In this episode, join hosts Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick as they dive into the vital concept of "practice, not perfection." They explore how everyday practice is essential not just for personal growth but also for effective leadership. Discover how great leaders model serenity and encourage their teams to embrace the learning process, rather than getting tangled in the pursuit of perfection. 

Tune in as the Pauls discuss the importance of recognizing individual differences in skills and functionality, and learn how to assess abilities with empathy and understanding. This conversation will inspire you to lead with intention and help others cultivate their crafts without the pressure of perfectionism. Join us for insights that can transform your leadership style and foster a more productive, creative environment.

Join the No Sheep Left Behind crew, along with special guest Pastor Chris Bennett, for a conversation about the power of vulnerability. The grace of God in Christ offers abundant life and the freedom to share our complete stories, even when it feels counterintuitive. Pastor Chris discusses his transformation after opening up about his struggle with sexual addiction. This act of vulnerability has positively impacted his community, and now he encourages others to find a safe community of Jesus followers who are willing to share their lives fully, experiencing the faith, hope, and love that we are all looking for.

Join the No Sheep Left Behind crew as we welcome special guest Dr. Daniel Henley for an insightful discussion of this year’s Right Relationship Conference, happening on November 14-15. Relationships are the cornerstone of our work, ministry, and family life. To truly thrive, we must grasp and embrace God's design for our connections. This conference provides an opportunity for families, churches, and organizations to step into the calling God has for them. Together, we can strengthen our community ties and propel Memphis forward. Don’t miss out—register now at churchdevelopersnetwork.com

Join Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick as they delve into part two of the complex journey of grieving unfulfilled expectations, which can be seen as a vital aspect of the forgiveness process. Throughout this discussion, they will highlight the emotional turmoil that often arises from unmet expectations and how it can significantly impact our relationships and personal well-being.

Together, they will explore the origins of these expectations—why we form them in the first place and the role they play in our lives. They will examine how societal norms, personal experiences, and our desires for connection shape what we expect from ourselves and others.

Furthermore, the conversation will address the phenomenon of "fake forgiveness," where individuals may go through the motions of forgiving someone without truly processing their feelings or achieving genuine closure. This often leads to unresolved emotions and a lack of healing.

By unpacking these themes, Paul and Paul aim to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of their own emotional landscapes and the tools necessary for authentic forgiveness and healing. Join us for this insightful exploration, and discover how embracing the process of grieving expectations can lead to a more profound sense of peace and acceptance.

Dive into a world of growth and discovery with Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick as they explore the rich soil of relationships through the lens of the parable of the soils. In this engaging podcast, they'll show you that while relationships can sometimes get messy, they are also incredibly enlightening!

Imagine a community where soil meets soil, creating a nurturing environment for growth. Just like plants thrive on sunlight, our relationships flourish when we embrace openness, honesty, and forgiveness. Tune in as Paul and Paul cultivate inspiring ideas and share powerful insights on how getting a little dirty can lead to profound personal and communal growth.

Don’t miss out on this opportunity to dig deep into the heart of relationships. Check out the podcast and discover just how vital it is to get in the dirt and nurture those connections!

Join Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick as they delve into the complex journey of grieving unfulfilled expectations, which can be seen as a vital aspect of the forgiveness process. Throughout this discussion, they will highlight the emotional turmoil that often arises from unmet expectations and how it can significantly impact our relationships and personal well-being.

Together, they will explore the origins of these expectations—why we form them in the first place and the role they play in our lives. They will examine how societal norms, personal experiences, and our desires for connection shape what we expect from ourselves and others.

Furthermore, the conversation will address the phenomenon of "fake forgiveness," where individuals may go through the motions of forgiving someone without truly processing their feelings or achieving genuine closure. This often leads to unresolved emotions and a lack of healing.

By unpacking these themes, Paul and Paul aim to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of their own emotional landscapes and the tools necessary for authentic forgiveness and healing. Join us for this insightful exploration, and discover how embracing the process of grieving expectations can lead to a more profound sense of peace and acceptance.

Join the No Sheep Left Behind crew as they embark on a thought-provoking journey into the realm of leadership with Dr. Ken Steorts, the founder and director of Visible Music College. In this engaging discussion, Dr. Steorts delves deeply into the profound importance of leading with genuine connection. He emphasizes that effective leadership goes beyond merely managing tasks; it requires building meaningful relationships based on trust and understanding.

Dr. Steorts highlights the significance of intentionality in leadership. Leaders must not only have a clear vision but also strive to engage authentically with their teams. This intentional approach fosters an environment where everyone feels valued and understood, paving the way for collaboration and growth.

Transparency emerges as a crucial theme in the conversation, as Dr. Steorts discusses his strategy for referring students to team leaders whose strengths lie in working with certain personalities. By being transparent, leaders create a space for team members to connect with leaders who will benefit them the most effectively. 

Join Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick as they explore a minimized aspect of pop movie culture: the importance of quality relationships as a fundamental element of storytelling. In an age where flashy visuals and high-stakes action often take center stage, the depth and complexity of meaningful relationships get pushed to the background. Have we lost the value of strong and healthy relationships amid the noise of modern cinema? The No Sheep Left Behind Crew invites you to explore this intriguing topic, emphasizing that it is relationships that form the core of compelling narratives in both films and real life. Relationships shape our lives and influence our personal development, as well as the trajectory of our stories.

Join the enthusiastic No Sheep Left Behind crew and special guest, Dr. Jathaniel Cavitt, as we explore leadership through the lens of regenerative agriculture. Leaders, are you finding yourself expending more energy than you receive? Are you experiencing burnout or compassion fatigue? Tune in to discover valuable strategies for thriving within your means through adaptive stewardship.

Join Paul and Paul as they explore the distinction between coping with suffering and building capacity through it. It's not enough to be aware of your thoughts and feelings; we need to expand our window of tolerance to overcome adversity. Join Paul and Paul as they delve into an essential conversation about the difference between merely coping with suffering and developing resilience through it. Coping can often mean getting through tough times without fully addressing the underlying issues; however, building resilience involves actively transforming our experiences into opportunities for growth.


Both awareness of our thoughts and feelings and the ability to confront and process them are key components of this journey. While recognizing our emotional states is a critical first step, it isn't sufficient on its own. To truly overcome adversity, we need to work on expanding our window of tolerance. This concept refers to our ability to manage stress and adversity.

When we broaden this capacity, we can navigate challenges with greater ease and strength.
Join in on this enlightening discussion to learn practical strategies for enhancing your resilience and transforming your relationship with suffering. It's about more than just survival; it's about thriving in the face of life's difficulties.