You have no room for God, so you can't see God at work. All people and circumstances are in your life for your best no matter how you feel or think about them. Every good thing, every bad thing are in your life for a perfect reason. BUT, you cannot and do not see life that way, because "ME" fills everything you see. All of the space in your eyes, mind and heart prevent you from seeing God's perfect work unfolding right in front of you.