprehensible input (reading/listening) and 20% on speaking/writing.
Why This WorksBacked by Stephen Krashen’s Input Hypothesis (language acquisition theory).
Mimics how humans naturally learn first languages.
Proven by polyglots and immersion-based programs.

My Video: How to REALLY Learn Languages https://youtu.be/R_w4YfMkCPgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-REALLY-Learn-Languages.mp3

 We want love, and we go to the wrong people and suffer. Or we choose the wrong moment and get a slap in our face…. 
Why do we act in such a stupid way? I have seen many times, when I was not open for a new love story I became the target of girls… And the same I have done by myself… 
So cooler I am so more attractive? Seems so? 
Maybe we need this slap in our face? If we run behind women/men, they run away, because they recognize our intention… If we need their love, how can these people produce this love?
On the other hand, we want much more than love… our body wants sex, our emotions intimacy…  If we need love, we should give us first love…. If we love ourselves, we are attractive to the others… 
The same story is when we are attracted to people, who don’t care for us. - We try to get attention from them or even to make many things for them to be attractive by them. 
It is different if we are desperate and people like to help us because they have compassion for us. 
Maybe, quite a lot of people loves/likes us, and we ignore them even they are doing a lot for us… Why are they not attractive to us? Why do we run after people to get rejected who don’t care for us…? 
Life is too short to waste a single second with anyone who doesn’t appreciate or value us. The second best strategy that brings us great suffering is that we want everybody loves us.Maybe this is still alive from our babyhood… 
A healthy baby knows already to which people it should go to get love and attention, the other people it will omit. 
Different people like different people, it is impossible to be loved by everybody. My previous Guru Bhagwan said, for every friend I make, I get a new enemy - after the law of polarity. 
The wisdom of Buddha is, to be friendly and kind to everybody without having any relationship.  Because a relationship is sorrow (Buddha). 
If we selflessly love and serve everybody, we are beyond worldly matters… and even we get beaten up, we create out of every arrow a bunch of roses (Buddha). When we get a slap in our right side of our face, we should turn our face and beg for the next slap on our left side face… (Jesus). 
Great quotes by the Religions to exploit the people!!! Life is different!First, Love yourself.  You are the most import person in your life!

My Video: Why suffer when We want love? https://youtu.be/RmnOlz6e7UAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-suffer-when-We-want-love.mp3

 Why is it so important to be prepared and to live in the here and now? And this is even true for an army….
“No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength"  Quote from the greatest Army strategist: Graf Moltke. 
If we are not prepared for new situations, we can fail. For instance an examination, a speech over an unknown subject for an auditorium… 
When we are well prepared to face that situation, we often fail. Because we want to apply all that we have prepared for.  Instead to look at what is needed to do. 
For instance, if we listen to discussions, we realize that very often the people do not listen but speak… and the results are lousy… 
We should act according to the situation and not as we want… 
And this is true for every area of our life.
This means that we are well prepared, and when we in the situation, we forget every plan and do what the best is. 
The situation is bigger than our preparation because there are so many components that we can’t calculate. 
And this is the meaning of the quote “No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength" from the genie Graf Moltke. 
Without preparation, we can’t get the outcome. It is too time-consuming to speak about details in a subject, where the people have too less knowledge. 
Everybody should be prepared, or we can’t go into details.
It looks like common sense and common sense is not common practice.  
My Video: Preparation is a must but adapt to the situation. https://youtu.be/CW2n5_FRSm4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Preparation-is-a-must-but-adapt-to-the-situation..mp3